| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 3/14/2008 11:52:42 AM | i was wondering if any ladies had to help themselves along sumtimes durin intercourse? and if so do u mind? does ur partner mind? i was once with a man who couldnt always make me orgasm and would push my hand away when i tried to help him get me there.....
id like to hear if anyone else has had these experiences
ps i dont wanna hear find a new man that can get u off.....LOL i know this forum too well LOL
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 3/14/2008 11:59:20 AM | haha, When I saw the title your face was the first that came to mind as to who would have started this one! Funny how you get to know people that well in these forums through the content and style of their posts.
So you went to help yourself when he wasn't, and he smacks your hand away? They're your parts damn it! Smack him in the bag and see how he likes it! Right then and there you should have squeezed your PC muscles so hard and pinched his c0ck or pushed it out. That's hilarious. "No...hands off the box". I've had my hands on a girl's clit while I was thrusting away and had her grab or push my hand away because it was too much. Love it! People are strange. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 3/14/2008 12:11:10 PM | I personally help along the way, for myself as well for them. Their rythym can be off, too hard, me too sensitive... and if they have a problem with it then afterwards I explain WHY.
My suggestion, just have a talk not during sex, but after. It can be too intense during the act itself, and you can be clear on why.
And Carly, I wouldn't suggest you get a new man... every perfect couple our there goes through growing pains, thats the part that makes it perfect in my opinion!!! | |
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Posted: 3/14/2008 12:15:35 PM | | Never had that happen, and never really had to help anyone get me there. I would have been pissed off if I had been pushed away from helping in achieving my own pleasure. It's my body! | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 3/14/2008 3:28:30 PM | Carly,
Any man that feels 'put out' with his hunny's participation,
needs to remember,[there is NO 'I' in TEAM] !
'Course, there's NO 'O' in thar either,
but if 'I' WERE in thar....,"E-I-E-I-OOOOOOOOO" GO....TEAM...GO
Let's WIN ONE for the DIPPER!!!!! SCORE! SCORE!!!NEXT PLAY !!!!
HUDDLE!!!!!! HUDDLE!!!!!PENALTY!!![spank]
END ZONE!!!!!UPRIGHTS!!!WIDE RECEIVE HER!!
DOUBLE TEAM!!!FIRST DOWN!!!PIG SKIN!!!
TACKLE!!!SQUEEZE PLAY!!HAND OFF!!!
RAM IT THRU HER GOALPOSTS!
Put me in COACH! I'm READY to PLAY!
Anybody wants to play alone...take their football and GO HOME! | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 3/14/2008 4:18:36 PM | I had to do that at one point and my partner was very excited about that.
I thought men find it hot, at least he did and it's also in many porns. But this guy also had no problems giving me orgasm in other ways so he did not have any hang ups about that.
There is a book "5 minutes to orgasm everytime you make love" ( Dr Claire Hutchins).
And this is what the author pretty much telling you to do.
It's my body, my orgasm and i am in control.
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Posted: 5/3/2008 5:44:40 PM | | For me personally if I have been trying for a little while and I am not getting anywhere with getting her off and she wants to lend a hand I have no issues with it. I would certainly hope that if I am not making it happen after a bit, which it has happened a couple of times, I would hope she would be willing to help a bit as I want it to be a pleasurable for both of us. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/3/2008 5:48:20 PM | | yeah I do that all the time, it sounds like he's got a complex if he's shoving your hand away .. That seems a little odd. He's taking it to heart , poor guy he's probably really trying, at least that's a good sign ! | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/4/2008 3:35:35 AM | | I don't think I would mind helping it along if he was actually trying and just needed alittle help along the way....but so far my experiences have run more along the lines...of him insisting he'll get me off.....he gets off..and then doesn't even try more for more than a minute to help me along and then he'll say something like why don't you let me see u use that toy sexy.... I'm like WTF...if I wanted to use my toy to get off I would not have invited u into the bedroom to start off with thank you very much....I hate lazy selfish men. | |
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Posted: 5/4/2008 3:43:36 AM | Only a man insecure with his own performance would push your hand away...
By all means a lady should pleasure herself to help the guy out....Iam all for it.
Especially, if she is using her fingers and I use my tongue at the same time
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Posted: 5/4/2008 11:11:22 AM | The man should be focusing on getting you off, regardless of what that takes. His ego needs to take a backseat I think.
I've done it... had a man take my hand and place it in position to help.. was a bit unnerving as he sat back a bit at that point to watch, so fairly obvious that it was something he enjoyed.
Let's get realistic here. The majority of women do not orgams thru intercourse alone. She's going to need a helping *hand* to get there... doesn't matter whose. | |
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| for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O
Posted: 5/4/2008 3:59:24 PM | The man should be focusing on getting you off, regardless of what that takes. His ego needs to take a backseat I think.
Hey, I'm all for mutual stimulation but to make the above statement is just a little too selfish if you ask me.....so let me ask: are YOU focused entirely on getting HIM off?
As for the original OP. I used to have a problem with it when I was young and stupid. But now? Whatever floats your (man in the) boat!
But for the ladies: if you're in mish make sure your nails are trimmed and short. Nothing is more disturbing that having some claws scraping along your weiner.....the best position for this is doggy anyways, but still, watch those nails!!!
And for those ladies who automatically assumed he was selfish: did you ever stop to think that maybe you were hurting him? And before you jump all over that, I've had that happen to me, to the point where she tore the condom and scratched me....so maybe THAT'S why he pushed her hand away? The correct way to handle it was to ask if it was bothering him and then reposition so it wouldn't.....
To the ones that automatically say "it's his fault and he's an a$$ or whatever" maybe that attitude is why you're single? Whatever happened to communication? How about asking him "does it bother you if I...."???? No, that would be too easy...... | |
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