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 Sexycandy22

Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 1
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 5:19:06 AM
I really need to know that just because i do sometimes , after i cum i cry like not out loud but just shed some tears i know its weired and all but i do, I lost 2 boyfriends cause of that and i try to not do it but its just comes out and iv been like that for a while now, I dont know whay to do
 MrVitamix

Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 2
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 5:24:10 AM
been too long in between having sex...
 Trailsman5

Joined: 4/10/2006
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 5:52:48 AM
Oh Sweetie, you're just getting caught up in the moment. I'll bet you cry at movies too.

A good guy who is into you will understand and just pull you closer.
 stephenlikesto

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 5:58:27 AM
There's nothing wrong with that - people cry because they are happy not just because they are sad. Just tell them they are tears of happiness and smile and they should understand. If they are not tears of happiness just tell them it reminded you of the time when you did it with (insert name) when it had been so much better.
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 5
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 5:59:05 AM
My Gf will cry after having very intense orgasms,especially during anal sex. It worried me at first until she told me how good it felt. now I just hold her afterward.
 GREAT EXPERT 800

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 6
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 6:21:31 AM
i had a few chix cry after sex because they were married and felt guilty for cheating...lol i told her the damage already been done...don't cry now...lol
 textodd11

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 6:23:20 AM
^^^^ Yeah, I had one cry once that I had met at a convention and after we were done she cries and THEN tells me she's married. Niiiiice lady.

I guess it kind of depends on why she's crying.

If it's out of happiness; that's cool and no problem.

If it's because she's sad or has other issues and is dealing with some sort of repressed emotion then eventually, it might become a problem. Not because of the crying itself but because she probably has larger issues with sex that she needs to deal with before engaging in a sexual relationship.
 laughinglibra

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 6:24:42 AM
Don't cry because it's over.......... smile because it happened.
 Gone awol

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 9
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 6:56:54 AM
Sometimes tears have nothing to do with crying, they are just signs of emotion, that doesnt have to be a negative one.
I can listen to certain pieces of music that induce tears from my eyes but i'm not crying, i'm not sad.
I'm just a physically emotional person, like yourself.
Nowt wrong with that.
 paul.guy

Joined: 3/5/2008
Msg: 10
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 7:02:17 AM
an orgasm is such an intense release that many women cry afterward, some also laugh, that can be a little more of a problem if the man does not understand why it happens.

it is normal...don't worry about it.
 Harry Peter

Joined: 12/25/2006
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 7:12:36 AM
I cry when I spank my monkey.
 soloudinhere

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 7:25:01 AM

Not because of the crying itself but because she probably has larger issues with sex that she needs to deal with before engaging in a sexual relationship.


Alternatively, sometimes the best ways to work through this type of thing is to be in a sexual relationship with an understanding person. Not that the other person needs to solve the issue for them, but because sometimes the last steps really require another person.
 merry0709

Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 13
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:35:08 AM
Sometimes when things are really good and incredibly intense, just the emotional and physical release will get tears flowing, especially if it has been a long time and you really needed it. If a guy gets freaked out, just explain to him this and that is is kind of from the intensity, just like eating a big moutful of wasabi--just overwhelming, and that you are not being over emotional and not freaking out. It`s more of a physical reaction. like sneezing when you look at the sun or getting the hiccups. It just is. It`s not a big deal. Or you can just say, "That was so damn good, it brought me to tears, and give him a big hug and drop it."
If you explain this and a guys still can`t handle it, he`s messed up. Find a new lover.
 expat57

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:35:51 AM
Sometimes I cry after sex. It feels like a deep body release. It's not about him or us, it's just physical. Being held when it happens blends the carnal with our emotional connection. It's a near blissful place for me to be.
 expat57

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:38:30 AM
"...just like eating a big mouthful of wasabi--"

(And I do so like his wasabi!)
 Gone awol

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 16
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:46:24 AM
(And I do so like his wasabi!)

Filthy!....but good.
 onyiboy

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:51:50 AM
hi babes

honestly i luv ladies that cry after having sex,its so romantic and it shows inner most feeling and fulfilment of passion,you coudnt have lost 2 boy friends bcos of that??

some times woman cry for example it was a one night stand and from his actions,its not looking like he wants to see her again,you stuffs like that

cheers
onyi
 plumb5150

Joined: 2/27/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 10:12:26 AM
I cried once during sex, she kept spraying me with pepper spray
 halasteve

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 10:36:33 AM
Tears of joy and satisfaction!
 ulrikelovesmen

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 10:36:47 AM
I NEVA CRY
IT STUPID
 soberkitty

Joined: 10/11/2006
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 11:02:56 AM
I have cried on ocassion after exremely passionate and powerful love making. It's as if the physical/mental experience just carried over to such an explosive level, that the orgasm simply was not enough of a release (even though it made me see stars). The love/emotions and the passion associated with the physical act of 2 souls becoming one was simply unexplainable, and the tears were "good tears".

I will say that on these ocassions, it has been with someone I loved with all my heart, and the whole experience was just kind of overwhelming. And happy to say, both men this happened with "understood" without me even having to say a single word, and they just smiled, held me tight, and said let it out. Aaahhhh ....... such sweet memories.

Sure makes me wish I could experience that again in this lifetime.

>>^..^<<
 Gone awol

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 22
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 11:15:47 AM
...and I wouldnt trust anyone who doesnt cry.

(In general)
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 11:45:46 AM
Sometimes you have such an intense orgasm that it brings you to tears....
When you're crying... try to smile and say "Thank You sweetie" Just let them know they are happy tears... not sad ones!
 Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007
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Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 12:43:32 PM
I wonder if the post sex crying has anything to do with pair-bonding emotions that women have during sex.
 ~birdie~

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 25
Why do somewoman cry after they have sex
Posted: 3/12/2008 12:51:25 PM
I cried once when it lasted about 10 seconds.
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