| Teenage Sex v Adult Sex
Posted: 3/25/2008 3:22:54 PM | Do you feel sorry for teenagers.(don't laugh, we were all one once) ...........................they want sex, they try to have it anywhere and all the time................but............
the fumbling and premature ejectulation and the "is it in yet" question...........and "my god I've come" just as he has got it out/or near/ or just in..............
do you remember the quality of it ........................?
As you have got older.....................and look back on the quality of the sex you had as a teenager/young adult........ would you say it was brilliant or crap...........?
.............has sex for you got better with age...............? and do you feel sorry for the youngsters who have to wait a while to discover "quality sex" and what the hell it is all about.....?
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:25:56 PM | premature ejectulation and the "is it in yet" question...........and "my god I've come" just as he has got it out/or near/ or just in..............
Sad fact of life ..... this can happen at any age .... especially when taking high blood pressure medication.
vvvvv You're bang on there Mac! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:27:27 PM | Discovery is the fun part .........my pants were permanantely around my ankles when i was younger !!
I would say you become a less selfish lover as you become older and sex is much better and more intimate !! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:30:37 PM | I remember 'sex' but from what i know now.. that werent sex !!! defo better when older. when a teenager its 'the thing to do' and god it was crap 
(and no i dont feel sorry for youngsters... they shouldnt be allowed until 30 ) .. owner of a 16yr old daughter !! ;) | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:32:31 PM | the fumbling and premature ejectulation and the "is it in yet" question...........
and "my god I've come" just as he has got it out/or near/ or just in..............
do you remember the quality of it ........................?
Hmm, I don't remember anything like that 
and do you feel sorry for the youngsters who have to wait a while to discover "quality sex" and what the hell it is all about.....?
Nope, I feel sorry for old folk - who apparently have to take it easy out of necessity, rather than for voluntary reasons - and as such then spread rumours that 'they're doing it properly' just because it's all they've got left in them
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:34:36 PM | That brings back memories.
Some bad, some good and some very good and the 80s and 90s where phantastic. 
Sex gets better, longer and a lot hotter with age and I loved the journey that got me there.
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:35:45 PM | The more you do it, the more experienced you get at it, and the more 'at ease' you are with it. You know what turns you on, what doesnt, what to do, what not to do, etc.
Looking back to my teenager days/early twenties, pvc costumes were a fetish, not to be seen out on town, and even stockings and suspenders had to be 'asked for', which was always highly exciting and visually arousing for me.. but now, a typical night out consists of wearing pvc outfits with stockings and suspenders which has kinda ruined things a bit for me.
Made it all a bit cheap and tacky.
I used to love the dressing up stuff but its way too commercialised now :(
Now how will I know who the truly filthy nymphos are? | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:38:04 PM |
but now, a typical night out is a pvc outfit with stockings and suspenders which has kinda ruined things a bit for me.
Made it all a bit cheap and tacky.
I used to love the dressing up stuff but its way too commercialised now :(
You should be doing that sort of stuff in the privacy of your own home anyway, ya pervert! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:38:35 PM | I agree with you on the selfishness, but I think it is as much due to ignorance when you are a teenager.
I know one thing that they didnt teach me in sex ed was where the best place to give pleasure was.
as a male, discovering the power of the clitoris certainly led to a partner being a hell of a lot more apprriciative, and I know a lot of men will agree with the fact that the term "blow job" certainly does not involve a lot of blowing......
aaahhh the innocence of youth!! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:40:17 PM | | I guess I was lucky because I waited till i was 18 and was with someone 19 . I never experienced any of that the guy knew what he was doing and I am sure its cause he did that fumbling act on someone else before me . SO my memories of teen sex are good ones he took his time and introduced me to feelings that I sat back later and went DAMMIT why did I wait so long . LOL | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 3:47:03 PM | Bit of a mixed bag really
99% of the sex I had as a teen was pretty mundane and crap in retrospect really and wasnt that much more than someone to masturbate with really
Unfortunately tho about half a dozen of my partners were quite exceptional which might seem like a good thing, but as it seems the majority have a very conservative or introspective benchmark for "good sex" it pretty much leaves you realising that most sex with most people wont just not be "exceptional" but infact wont even be above average
I have found that more women over 30 are good in bed percentagewise than younger women who tend to be energetic but unimaginative on average, but thats also offset by the much larger increase of the percentage of women with major hang ups about themselves or sex, or who turn sex into a tool to be used, lever to exert pressure with or a "prize" to be "won" all of which is pretty tedious, immature and highly unnattractive
I didnt experience exceptional sex with someone I also had intense feelings for till I was 35 ish so I cant really compare that to my teens as I didnt actually "love" anyone in a real sense till my mid 30's so the only comparison I have there is that, for me at least average sex with someone I have feelings for is "nice", but its STILL just average sex. It doesnt become magically amazing just because of the feelings, just a more rounded experience because of the emotions, but the sex is still just average on its own merits
I think the main plus point for sex in younger years from a personal perspective is its still seen as being sex, its not overhyped, its not dressed up with nonsensical significance, its not read to signify anything except you've had sex and isnt so heavily used as a carrot to induce you into participating in someones mind games all of which tend to be the domain of the more aged women
The downsides tho for me are that its duller, more repetitive, its less likely to be relaxed, sensual. imaginative and fun and the real point to sex is lost on most younger women, or moreso than in the older models at least
So if you can manage to avoid the nut jobs, prozac poppers, axe grinders, emotionally wobbly and faux wholesome women sex is far better with older women plus youre less likely to get paper cuts off them due to the lack of L plates lol
Although, it has surprised me how many older women there are who think theyre "all that" in groin grinding terms who make a repeat of steptoe and son seem fresh and envigorating by comparison
Luckily tho you can fairly acurately suss out how good someone will be in the squelchy department from talking to them so its easy enough to avoid mundane, its just a shame theres so much of it about lol | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 5:31:46 PM | Sex as a young teenager & young 20's was pretty much just sex. I didn't really appreiciate sex until I met my ex husband (god I have alot to be thankful for!)
