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 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 1
cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:06:26 PM
im 22 years old i live in nj and i just cant get women to like me
 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 2
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:07:23 PM
i dont know
 NiNjai|

Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 3
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:15:06 PM
Sometimes trying to hard will make matters w0rse, but I don't know putting forth any effort? and what spots are u looking for women @?
 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 4
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:16:37 PM
i dont im just to shy i get all nerveos and shit
 NiNjai|

Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 5
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:23:41 PM
Being Shy does suck, You miss out on a lot most the time Girls want you to approach them , just try to be more open, you can take it lil by lil, like sparking up a convo just to try and get there attention and take it from there :P
 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 6
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 4:27:36 PM
alright man thanks im
 crazylovepain

Joined: 9/14/2004
Msg: 7
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Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/15/2004 9:49:31 PM
you know what really gets girls all wet..???....is when you bust out w/ a rubiks cube at a bar n solve it under two minutes...lol....naw but for real...you jus need a ice breaker...like learn a some magic tricks or sumthin...I know couple that impress alot of ppl n it's easy....then from there you jus be yourself....
 Ruby_

Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 8
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 2:25:55 AM
John...you don't need to "get" a woman to like you. You need to find a woman you have things in common with, then you need the chemistry between the two of you to start a relationship.
Believe it or not a woman is supposed to be your best friend. You took the time to pick a guy friend so you could do things together.
It takes even more effort to find the right woman to be in your life. You will spending twice as much more time with her so you need to be compatable. So you see, just any woman won't do.

Focus on what kind of woman who would be a compliment to yourself. If you have a hobby or an interest go where these activities take place.

Do you like more than baseball? Do you play or just watch? What other hobbies or interests do you have?

Fill out your profile with more of your interests and what makes you tick. You don't tell enough about yourself for a woman to know if she would like to get to know you or not.

 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 9
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 8:21:53 AM
yeah i just dont know what it is is it my looks or am i just to shy
 lrsshadow

Joined: 9/11/2004
Msg: 10
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 2:15:31 PM
ya know you might want to try something to start off with that will make it easier for you .. find some social enviroments that you can join that do activities that make you feel good. Maybee vollentier groups, charoties, or anything that involves many people working together this make it very easy to get to know alot of people and maybee one of them or some one they know will want more than just frienship... make friends they take you to parties and get togethers than when you meet someone cool, and your friends can say your a good guy when she askes :)
 mainman23

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 11
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 2:22:19 PM
At our age.. women look for pretty much the same thing..u do in them.....as far as getting to know you and dating and stuff.....workin at bars and being an observer i have seen it all and seen the type who are with women and the type who are not. The ones with women seem to be a SOME BODY or atleast act like they are SPECIAL there fore get attention. Alll WOMEN WANT IS ATTENTION...ATTENTION and then Some more ATTENTION. This is the most important thing you will learn. If you are different you will get attention. If you are cocky or over confident you will get attention..........because people will say why the hell is that guy so proud of himslef.........Also who you are with will directly relate to women wanting to get to know you....because people will give you attention....Bottom line IF you get attentionby others, women will want to know you.............IT is all Shallow but buddy its the truth well at least at the nigh life sceeen and with women in our age category and lower till 19...........WOMEN ARE ATTENTION WHORES...........LOL............and guess what they may get lots of attention by them selves, but when with a guy who gets lots, if they are with him they will be part of that extra attention getting............


Im done
 JohnT1234

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 12
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 3:48:28 PM
thanks mainman
 Ruby_

Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 13
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/16/2004 10:51:15 PM
John your looks are just fine. You are a handsome young man from what I can see.
 sixxx

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 14
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Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/19/2004 8:13:30 PM
if they dont like you for who you are then they arent worth worrying over in the first place. (speaking from experience)
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 15
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/19/2004 8:35:22 PM
brother all you got to do is compliment them on something you like. stay away from the stuff like hey nice boody. or ah girl when you going to let me hit them cakes. if they have pretty eyes say hey i like your eyes there very pretty. or hair, or even the outfit there wereing.

if worst come to worst take a packet of suger and hand it to them and say hey you dropped your name tag. but pick up line don't normaly work!.

I once poured a little creamer on a girls hand and she said what was that for? i said cream goes with sugar! .. but stick with the compilments. just tell them what you like. and be yourself.
 BounceHouse

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 16
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/20/2004 8:29:44 PM
Yo JohnnyT!

You are living my past...... I hope I can shed some light on your world. Stand up tall and be a man! Lift some weights, get some PRIDE and confidence! Have a dream and go for it! The world is your oyster if you just grasp it.

You see, everybody at your age feels the same!!!! Including the young women. It is natural to feel somewhat inadequite when you are just getting started in life. Use this to your advantage. A little inner strength will go a long way.

Try this.... Look in the mirror every morning and say out loud (10 times) "I am TEN feet TALL" It may just change your entire life. Waht do you have to loose?

BounceHouse
 mainman23

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 17
Re: cant get woman dont know what it is
Posted: 9/20/2004 9:47:56 PM
if you want help i think i can help u.. u can email me and ill send you some good stuff to read about the topic...........and it could change your whole outlook in general..
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