| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/15/2004 9:12:32 PM | | I haven't really been in a serious relationship for about a year now.....n I really don't mind it at all.....I sumtimes feel a lil lonely buutt....other than those few seconds of loneliness...I don't really care for it anymore....I hate drama n relationships bring alot of that. I haven't since my last g/f....I meet girls all the time....n some of them were actually really sexy. But none could can compare to my last g/f.......I dated couple times but I got really tired of them so I just dropped them like a bad habit.....A girl has to have that certain look n attitude....n it's really hard to find...anyone else have this problem | |
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Posted: 9/15/2004 9:14:19 PM | | I for one do. I am actually turned off from relationships and have not really been looking anymore. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2004 9:17:41 PM | | I feel relieved now....I thought something was wrong w/ me.....one time I wanted to sleep w/ this chick n she didn't want to...so I told her "why you gotta be so picky??....I wasn't" lmao.......then for some stupid reason after a few more beers she wanted to do it...but I changed my mind cuz I was busy playin w/ my rubik's cube | |
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ben76
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| Re: Is this normal???
Posted: 9/15/2004 9:42:50 PM | I think one thing could be that you might not be over your ex? How long were you with her and how long ago did you break up?
A lot of people think they are over their ex's, however your own statement of saying that the girls you dated afterwards can't compare to your ex. If it's not your ex your going to be going out with, you can't expect the new one to be so equal to your ex. Also I'd be worried that if your looking for qualities of your ex, that your past may repeat itself and the new one may not last either. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2004 10:55:09 PM | | ^^ So True :), don't comepare your Ex to another bad things will happen | |
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Posted: 9/15/2004 11:37:35 PM | | Don't worry....LIFE is beautiful....you'll find the happyness...with another girl MAYBE??? | |
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Posted: 9/16/2004 1:44:29 AM | RE:
ben76
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Re: Is this normal???
Posted: 09-15-2004 10:42 PM
I think one thing could be that you might not be over your ex? How long were you with her and how long ago did you break up?
A lot of people think they are over their ex's, however your own statement of saying that the girls you dated afterwards can't compare to your ex. If it's not your ex your going to be going out with, you can't expect the new one to be so equal to your ex. Also I'd be worried that if your looking for qualities of your ex, that your past may repeat itself and the new one may not last either.
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:19:57 PM |
...but I changed my mind cuz I was busy playin w/ my rubik's cube
The guy changed his mind about having sex because he was busy playing with his Rubik's Cube...
Alright... I'm resurrecting this one... | |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:25:15 PM | Rubik's Cube? Is this a joke?
If You are still hanging on to feelings for the ex...ain't gonna happen with anyone new. Are you still talking to the ex, seeing the ex? That makes it that much harder to move on. If not, then it just takes time. In the meantime, change your status to looking for Friends and take the pressure off of yourself to find someone and just go out and have a good time and who knows, maybe after time you'll run into someone who does catch your attention and makes you wanna drop the "Rubiks Cube". | |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:36:03 PM | Guess itz normal, but eventually U'll jump back in. Either that, or your junk will turn to dust and blow away. I think of this kind of situation az the try and fail, so its easier not to try, but still fail syndrome. Cause nobody ( well besides the exception to the rule ) wants to be alone and people are wayyyy better off when they have someone to be with.
So, gd luck pof'ers everywhere.  | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 8:47:30 PM | OP there is something wrong with U, your human. U mere mortals are such saps. Hey feck, ... Im one too. Make that most of U mere mortals are saps.
 Attention
People Id like to inform U of something very important, a great charitable cause that all of us should contribute to. Im collecting for the blowmydoorsoff needs a vegas vacation fund.
With your help, I can go to vegas and have a great time.  | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 8:49:12 PM |
He won't be dissapointed with the Rubik's cube at least.
He has a better chance of mastering the cube than a woman.
Especially now that the Cube ain't that much of a challenge anymore.
http://www.nerdparadise.com/puzzles/333/classicsolution/step1/
Ain't never gonna find anything like that to help you figure out a woman. | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 9:08:07 PM | | man....you are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo deep. Why, I bet you've sat at that playstation for DAYS trying to figure out the mysterious final level just to acquire such depth...... | |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 9:16:25 PM |
Alright... I'm resurrecting this one...
zekestone .. nice choice. lol .. made me chuckle. | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 9:25:41 PM | OP,
I think you are not over your ex-gf yet. Sometimes it takes a while.
Relationships do not have to be all drama, of course among young people this seem to
be a norm.
Take it at your pace and whenever you least expect another nice girl will show in your way....
Best luck to you. | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 9:58:32 PM | I'm going to assume she dumped you.... only because I've concluded you still have feelings for her.....
I'm also going to assume you'r a very shallow man... only because you've said you haven't found the right look and attitude....
My conclusion: You need to stop worrying about her looks -- she'll be fat/flabby/drugged up by the time she's 40, 50 if you're lucky.... and when that happens, what will you have? not much. You need to do as has been mentioned before, make it known you're just looking for friends, and *wait* for the right woman to walk into your life, stop looking for your ex's twin, and let your "perfect woman" come to you......
or join e-harmony, i'm sure theres a woman or two on there that prefer the ammusement of a Rubik's cube over sex with a very shallow man that would match you're compatibility test score ....
wth is wrong some of these people?????
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 10:24:50 PM | | hmm....5 years later, I wonder how this idiot is doing now? Passing up sex to play with his cube?? Hopefully he has ED now. | |
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| Is this normal???
Posted: 9/7/2009 10:52:35 PM | | Apparently, you're not over your ex. You should not expect another woman to be exactly like her, so no that's not normal. People still play with a Rubik's cube? That's so '80s. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 11:11:08 PM |
The guy changed his mind about having sex because he was busy playing with his Rubik's Cube...
Alright... I'm resurrecting this one...
Okay, that's pretty funny.
And I do believe I see signs of a very, very heavy pot smoker here. That'll kill sex drive over time. Well, it'll kill any kind of drive. Especially the wake'n'bake, for some reason. Although I did know one heavy user who... well nevermind. But he was very much the exception!
If this guy still looks at his profile, he's going to wonder what sparked the new views.
Cute cat he had there. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 11:33:30 PM | Now, now U know what they say about assuming. It makes an ASS out of U and ME.
If he wants to sit around playing with a rubix cube, thats his choice dammit people !!! Besides ladies we have a secret weapon. INTERNET PORN !!!!! It never screams at us, never demands we talk about its feelings. Never gets mad when it catches us looking at other internet porn. Now if I could just figure out a way to make lots of money from it. I would marry internet porn. 
Im going to get flambayed for this fella's huh ? Im mostly kidding although I do watch my share of netporn.  | |
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