| | Do men really like Dominant Women?Page 1 of 7 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) | There were some interesting responses to the opposite of this question in another thread. My curiousity would like to see the responses to this question on basically a vanilla forum.
Now there is a difference between a Dominant woman and a submissive top and or a Dominant bottom. etc etc
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Calray
| | Joined: 12/25/2006
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 12:56:31 AM | | I'm not sure if Dominant is the word, but I do like strong aggressive women. If I know that a woman is a force to be reckoned with, then my interest will be piqued. However your use of syntax leads me to believe that you're talking about more than personality traits, to which I'll respond that power exchange within the context of role playing might be fun, but I would never allow myself to be disrespected any more than I would expect someone to allow me to disrespect them. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:49:08 AM | | I don't know, but I do prefer dominant men...in the sense that they take charge etc. No capes, hoods and shackles!! | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:05:51 AM | | Not me I'm a dominant person so I love submissive woman, I'm kinda on the aggressive side. That's just me though I know some friends who like to be submissive(guys) and like dominant women. I can go for a little dominance in a girl from time to time, espcecially if she gets off on it. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:51:24 AM | I can say, with some confidence, SOME, not all men in positions of power tend to be a bit submissive and generally are married too or seek out very dominant or aggressive females for activity partners  I'm not suggesting a BDSM situation...but just in general. I've also noted that some guys tend to like a woman whose not afraid to say what she wants in bed and go after it...because SOME men feel that it's more than appropriate for women to be aggressors when it comes to intercourse and sex play.
Though, I also believe, and it's been my experience that SOME men really want a strong woman....but they also need for her to be feminine and submissive at times to bolster their egos'. Funny thing is a lot of guys b!tch about controlling women, but they wind up marrying/dating them all the time....and most enjoy it secretly. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 5:03:10 AM | well i do like a bit of both to be honest i like to dominant and i do find dominant women in bed a very big turn on but saying that i also like to make love as a sharing thing soft and gentle so a little bit of everything with the ladies (but i do find dominant wemon very sexy and a massive turn on)  | |
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joro
| | Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 7 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 5:48:57 AM | Do men really like Dominant Women?
How about dropping the lingo "dominant/submissive?" For I dont want either.
Lets to away with aggressive as well. Aggression can run a bit deep and cause other problems.
How about we go with self-confident, open minded, and assertive? Then the answer is an unequivocal "YES." | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 6:22:01 AM | I like a woman that is alittle aggressive. Maybe some spanking, some handcuffs once in awhile, etc...
Not necessarly Dominant as in whips and chains, though I hear don't knock it till you try it. LOL | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 6:25:08 AM | The phrase, "Dominant Women" is quite broad. Perhaps providing a more narrow definition would be helpful.
Are you referring Dominant as in BDSM? Dominant as in a true "cuckold" relationship. Dominant as in an "Hotwife" type relationship? Dominant as in "running the household"?
Could you be referring to aggressive instead?
Sometimes the term dominant is misappropriated when one actually means aggressive.
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Calray
| | Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 10 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 7:25:23 AM |
Lets to away with aggressive as well. Aggression can run a bit deep and cause other problems.
How about we go with self-confident, open minded, and assertive? Then the answer is an unequivocal "YES."
No definitely do not do away with aggression. Most people have the problem of not being aggressive enough. Words are important and the words self-confident and assertive just don't cut the mustard. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 7:30:43 AM | | I have no idea. I have never been able to find one. I consider them imaginary like Big Foot and the Loch Ness Monster. There are sightings reported online, but has anyone proven they exist? | |
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joro
| | Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 12 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 7:36:38 AM | [No definitely do not do away with aggression. Most people have the problem of not being aggressive enough. Words are important and the words self-confident and assertive just don't cut the mustard. ]
But aggression also implies a self-centered hedonism or a win-at-all costs attitude. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 7:42:16 AM | | I think men like dominant women at the right times - like in the bedroom on occasion and when they need to take control of certain situations. However I think in general- they like to be the dominant one in a relationship. They like to hold that masculine role! | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 8:32:13 AM | | i would insert Assertive instead of Dominating, but yes i feel since women have no problem speaking their mind out of the bedroom, take a little lead in the bedroom as well. We men can do half the leading of course, but it's exciting for a woman to tell us, even order us what to do to please her. remember we don't ask for directions well...lol | |
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Calray
| | Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 15 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 9:13:37 AM |
But aggression also implies a self-centered hedonism or a win-at-all costs attitude.
No, not necessarily. But it does imply that if one doesn't win, it's only after every resource to win with integrity has been exhausted.
But I fear that perhaps we're steering off topic. It could be merely coincidence, but OP's use of words like top and bottom lead me to believe that she's not talking as vanilla as what most posters here would like to keep it.
That being said, power exchange can be highly erotic, and in my oppinion the most attractive women are women who can be comfortable on either side of that exchange. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:29:48 PM | I like a woman who can be assertive. And if she wants to be in control at times, that's great. But also enjoy being in charge.
It's a shared thing... after all, I seek an equal in life. | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:43:23 PM | | Agreed. It's nice to have a lady who knows just what it is she wants... and isn't shy about telling you... or showing you. ;) | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 2:47:00 PM | I agree.....and that enjoyment is wonderful, as long as the "getting" is mutual, and not "taking", which can be a whole different discussion....
Having an assertive woman that knows when to be aggressive and when to not be, is a joy to have around, and would be considered an equal in my eyes, and one to keep close by........
Just my opinion.......  | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:42:05 PM |
I'm not sure if Dominant is the word, but I do like strong aggressive women
I have to agree. It's nice to see she can take some control at times and just get wild and crazy instead of always needing to be told or shown what to do. It's a pleasant change of pace at times, rock on you strong and aggressive women! | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:49:43 PM | im most definate a dominant girl, sometimes i want the man to take charge, but it never happens, im just a strong minded person...
so dominant all the way ppl | |
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| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 3:54:15 PM | | No men do not really like aggressive/dominant women. I know what i want and many men feel intimated by that. | |
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flexei
| | Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 24 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/23/2008 8:35:49 PM | I seem to lack a little understanding here, is a dominant woman the same as domination.
To me that means the woman is superior, well as I am an Australian man, which can also be called 'all man' to be dominaed by a woman would never happen.
Well, to date it hasn't.
Maybe it would be an enlightening experience, but ladies, I can't see it happening.
I suppose in the Northern American region, where men arn't quite men, the term 'dominant' can happen with a woman. | |
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svj2
| | Joined: 3/16/2008
Msg: 25 | |
| Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 3/24/2008 8:43:28 AM | There's always going to be a demand for dominant women, even if they've not everyone's (or my) cup of tea.
There are lots of powerful men with tons of responsibilities that want someone to take the weight of their world off their shoulders, if only for an hour or two.
And there are lots of men who have never been in a dominant position in their entire life. It's a progression of a lifetime for some men. Submissive to parents, then teachers, then professors, then bosses, and banks, and police, and banks, and gov't, etc. etc. etc. Some guys have had the short end of the stick for so long they wouldn't know how to take charge if their life depended on it.
Bless their hearts for understanding themselves, and being able to accept and enjoy it. | |
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