| getting her back
Posted: 3/29/2008 3:29:22 PM | | She left me for her boss after 6 years and a 5 year old son, now my son is living with him and her. our relationship got old, i didnt see the signes . how do i get her back? or how do i find love again | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 3/29/2008 3:46:27 PM | If she did that to you why would you want her back? The problem with women is that they leave when the going gets rough - life is not a romantic comedy. The only sad part is that your son will be confused. Just be a good father and visit him as often as you can.
Dont beg, cry or do anything that elevates her above you. She doesn't deserve you. Good luck. | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 3/29/2008 3:56:06 PM |
The problem with women is that they leave when the going gets rough - life is not a romantic comedy.
A little bit sexist don't you think, men do this as well (yes it has happened to me), but at the end of the day I think if they run for the hills when the going gets tough then they are doing you a favor as they cannot be that committed to you anyways.
It is time for you to move on and find someone new or just enjoy being single for a while, good luck! | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 4/7/2008 10:38:29 AM | Why are you on POF? you clearly are not ready to start any type of relationship..you have not had any closure on the one you just got out of. Do you really want someone back that could do something like that to you? is this your ego talking or do you really LOVE her and want her back?
Based on what you wrote she has moved on and in with another man, I'd lick my wounds cut my losses and move on but be honest if and when you meet someone on here because I truly believe when you put yourself on a dating sight you should emotionally be ready to date. good luck! | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 4/13/2008 10:18:18 PM | man i feel for ya but, you gotta be strong for your kid . and i totally agree do not let her put her self over you.just be a good dad and hope her new man is good to him. remember you are his dad and the only one he is going to have.it is just a generalisation but.... lol you ladies seem to be very phickle when it come to your heart just as i'm sure some of us guys are. | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:45:04 AM | I can sympatheize in a way with you. I had a relationship with someone that was a friend first. We were friends for 2 years and throughout the two years he kept expressing an interest in taking it to the next level. Finally, I agreed and it was great (at first). His daughter, my son, his son, me and him formed a little family and spent a lot of time together. They all spent some nights at my house (after a while of course) and we did a lot of "family activities". Then all of a sudden I got sick with pneumonia and he just stopped talking to me. After a few days of asking he told me he didn't think it was going to work out because I was sarcastic (ummm..hello he knew that since we were friends for 2 years), and we had a few different views on parenting (he allowed his kids 16 & 9 to basically do whatever they wanted). It blew me away. That was that. He just stopped communicating. Left all his (and his children's) stuff here, never asked for it back. I was really upset and didn't know what to do. My son (3) was asking for them every night and kept saying stuff like "If I'm good will they come back." It broke my heart it was like an after-school special. I spent alot of time trying to figure out what went wrong and how to fix things. His daughter's birthday came around and I sent her an ecard and left a voicemail and he deleted it without letting his daughter hear them (his sister told me that). That was the icing on the cake. If his family (sister and mother) could not figure out what happened and why he was acting the way he was then how could I? And to do what he did in regards to his daughter's birthday really made me think that I didn't know who he really was I guess.
I still miss both him and his kids, but know I deserve much better and so does my son. So, as much as it bothers me I let it go and moved on. Does it still hurt, of course it does at times, but you cannot force someone to love you. And you have to learn from the situation and move on. | |
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| getting her back
Posted: 5/21/2008 2:20:50 PM | | Then best thing u can do is not let it bother u for as much as it does! Were all gonna die... So in the end it does not matter besides whats the point of putting yourself through all the heart ache when she does not love u | |
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