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Posted: 3/12/2008 3:54:26 PM | you meet on here, u date casualy, and its gettin hot and heavy...u know sex is the next step, if u met someone u really had feelings for and u could deff see yourself going the whole 9 yards with this person and want your first time to be special how would u do it to make sure that your man/woman would be coming back for more? what extra touches would u do to make the person ur seein MORE INTERESTED?
i deff need help with this fishies,
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Posted: 3/12/2008 3:58:22 PM | simple...give it your best shot!
Fvck him real good and hard and soft, he'll definitely be coming back for more!
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:00:21 PM | | Well since everyone is different...the best way to show your interest and put the extra touches on, is to simply open a line of communication with your partner and find out what they like best, then go out of your way to fulfill that fantasy. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:05:50 PM | i actually meant, would u go out of ur way to plan it, u know hotel or your place? flowers candles that kinda stuff......would a guy think thats corny? u know massage bath the whole 9?
carly
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:25:57 PM | I would never go that far....I think of that stuff as what lovers do for like anniversaries and stuff, but I wouldnt do for first time....Makes it seem so prearranged (which it is) and i like spontaneous for first time, otherwise I feel like I am contracted.
I would however do something like actually shave maybe wear clean panties...just kidding, but prob a nice matching bra and panty set, make sure the grooming of my choice was completed satisfactorily, put clean sheets on the bed, and light a candle to get rid of the shoe odor in my bedroom. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:44:05 PM | ^^^ Exactly!
I never planned or tried to make things any special way - I always found that simply going with the moment was more exciting and more tantalizing - as well as being completely myself! Being who you really are and being available when and where he wants you - makes you more desireable! | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:48:23 PM | I think it truly depends on the guy/girl.... some are real smooth... I was just in that situation myself.... all hot / heavy and both head over heels.
Yup... well it didnt happen first time we met, could of we both opted not to. But when we did, it was great.... and that was the last time i saw him... yup believe it or not,,,, i still cant as we got along so great, lots in common, great communication "well did" and slam bam thank you mam happened or some of the talk we had that next week, i might of struck a nerve, dont know and probably wont...so with all this babble i honestly think it depends on the person.....
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Posted: 3/12/2008 5:00:19 PM | I think what would make it really special is if you were to send him a message using proper words and grammar. I think if he were to see that you are able to communicate without lowering yourself to text speak he would be totally hot for you. Reading your semi-legible writings is sure to take a toll on him as it does the rest of us.
Try English.........it is a wonderful tool for effective communication. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 5:02:31 PM | | Sexy outfit, sexy underwear, pedicure, perfume. Something to munch on or drink afterwards. Breakfast in the morning. But if both of you enjoy it, that's the main thing. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 5:50:07 PM | optimistic, wtf are u talkin about, i shortened the word deffinately so whatever, if u dont like my threads dont read them.....thanks for ur input, im sure to get laid with that useless dribble u just spued at me.......this is the internet, not english class, maybe u should find other people to pick on since ur so bored and judgemental.
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Posted: 3/12/2008 6:08:55 PM | It's nice to try to plan the setting, where your going to do it, and all that, but I think when you start planning what will happen, that's when things end up not going as great as you were hoping.
I prefer to just go with the flow and let nature take it's course. Just bring a lot of passion, cummunication, and make sure it's what you both want.
And don't be afraid to ell them what you want, what you like, and what you need. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 7:11:18 PM | Over planning may kill the moment....it's over doing it....make it simple....
You will either have it with this guy or not, and what I mean by that is....IF you think of the act between a man and a woman as sexual..well, then it will not be the most fulfilling. NOW, if you see it as the ultimate act of love between two people, desires are going to come out and moments you'll never forget...in my book, these are tender moments, sensual moments, gentle moments, erotic moments, silent moments....for me, that means loving a man completely and knowing he loves me.
I hope you love this man and he loves you...otherwise, not sure how delicious your intimate moments will be.... | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 7:20:56 PM | Well...to quote your words
...if u met someone u really had feelings for and u could deff see yourself going the whole 9 yards with this person and want your first time to be special how would u do it to make sure that your man/woman would be coming back for more? what extra touches would u do to make the person ur seein MORE INTERESTED?
i deff need help with this fishies,
Then you blast back with
optimistic, wtf are u talkin about, i shortened the word deffinately so whatever, if u dont like my threads dont read them.....thanks for ur input, im sure to get laid with that useless dribble u just spued at me.......this is the internet, not english class, maybe u should find other people to pick on since ur so bored and judgemental.
So I guess I'm going to put my two cents in on this. A woman can have an incredible body, be an absolute goddess in bed, but if when she opens her mouth or begins writing she appears to have a 4th grade education, there will be no "whole 9 yards" for me. The bottom line, Carly, is that you asked what you could do to make the other person MORE INTERESTED...that poster offerred an incredibly valuable piece of information. Trust me, smart is sexy...in fact, being smart makes average look much better...and part of being smart, regardless of how you percieve the internet, is to grasp when someone is trying to communicate with you and take advantage of that.
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:28:14 PM | I agree with message 9 and 14 and this coming from a lady. I read what you wrote in your thread OP and it is not hard to understand but rather annoying.
You do say in your profile your a professional women, well if you are then you should write as one.
hmmm ever heard of spell check
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:52:56 PM | One other thing...if you advertise as a "Professional Woman", then write like you're a 14 y.o. trying to hard to be cool...and you're actually mid-30's, you are grossly misrepresenting yourself (unless your profession is the oldest one).
If a woman is pretending to be cool, illiterate, etc., but she's not really that way...how real is she? I get tired of seeing profiles from people to profess to have jobs that require one or more degrees who write like they're talking to kids on a cell phone.
Bottom line...if you're afraid to show you have a brain, you're broadcasting a lie. Be as real as you possibly can...that's what women ask of us men all the time.
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:53:46 PM | go balls deep!!! and if that doesnt work just swallow his twig and berries in one gulp...and if you dont vomit he will thank you and see you are a keeper! life isnt as hard as it seems, say no to philosophical crap! | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:17:13 PM | What you need to do is read your man.
Look for his cues. If he likes dirty talk, talk dirty to him. He he likes it a bit rough (for fun, not for real), rough him back. He he playfully bites you, bite him back. If he pulls your hair, pull his hair. If you scratch his back and he LOVES it, scratch it some more.
He's not going to give you all this signals at one time. Sometimes guys try little things, to see what kind of reaction they are going to get. You need to determine what turns him on. If he wants to role play, get into it. Half of what you do isn't physical, it's the image you are putting in his mind.
Figure out what makes him tick and what turns him on...that will keep him coming back for more. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:13:11 PM | Ahhhh...mindless insults...the sincerest form of not having a valid response.
Go for it, gurl...but do remember, you are the one that tossed out the plea for help. If you don't want honest feedback, then say so.
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Posted: 3/13/2008 3:55:22 AM | Carly that would soung great to me.
In Private One on One...
With all the romance around. If that dosent bring the mood up..
Well it would be time to take en exit stage left and share it with one who could appreciate it.
Rick The TensawEagle
btw Let me know how it goes......Good Luck!!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/13/2008 5:13:31 AM | | you go to a bed and breakfast at a Winery where the rooms have private hot tubs, (knows one) and turn off the cell phones | |
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