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|How would you ladies feel if a man you were going out with cryed after you had sex with him?....you know toward the end when he climaxed... and right after?...i'm just curious beacuse i know alotof you women cry after or during sex so i wanted to know how would you take it if your man did it..(be truthful)|
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:57:16 PM
|I don't recall a man ever crying after I had sex with him.lol|
But if he is crying out of enjoyment,then that is a bit of a turn on.
Would not bother me one bit.
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:57:16 PM
|id call him a puussssy|
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:58:27 PM
|Unless he somehow found out during sex that a parent, sibling, best friend, or pet had died, eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww. |
SO outta there.
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:59:28 PM
|I don't think I would like it at all... Unless he was crying because he went the first X years of his life not knowing what great sex was like. LMAO|
He definately would need an explaination... and if he knows he is a cryer then a man should warn a woman about something like this.
Posted: 3/16/2008 1:02:21 PM
|I've never cried after or during, never known a woman who did, either. I think I'd find it a little disturbing..........|
Posted: 3/16/2008 1:34:17 PM
|lol.. i've cried from sex once.. It was awesome! best ever!|
if a guy did it i guess i'd be flattered..
good 'ol "crymaxing!"
Posted: 3/16/2008 1:34:40 PM
|This would be a situation that called for a very lengthy discussion with the person, and one I am not sure would go over well unless there was a more serious type relationship involved in the first place. I think if the relationship wasnt serious to begin with, that while I am pretty sure I could handle asking questions and having a frank discussion about it, the man may not be able to as he might feel self conscious. I would have a ton of questions too, so that might scare the poor guy.|
Posted: 3/16/2008 2:22:59 PM
|like i said i'm talking about if he did it at the tail end, and if you asked him what's wrong with him he said " I"m sorry i do this most of the time when i have a strong orgasm, i'm not gay nor was i tramatized in some way as a child".|
Posted: 3/16/2008 2:25:17 PM
and if you asked him what's wrong with him he said " I"m sorry i do this most of the time when i have a strong orgasm, i'm not gay nor was i tramatized in some way as a child".
Posted: 3/16/2008 2:31:55 PM
|I'd be disturbed.|
And I'd probably leave pretty quickly after that.
Posted: 3/16/2008 3:00:24 PM
|Depends on the 'type ' of crying. Bottled up emotions, that come from the heart, leads to crying. So what. It's human|
Better than laughing afterwards, then there would be something to worry about
Posted: 3/16/2008 3:06:04 PM
cunntfck id call him a puussssy <<< Msg 3 geeze louise, just saw that!!
I think he's have to cry outta sheeer fear???
I know, it's your opinion, and your wish to be called 'cunntfck '
Posted: 3/16/2008 3:23:59 PM
|Man crying during sex = wuss|
Posted: 3/16/2008 3:42:53 PM
|since when have alot of women cried during or after sex? i havnt! and why would anyone cry during sex! its fun! whats there to cry about?!|
Posted: 3/16/2008 3:45:19 PM
|Maybe she had a penis fly trap and it ate his c**k up after sex?|
thats a reason to cry.
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:18:51 PM
|Penis Flytrap.....LMAO! That is funny as hell...thanks! As for the crying after sex - think the woman who wondered how serious the relationship was had it right. If it was fun and little to no committment, if it was the first time you slept together or it was what you thought was a casual ( yeah I know...little more than casual but you get me...right?) dating relationship - I be freaking. |
BUT, at the risk of sounding like a wuss - I can imagine an incrediblly special moment that might even do it to a crusty ex-biker like me. Think most of us have had those...like the first time we held our children. If it was something like that, I can't even imagine how good that feeling must have been. Like most guys, I don't like to cry - and at 51 I still can still get my "bad boy" on pretty good - I'm secure in my masculinity...but I think I'd give a lot for a moment that good.
On the other hand...maybe he was just kneeling on something sharp...lol!
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:20:36 PM
|I would think I blew his mind......|
and then hand him a tissue.
So he cried- wow. Its about time they start crying and worshipping.
I can imagine an incrediblly special moment
Yes- he felt something. Take it as a compliment. It meant something
very special to be with you to him at that moment and he felt secure enough
to show it with you.
Now that you have shared it with all of us he will now be mortified.
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:27:18 PM
|OP, I would want to know WHY he was crying and not just the things that WEREN'T making him cry.|
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:36:48 PM
|i have taken it as a huge compliment... it isn't about issues, it's about how unbelievably mind blowing the sex is. |
only with great sex comes tears.... i'm shocked other people do not experience this.
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:45:27 PM
|Obviously if he cries it is because the sex sucked, and he is crying out of dissapointment. It happens lol.|
I know of many guys that cried immediately after sex because they were angry or upset at the lack of performance of their partner. Atleast you know he is being honest then ladies, if he cries, or doesn't ejaculate, or doesn't produce an orgasm or has dramatic shrinkedge and/or his penis all of a sudden becomes very small when you have sex or even touch him.... you know that you are not turning him on enough, and therefore you are not "sexy" to him and then he cries. It happens.
The reason can be what the poster above me said, that the sex was awesome and it was just out of this world. But thing is, in most situations, in those cases it is the lady who cries.
Posted: 3/16/2008 4:57:36 PM
|Well, I've been known to cry a time or two. It's been so long now I'd be cryin' from sheer gratitude. However, I'd prefer my man scream and yell a little bit rather than cry.|
Posted: 3/16/2008 5:57:12 PM
|Boy, people are intolerant! Crying can happen because sex is an emotional experience. It'll hit an emotional 'spot' you may not even realize you have. Big woo. It means nothing. |
Geeze. People really need to lighten up.
Posted: 3/16/2008 6:02:51 PM
|I have cried. When the orgasm/experience is really intense and I'm overcome by emotions, sometimes it just happens. The tears flow and I can laugh about it. It's not like you're doubled over sobbing...lol|
But if a guy cried after...well I guess it would depend on why he's crying. If it's the same reasons I might, then cool! He enjoyed himself. If it's some weird issue then I might be a little freaked...
Posted: 3/16/2008 6:28:25 PM
|lol if a guy cries after sex with me, he's the one that did it wrong.|