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Posted: 3/25/2008 5:13:04 PM | i have resently joined this site in hope's of meeting new people , and others for relationships but i have noticed that the best friend card is being used and pulled alot makeing it hard to date and find out more about the other you are trying to get closer with what are some reasons they would pull this on you or used all advice is mucly appreciated ...
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Posted: 3/27/2008 10:40:18 AM | Sorry, I can't tell what you're asking. Are you saying that someone is telling you they like you as a friend via IM or email? Or are they trying to hook you up with their best friend? Or are they telling you their best friend doesn't want them to date you?
Anyway, many people on here will never meet anyone in person. If you want to find one who will...offer your phone number or ask for hers after a few emails. Then ask to meet for a drink or coffee after a phone call or two. If they're not interested, move along to the next one.
Why spend weeks or months chatting up some hottie online who will never meet you? Or worse, she meets you and looks nothing like her pic? | |
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Posted: 3/27/2008 3:41:21 PM | | all of it or when you hang out with them for over 2 months geting to know them and dateing them..... they go i dont want to be your girlfriend i jsut want to be your friend and then end up being your bro's girlfriend like they were kinda using you .... now do you kinda know what i mean ?? | |
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Posted: 3/27/2008 11:21:30 PM | | Well, I have been with the website for over a year and haven't been too successful either. I am beginning to think people are using this site to play games with your feelings and emotions. You know, the tell you what you want to hear game, and then, other than the first meeting, you never hear from them again. My advice to you is to get out while you can. You are far too handsome and too young to resort to online dating. I wish you all the best though. Elaine | |
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Posted: 3/28/2008 6:34:22 AM | | Oh...I see. If you're hanging out with them for two months and haven't even had a kissing session, you're already in the friends category. Any interest she might have had in you is gone. If you're attracted to a girl, touch her...her hand, her hair, the small of her back. If she pulls away, she's not interested. If she doesn't, move on to the kiss. | |
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Posted: 3/28/2008 9:22:32 AM | WOW.... but what if you have trid that and she kissed you but still pulled the best friend card ? =/ it's just realy confusing lol
and thank you efj i think ya made my day with that coment :) | |
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Posted: 3/28/2008 11:43:00 PM | | I totally agree with the advice from Arugula. In fact, recently I heard on the radio that a woman needs to be touched 7 to 12 times a day for her overall emotional health and well being. I'll second that! lol Elaine | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 3:08:26 PM | | damn,ejf961,I haven't been touched in years, Is that my problem? It would be nice, but I know I need more than to be touched, I want feelings along with the touching. That's why the Vinyls wrote "Ohh, I touch myself" lol | |
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