| For the men: Pls. let me know - How do we become the one
Posted: 3/19/2008 8:51:47 AM | | I have met men but there always seems to be lacking that "connection". What I want to know is what is what makes a man want to have a relationship with the woman he met and what makes him hesitate and slowly run ? | |
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| For the men: Pls. let me know - How do we become the one
Posted: 4/1/2008 5:41:37 PM | honestly men more then ever lately have been very picky with a womans physical appearance. it could be that they love the attention and slowly start to slip away when things get a little more serious. it also could be just plain ole bad luck...or you been talking to to many pisce men  . either way its hard to say how is it you become "the one" for that man.
and its hard to say how you can go about making that man settle down. i say a mans ready to settle down when he finds himself. so by helping him find him self you then give him the ability to settle down.  | |
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| For the men: Pls. let me know - How do we become the one
Posted: 4/1/2008 7:06:30 PM | | For me.... the lack of genuine interest. The ones I've met resently were only interested because they wanted someone to bail them out of their problems. I understand the lack of chemistry, but when a person continuously keeps adding on the baggage... something has to give. | |
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| For the men: Pls. let me know - How do we become the one
Posted: 5/18/2008 9:32:01 AM | Most men are unable to really commit, fear of commitment for the most part. And the sad thing is that they may like you, but back off anyway for no particular reason. Fear of intemacy, don't know how to handle emotions. What makes a guy want a relationship with a woman? If you can sit there for hours and talk on a first date, and he doesn't look at his watch, and doesn't take that call from a friend, he's interested. Go for it. | |
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| For the men: Pls. let me know - How do we become the one
Posted: 2/25/2009 9:08:04 AM | This is my first post here, but a situation I am very familiar with as I have been wondering this myself so I decided to post.
I should point out that I am divorced, and in the two years since then I've had several relationships. I approach each new one with excitement and hope, as I refuse to be the bitter drunk on a barstool who spends his life complaining about women.
A couple of my relationships have been great in the beginning, but as you get to know someone better, you might find things you don't like. Rather that accept some significant personality clashes (I did that with my ex-wife- clearly not a good idea), I will decide if something is a deal breaker- even if I like her, I am not going to play games.
What are these deal breakers? I truly loved one girl and we dated for about 5 months, when we went to the casino one night. I don't gamble as I think it's a waste of money, but she enjoyed it, so I certainly wouldn't complain. She burned through $100 on a slot machine in about 15, and came over to the bar where I was. I said "That's too bad, wanna go to another bar?", and she scoffed and said "You know, all my other boyfriends would give $500 so I don't have to gamble my own money". Deal breaker- I am not anybody's sugar daddy.
Bottom line is you can't make yourself "The one". It either clicks or it doesn't. I went out with a girl last week who I really like- she's a friend of a friend- and we had a great time. However, she hasn't shown much interest since then. Oh well, maybe I'm not the one for her? That's life, don't be bitter- just keep trying.
I will say, and maybe this is just me- I find a lot of women are very close minded. I enjoy being with someone who is outgoing and open to new ideas. For some reason it seems I date a lot of picky eaters- I hate that- I love trying new food, so as soon as a girl says she hates Sushi, or can't have her meatballs touch her spaghetti (true story) I start to wonder... | |
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