The problem is now that the older you get if you've experienced that fantastic experience, experimental, fun sex then you fall into that comparision thing. I'm not saying I'd ever want him back but I'd love that sex life back again, it's just finding someone that presses the right buttons! On both sides!
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Posted: 3/26/2008 2:57:45 AM |
The problem is now that the older you get if you've experienced that fantastic experience, experimental, fun sex then you fall into that comparision thing. I'm not saying I'd ever want him back but I'd love that sex life back again, it's just finding someone that presses the right buttons! On both sides!
Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?
My arse!
Like others, I didn't experience truly fantastic sex until my mid thirties and also like others, I'm not experiencing it now. Truly wonderful peel-me-from-the-ceiling stuff doesn't come along too often, unfortunately. TBH, as I intimated above, I think I'd be better off not knowing just how fantastic it can be because I miss it all the more and I can't help comparing.
Teenage sex was crap, with just a highlight or two to give a glimpse of what might be possible (John L, I thank you). | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 3:08:54 AM | has sex for you got better with age...............? and do you feel sorry for the youngsters who have to wait a while to discover "quality sex" and what the hell it is all about..... I don't feel sorry for them, in fact I am quite jealous of the youth today, love to be a teenager again.
If I was at school again and I know what I know now, I'd sh4g half the girls at my school lol  | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 4:10:08 AM | well as i have gotten older sex is certainly a lot better. This is due to partners and myself knowing what we both like etc.
I was 'fortunate' that in my late teens i was dating someone who was in their early 20s...the sex was fantastic...sadly this was not the case for a long time after him lol
I also think as you get older you have less hang ups..i know i do. I am not one who has to have the lights off and ask for them to put my nightie down when they have finished pmsl
Lou
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Posted: 3/26/2008 5:22:23 AM | I'm kind of inbetween the ages of which I feel this refers too.
Teenage sex for me was sometimes great, sometimes not, generally I didn't have sex with other teenagers, most the men (god that sounds awful) were in their 20's/30's so I didn't really get the
fumbling and premature ejectulation and the "is it in yet" question and the one teenager that stands out was great (first love, all that, ahhh) and the great thing was even after he'd just finished he could go again and again and again!
I have had an almost complete lack of it since being older so can't really answer that side of it but when it was with the older man it was generally much better. The little I have had since being older is better quality because there was more to it, more variety I guess than that of teenage sex. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 7:38:18 AM | | Without at doubt sex gets better with age, apart from reclaiming my waistline i wouldnt want to revist my teenage years. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 7:45:21 AM | From a woman's point of view I found sex as a teenager really exciting, all those hormones raging around. It wasnt all premature ejaculation, sometimes it lasted a whole minute!lol Seriously, I had some great sex as a teenager. Maybe I was just lucky | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 8:49:26 AM | When you are younger you have far less interest in pleasing your partner.
Although, as my current sexual partner is a sock nothing much has changed really. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2008 1:14:48 PM |
Although, as my current sexual partner is a sock nothing much has changed really.
Lol - that is the funniest thing I have read in a long time! | |
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Posted: 3/29/2008 4:38:32 AM | i loved the fact i could cum three times .....in the same minute as a teen lol
seriously it was exciting fast and educational as a teen
now i find that making love within a loving relationship is far more satisfying than the rampant 8 times a night of my youth
i agree with many posters that you do become less selfish as you become older and its more about how you can please eachother | |
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Posted: 3/29/2008 4:47:53 AM | It was good from the word go for me, and has just got better and better  | |
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Posted: 3/29/2008 7:01:04 AM | I was with my ex husband fromt eh age of 16, it definately got better as we got older, tried out new things ect. As we were together almost form the get go there were never any worries about 'getting it right'. We both fumbled.
Now, bloody hell, i knew i was never sexually inhibited, (thanks mum) but now having experianced more then one partner sex is even more on the up, and i wouldnt of ever thought that possible...
Sex as an adult for me is just as much fun as it was as a teenager, for satisfaction, it has definately got better. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2008 2:17:08 PM | | it was all a hasle back then but at least i was having in some cases good sex its been so long now im going to need an instruction manual | |
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