| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:03:13 AM | | So, you had a great date. She's cuter than her pictures. She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again? For something more than Sex? Would you consider having a relationship with her? | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:08:35 AM | So, you had a great date. She's cuter than her pictures. She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again? For something more than Sex? Would you consider having a relationship with her?
not likely i would have sex on the first date,but for the sake of arguement.of course i would.i am pretty sure the guys that wouldnt are not going to say so on here. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:10:51 AM | Can't answer as far as the whole sex thing goes. I wouldn't think about going that far.
But farting at dinner would be pretty funny, to be honest. Who needs these stereotypical perfect first dates that you dream about... | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:10:58 AM | | I would not consider a relationship with her. I mean, come on! Putting out on the first date? That would tell me she's either a bit on the desperate side, or she likes to "spread" (no pun intended) "it around". | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:17:20 AM |
Would you consider having a relationship with her?
How would that work, exactly? It would be anti-climatic and awkward, which is why both people usually don't bother. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:27:15 AM | (I would not consider a relationship with her. I mean, come on! Putting out on the first date? That would tell me she's either a bit on the desperate side, or she likes to "spread" (no pun intended) "it around".)
wow! if she is desperate, i wonder what that makes that guy??
i personally would never have sex on a first date. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:29:05 AM | She did not fart at dinner? No way I am hitting it until I hear a bowel movement of some sort.  The only way to tell the robotic psycho stepford wives or zombie girls from the normal ones is to hear a fart. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:31:42 AM |
So, will you call her again? For something more than Sex? Would you consider having a relationship with her?
I have had relationships with women after they put out on first or second dates. One of them lasted several years.
But if a woman doesn't put out until marriage or some other silly rule, I won't even consider it. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:38:57 AM | Hey Foxx!
When two people choose to have sex is not an issue. I don't believe this says anything about anyone other then the two are attracted to each other and they want to have sex.
Maybe they just want sex or maybe they want to show each other how much they like each other. Pretty simple to tell the difference.
What puts me off are the women that have specific rules about it. I judge these people as someone that will use sex as a tool and these are the ones to avoid. Old fashioned is out the window for me.... | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:40:39 AM | Sure, why not? I mean really if you meet some one you have a great conection with and a lot of Physical attraction and sexual chemistry to boot, why would you not consider that relationship material? Doesn't mean it will last, or work out. You still face the same risks you would have faced if she hadn't rocked your world, But it's just one more facet that you know your compatable on. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:45:53 AM | If she puts out b/c she has a healthy attitude...why pass up good sex?
If she puts out b/c she's needy or crazy or some other attribute... | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:52:47 AM | So, will you call her again?
I suppose I could put up with an annoying woman for 2 minutes at a time. For great sex, sure. For a relationship, no. 
Would you consider having a relationship with her?
For a relationship to happen, you have to be appealing in more than just a sexual way. If you are meeting guys who hit and run, then you are missing that something extra, for them. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 11:53:03 AM |
If she puts out b/c she has a healthy attitude...why pass up good sex?
If she puts out b/c she's needy or crazy or some other attribute...
I have to agree here. If it was good, it was good. What does it matter if you had sex... unless the other person is a little off kilter?
My ex wife "put out" on our first date, and I ended up married to her. The arbitrary rules bother me more than anything. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 12:05:11 PM | | Of course I'd consider it, but I wouldn't feel obligated to start a relationship simply because we did. Odds are, if we slept together, I'd be into her anyway. Lots of people do it on the first or second date and many of my relationships have started that way. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 12:10:32 PM |
So, you had a great date. She's cuter than her pictures. She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again?
No, I absolutely hate having great sex with beautiful women... *shudder*. Well d'uh! I call her again. Hell, she might have a hard time getting me to *go home* ;-).
For something more than Sex? Would you consider having a relationship with her?
Well, I tell ya. One of my first POF experiences went alot like that. Then there were some misunderstandings, and I lost her. But by gawd I do wish I had handled it better... yep, even Cowboys make mistakes :-(.
We had sex on our first date. Big deal, we're all grownups here. I'd still have had a relationship with her in a heartbeat.
Cowboy | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 12:47:49 PM |
She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again?
It depends...
Did he fart during sex?
If so, was he a Bugle bum, a Fart blossom, a Fartmeister, or a Methane maker?
For something more than Sex?
If he was a farter, I'd call only to check if he wants to participate in a Fartathlon.
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 12:48:37 PM |
So, you had a great date. She's cuter than her pictures. She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again?
A physical attraction, obviously... And a mental one, as well, if the conversation was great.
Yeah, I would. With a night like that, of course we'd be into each other. Why miss out on, at the very least, a good friend. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:04:26 PM | OP
I wouldn't have gone for more in the first place but to answer your question in context...
Why not? I made a decision to take it that way, why not follow through. Now you do have to consider that there are two points of view here. He may not share your thoughts on the sex or post sex happenings. Just keep that in mind not to ruin your question but to remind people there are two points of view not just yours and your interpretation of his. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:04:52 PM | sex on the first date is usually the kiss of death to any kind of extended relationship. there may be instant infatuation, chemistry, and complete attraction. however if you really are smitten by this person -wouldn't you like to take it slow, as not to screw it up (no pun intended) | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:11:39 PM | | Of course I would call her again. I don't date people I don't already know pretty well. If I'm willing to date them, chances are that I already consider them potential relationship material. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:20:01 PM | I assume if the conversation went all night that you two were hitting it off and feeling a connection.
Connections like that don't always happen, and when you both feel a connection, it's magical. The physical connection probably happened because of the way you two hit off earlier in the evening.
I'd call. | |
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| Putting out on the first date.
Posted: 3/3/2008 1:30:24 PM | Hahahahaha!
If he farted during sex I wouldn't have let him leave. He'd be in my basement with all the other entertaining freaks I keep around for party favors! | |
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