| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 3/2/2008 4:38:41 AM | | I have lived in Louisiana for 2 years now and I have a question. Are there any men that are attractive to BBWs ( big beautiful women) here.It seems to me that the ones I have met that are , are not worth the time of day. We may be big women, but we are attractive and yes even sexy, well for the most part, we have great personalities and are fun to be with. But it seems to me that most men have it stuck in their head that BBWs are ugly ( look around men there are more beautiful big women then what you think) they think we are slobs , and I can't answer for everyone, but most of us are not. and I have notice that there men who are undercover BBW lovers.Why they keep it a secret I have no idea, but anyways, back to my question. Are there any men that love a big woman ? And if your a man who has never gone out with a big woman would you ever consider it? | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 3/2/2008 12:08:57 PM | i think you are an attractive lady be you big, average or skinny.
you dont look anywhere near 46 either.
one thing i DONT like about your profile is that you smoke, not that i would try to change you to not smoke but thats what would turn me off........straight away.
if you are not bothered about your size put up pictures that show you fully, you wear nice clothes and a very pretty so show the rest of yourself off.
some guys might read " BBW" see that you dont show the rest of your body and then think you are conscious of your body and that you are worried in some way about your self .
be as confident in your pictures as you are in your words. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 4/9/2008 9:31:13 AM | | Im a BBW and very proud of myself. Am I completely happy with the way I look? Of course not but I'm not ashamed by any means. Skinny chicks are for wimps anyway. I totally agree with what the other lady said. Most men are so shallow minded its sickening. I did say MOST not all. I love how some men will secretly meet and share intimate time with a BBW but in public date the skinny chicks. Shallow I tell ya. So afraid of judgement themselves. Anyway. I'm 35 and from the Lake Charles area. If anyone is interested in chatting get in touch. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 4/9/2008 4:44:21 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^ there does appear , however some bitterness in your post.
" skinny chicks are for wimps anyway"........what does that statement say, to me you are jealous because you aint skinny.
" most men are so shallow minded its sickening"........and women arn`t shallow in this respect, so some women dont actually write on their profiles- " no tubby or fat men should contact me as i WONT reply ".........and that isnt being shallow.
It works both ways.
Both sexes it appears are " guilty" of what you are writing and as bad as each other.
Society and people , the media are biased towards thin or skinny.
But , ladies please remember that there are a lot of " overweight" or " fat " or " tubby" men who a lot of women wouldnt be seen dead with , purely because these men are considered " fat". | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 4/19/2008 6:24:15 PM | well i have never been with a skinny woman and never will i love women with curves so yes i find BBWs very attractive | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 4/24/2008 5:17:53 PM | | all women are beautiful. i know its old hat to say this but it is whats on the inside | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 6/29/2008 9:02:03 AM | A BIG, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, Need not be ashamed of the size package, it is what is inside that counts. Just be honest about yourself. Are you a bit above average, a BBW, or a Super Sized Woman . You are what you are and there is some one looking at you, for what you are. So post that full length photo along with your cute face, This will take any guess work out of the situation, Just sit back and reap the rewards being a BBW. | |
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| Big Beautiful Women Posted: 7/20/2008 12:45:52 AM | | I am a BBW and yes there are men out here in Louisiana that date exclusivly BBW... and I agree, its whats inside that counts, but not many trophy seeking men will glance sideways, and to me, its thier loss. There are group meet and greets in Baton Rouge and a few other cities around...you might google it | |
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