| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 3/2/2008 4:38:41 AM | | I have lived in Louisiana for 2 years now and I have a question. Are there any men that are attractive to BBWs ( big beautiful women) here.It seems to me that the ones I have met that are , are not worth the time of day. We may be big women, but we are attractive and yes even sexy, well for the most part, we have great personalities and are fun to be with. But it seems to me that most men have it stuck in their head that BBWs are ugly ( look around men there are more beautiful big women then what you think) they think we are slobs , and I can't answer for everyone, but most of us are not. and I have notice that there men who are undercover BBW lovers.Why they keep it a secret I have no idea, but anyways, back to my question. Are there any men that love a big woman ? And if your a man who has never gone out with a big woman would you ever consider it? | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:08:57 PM | i think you are an attractive lady be you big, average or skinny.
you dont look anywhere near 46 either.
one thing i DONT like about your profile is that you smoke, not that i would try to change you to not smoke but thats what would turn me off........straight away.
if you are not bothered about your size put up pictures that show you fully, you wear nice clothes and a very pretty so show the rest of yourself off.
some guys might read " BBW" see that you dont show the rest of your body and then think you are conscious of your body and that you are worried in some way about your self .
be as confident in your pictures as you are in your words. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:31:13 AM | | Im a BBW and very proud of myself. Am I completely happy with the way I look? Of course not but I'm not ashamed by any means. Skinny chicks are for wimps anyway. I totally agree with what the other lady said. Most men are so shallow minded its sickening. I did say MOST not all. I love how some men will secretly meet and share intimate time with a BBW but in public date the skinny chicks. Shallow I tell ya. So afraid of judgement themselves. Anyway. I'm 35 and from the Lake Charles area. If anyone is interested in chatting get in touch. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:44:21 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^
there does appear , however some bitterness in your post.
" skinny chicks are for wimps anyway"........what does that statement say, to me you are jealous because you aint skinny.
" most men are so shallow minded its sickening"........and women arn`t shallow in this respect, so some women dont actually write on their profiles- " no tubby or fat men should contact me as i WONT reply ".........and that isnt being shallow.
It works both ways.
Both sexes it appears are " guilty" of what you are writing and as bad as each other.
Society and people , the media are biased towards thin or skinny.
But , ladies please remember that there are a lot of " overweight" or " fat " or " tubby" men who a lot of women wouldnt be seen dead with , purely because these men are considered " fat". | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/19/2008 6:24:15 PM | well i have never been with a skinny woman and never will i love women with curves  so yes i find BBWs very attractive | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:17:53 PM | | all women are beautiful. i know its old hat to say this but it is whats on the inside | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 6/29/2008 9:02:03 AM | A BIG, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, Need not be ashamed of the size package, it is what is inside that counts. Just be honest about yourself.
Are you a bit above average, a BBW, or a Super Sized Woman .
You are what you are and there is some one looking at you, for what you are.
So post that full length photo along with your cute face, This will take any guess work out of the situation, Just sit back and reap the rewards being a BBW. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 7/20/2008 12:45:52 AM | | I am a BBW and yes there are men out here in Louisiana that date exclusivly BBW... and I agree, its whats inside that counts, but not many trophy seeking men will glance sideways, and to me, its thier loss. There are group meet and greets in Baton Rouge and a few other cities around...you might google it | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 1/8/2009 7:15:49 PM | i ve been in new orleans an i love bbw women but when you speak to them they act there better than everyone around would love to meet a bbw woman in new orleans email me garsue4u@yahoo or here just look me up under nannermasher | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 1/9/2009 1:32:04 AM | | Amen, Mfc! I can't agree more. I hope there is a wonderful man for people like us! | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/3/2009 12:45:55 AM | Hey there cerulyan
I just wanted to say that I myself am a BBW, I havent been all my life. I was in an accident in 2003, that paralized me for 2 months in the bed for a year and now 6 years later I am walking with no assitance, except long walks or vacations. I have worked hard to get where I am. I was always about a size 14 and now I am far from that. I did though gain almost 80 lbs in 3 years after the accident. I have now managed to lose 50 of those pounds. Just by changing my diet alone. I know that men struggle with woman who are overweight, but imagine being that way and severly disabled. I dont frown on it anymore. I am a strong woman and am working hard to get back to the way I used to be, or close anyway. I am looking for a man now that will love me for who I am not what I look like . I feel beautiful but everytime I look in the mirror it so hard to find the beauty in my body. I go to the YMCA now at least 2 times a week to workout and I am trying to quit smoking too. Just remember cerulyan that if you love yourself first that it will be easy for someone else to love you. I hope there is a man in OP Florida or surrounding cities that is looking for a true Big Beautiful Woman a.k.a. BBW. Well good luck to you hon and may God Bless you.  | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 4/5/2009 6:00:17 AM | The term, "no man is an island" is a good way of approaching this issue. Society, acting with the dominant voice of one (usually through the mass media) tends to frown upon obesity. Men, concerned about how they might be viewed, are prone to take on an air of distaste, simply in "keeping in step" with public opinion.
The truth of the matter is this: males are subject to a variety of preferences, regarding female sexuality, many of them are turned on by "fuller" women, but some, more easily influenced ones, feel compelled to conform to the "group's" view.
Sad! | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:45:10 PM | | THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH DATING A BBW. I THINK BBWS ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL AND THEY KNOW HOW TO TREAT A MAN. PEOPLE SHOULDNT JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR COVER. BY THE WAY I LOVE BBWS. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:15:59 PM | big fat women should not claim that they are beautiful .
The men are the ones who decide if you are beautiful or not.
Just because you *claim* that you are beautiful does not make it true
To do well in life First stop lying to yourself | |
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| Big Beautiful Women
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:55:31 PM | | Yes, there are guys who are into fat chicks, they are usually way overweight as well. I take it that's what the Op means by "not worth the time of day". So, a little hypocritical to call out men for being shallow, and then discrediting the few guys who are interested. Guys who like BBWs (chubby chasers or whatever) are pretty rare, at least I've never met any guys who would come out and declare it. From my experience, BBWs are usually not the proud, "sassy" type the movies portray. More often than not there are major insecurities at work there, whether it's because of the weight or the cause of the weight is a whole other issue. | |
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