| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:01:36 PM | | From reading other postings, I know that I am going to get slammed for this, but so what. LOL Lots of married men cheat, so somewhere there must be lots of women that have been cheating with them. Are any of you reading this, and willing to admit to having had some fun at it? LOL | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:21:33 PM | Cheating isn't just "sex". Developing intimacy with external partners without the agreement and knowledge of one's relationship partner is the cheating when it violates their mutual trust and agreement. The sex is physical manifestation of what occurs between those involved.
Now, if your partner knows and approves, none of it is cheating. It's just fun.
Best.
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:22:12 PM | I admit to having a long affair with a married man I had worked with he was 22 i was 29 . He chased me followed me home from work for weeks , we would sit on my porch and talk because i wouldn't let him in my house . Finally I gave in one night and thus started a long crazy affair . We worked 4 days 12 hours long so we were around each other allot and the last day he always came to my house we went out drinking with friends and then back to my place . He would tell me he wished he had not had a kid with his wife and felt crushed on what to do i never pressured him because i knew he loved his kid , she was from Mexico and if they divorced she would go back and take their kid with her.
I have never regretted that affair and hes still someone special in my heart the affair lasted for a long time . | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:24:53 PM | Well, that people judging you are all going to pile in on me saying that I am cheating by chatting, which is sort of like telling me that I am guilty anyway so I may as well have the sex? Which really doesn't makes sense, does it? So I agree with your take that anybody judging you is wasting their breath.
And I respect that you say you don't want to go back to it - live and learn, after all.
But you kind of ducked the original question. So, do tell, how was it? ;) | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:41:41 PM | I think she answered it pretty well.
Also, don't forget it's not just the husbands that find intimacy outside of marriage...I think the last figure I saw was that 40% of married women have had at least one intimate encounter outside of her marriage. | |
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icartb
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Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 11 | |
| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:18:13 PM | I've dated two men who were separated but still married. One I KNOW was separated but the other I had to take his word for it. The former I wasn't sexual with but the latter I had a FWB relationship with. I happened to have met him here. He didn't tell me he was still married until AFTER we had sex. Nice, huh?
Question-was it great sex? It was OK sex. I have great sex with my current boyfriend. Maybe it's because we're in a relationship but I'd also say it's because his technique is much, much better. It's also much more regular and not a little here and a little there which is what I had with Mr. Married. There was also no future with the other guy because he said he would probably never divorce for financial reasons. I didn't have to worry about it because I kept my emotions in check and never fell in love.
My advice is to just stay away from attached men. It's too risky. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:21:44 PM | I will admit i did ... one time. It was a one night stand, and i had no idea until after we had the sex and were talking... wtf?...
It was absolutely amazing sex though i will admit
If i had known he was married i never would have done anything though, since i was cheated on by my children's father, I know what effects it can have firsthand. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:28:52 PM | So far we have one "absolutely amazing", one OK, one crazy affair with no regrets...
But no answer to the original question from N*Love? LOL
N*Love's "not gonna do it again" take seems to be common though. Anybody else going to offer up a response? LOL
To the guys who responded, I wasn't really asking you anything - LOL - but that's cool. Throw in your two cents if you must. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:05:33 PM | I guess it would depend on whether he was a cheater who was upfront about it or someone that pretended he was not married and had the woman thinking she was in a real relationship. The latter I don't believe are very happy about it once they find out although I am sure they have a good time while they are ignorant of the truth.
I had a friend who had affairs with married men, not in the way that some women do who really do not want any strings but just occasionally when she was between boyfriends. I didn't believe this to be a good choice but what I found bizarre was her ability to socialize with the wife and not feel any guilt or give anything away, sigh. | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:45:24 PM | i have had the most incredibly passionate, sensual, adventurous sex with a married man!!! i did not know he was married initially, however, once i found out we couldn't stop as we were both connected emotionally as well. then the typical, i'm leaving my wife....bla bla bla...after 3 years and he not leaving and his wife giving birth to twins i realized he was never gonna leave. LOL
OK, i was in my mid 20s at the time and he worked with me 5 days a week and flew home to the family on the weekend. it worked for us. Would i do it again? not KNOWING he was married, but if he were divorced absolutely!!
Here's a question for the married man...when i was in that relationship for lack of better terminology...how is it the 'married man' can be angry if i as a single woman go out on the weekends when he is home with his wife and kids???
anyway...YES YES YES absolutely GREAT sex with a married man!!! | |
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N*Love
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 4:13:48 PM | "But you kind of ducked the original question. So, do tell, how was it? ;)"
yes it was fun initially... unfortunately guilt on my side totally made me stop...
he is a nice guy i just couldnt continue knowing that I could break up the family... regardless of his complete understanding that it might happen...
Unhappily married now.... still couldnt do it... | |
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| Any women willing to admit having had great sex with a married man?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:53:06 PM | Now we are up to three mind-blowers, a couple of OKs, some fun for a while, and one who finds it a reliable rut buster...
Plus a couple having great sex WITH THEIR OWN HUSBANDS. What took them so long to chime in. I was hoping for some of those right from the start. LOL
I am sincerely bummed to hear that N*Love is unhappy in her current situation. I am pulling for her to get that turned around, one way or another.
I am still hoping for more responses, to get us some more valid statistics. | |
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