| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 4:30:07 PM | In the 70's and 80's it was Tupperwear, well today it's Passion Parties...lol I had the oppurtunity to go to one this past weekend, and let me tell you the girls are crazy fun!!
A comment was made, about men feeling intimidated by their partners Toys. Which leads me to my question....( for both men & woman)
How would you feel about your partner having erotic toys? Would you see it as an adventure for the two of you, or would you feel that your partner needed the toys because you did not satisfy them completely???
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 4:55:22 PM | A comment was made, about men feeling intimidated by their partners Toys
Was there any comments about women being intimidated with their men friends' toys????? Toys are just that,,,toys for playing. There are many "ways" to satisfy anyone. An open mind always helps. Toys are just one of many tools. How many tools are there????? How open minded are ya?????
Some still think that you actually have to have intercourse to define "sex", so I can see where there would be a problem with toys for some. It just isn't me. | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 5:01:19 PM | I have been the one bringing toys to the bedroom. And why not? I get to play and she gets to enjoy the attention.
I do believe that you ladies have a very limited view of us guys. (From the bottom? LOL)
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 5:13:37 PM | Oy Vey! .... oh Wolfy!!!... knew you were an animal lover but Babe.... .
I have not been brave enough to attend a Fukkerware Party, but I have gone into a Toy Store with others to take a looksie....all good fun.
Some really interesting things out there I must say...and some really really BIG TOYS...that make even me blush...  | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 5:19:39 PM | DEAR MADAM:
THANK YOU FOR YOUR RECENT ORDER FROM OUR SEX TOYS WEBSITE.
YOU'VE REQUESTED THE LARGE RED VIBRATOR AS FEATURED ON OUR WALL DISPLAY.
PLEASE SELECT ANOTHER ITEM. THAT'S OUR FIRE EXTINGUISHER.
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 6:55:25 PM | | I've had girlfriends with toys and I never had a problem with them or felt that they needed it because I wasn't doing my job. In fact, I encouraged them to have toys, and to look into other toys that we could both "play" with. | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 3/31/2008 9:48:53 PM | | I think that anything that provides more adventure is a plus. On the other hand I have dated one guy that was intimidated by them and never got over it.................he broke into my place after we were split up and stole all my toys and apparently threw them all over the highway. His logic was that if he wasnt going to get any neither was I! Ummm.....yeah I can just find another man | |
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| Boys and toys Posted: 3/31/2008 9:51:13 PM | I love playng with my honey and her honey pot Nothing enhances a night of pleasure than a toy or two to prolong the evenings fun intimidated? Never! Stimulated? hel ya! | |
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| Boys and toys Posted: 4/1/2008 3:06:01 AM | Luv-a-Ware parties are a blast to attend. Even if you don't plan to buy anything, you will laugh your a$$ off ... it's especially hilarious when someone brings their mom or grandma along. Orders are taken in the privacy of another room so nobody at the party will know what items you've ordered unless you choose to tell them. Umm ... oh yeah, I only ordered those pen1s-shaped candles ... honestly, I didn't order that three-speed d1ldo with the rotating head & vibration & g-spot massager & ... umm ... 'external' stimulator ... nope, nope, nope, did not order the ultimate pleasure toy even though it's guaranteed to give a woman unlimited doozies every five seconds ... just bought the candles.  | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/1/2008 3:27:27 AM |
A comment was made, about men feeling intimidated by their partners Toys. Which leads me to my question....( for both men & woman)
I understand how many men would feel intimidated about letting their partners play with toys, especially at first.
Two important tips:
1) Start with something small and work up. (Fire extinguishers are for professionals! -- see Dragonlady's note, above.) 2) Don't be shy with the lube! (Little dab'll do yah is for BRYLCREEM, not Astoglide). | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/1/2008 7:30:14 PM | | I think toys are the greatest!!! some are a lil intimating but I couldnt imagine being jealous of my bf using them....I have actually purchused toys in the past for my partner..It made our very long distance relationship stronger if anything.. | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 9:36:38 AM | Thanks everyone for your replies, it is nice to see there are many open minded people here on POF. It's funny but, before the party, I was VERY shy about the whole Idea. I think that the girls who were there helped open my mind to the fact that..masturbation, adn adding to your sex life are a normal and healthy part of life, for Many Many people...me included now!!
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 9:54:22 AM | Erotic toys and your partner ????? What about erotic toys instead of a partner ????? They dont snore or steal the covers or expect breakfast in the morning
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 5:22:00 PM | ^^ Ya but dont yours smoke ? .............. theres gotta be a bi-law or gay-law against that...SPONGEY ????? no more using within so many meters of the front door girl ! | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 5:57:26 PM | ok mb you can visit me on my island too....stop pouting 
just dont bring any of those funny looking toys....unless of course they smoke ...hahahahahahahahaha
we're exempt from that silly law in the Interior...we have smoking patios still....not that it matters cause Im gonna quit right after I find out where some one lives and smoke them ...hahahahahaha
hey I wonder if latex causes cancer .....hahahahahaha....the by-law officer will be knocking on *deloresés* door looking for the fire extinguisher .....hahahahahaha | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 6:06:57 PM | ^^^no, but pvc does.......
tell me when Spongey and I'm with ya on this quitting thing...again. I can smoke my patches if I get cranky.
a little voodoo perhaps | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 6:16:19 PM | Picking up my non - smoking prescription sat, however I like delores's idea of putting us all on an island ....she is to kind....
bet her latex/pvc is bigger than my rolling pin
damn, just think a cranky thumper and a cranky sponge on the forums
gotta love those internet cafe's 
EDIT: vvvvv Im quitting next tues or wednesday...hahahaha soon as I finish that carton of cancer I just bought and there is still 150 to go....dont want to waste them.....hahahahah but like I said Im picking up the pills cause im a freaking addict who should be locked on an island ....on saturday ...lol oh yeah and i picked up the weight loss pills already....so now i wont die of cancer but ill be addicted to those pills but atleast I wont be an outcast living with a bunch of smokers on an island.. ((((((that island is sounding better and better atleast mo-m0 and mb will visit us))))) ((((and we have boats....hahahahaha)))) (((( and pirate friends with boats)))) hey who wants to join us on the island ....think i might rethink this non-smoking crap....hahahaha
damn peer pressure...and i dont mean the island girl ....cause i cant hear you...hahahaha
I love voodoo...im gonna have a fun non smoking , spell casting time....hahahahaha | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/3/2008 6:16:20 PM | when the one eyed monster came along...^^^^
bahahahaha
you betweened me....budger...ooops. better be nice to someone with powers...
sponge...I really do want to quit again...let me know when you're starting, I mean quitting...
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/5/2008 4:52:41 PM | | I would think that my partner has a well developped sexuality and embrace every part of it....Yum!.....:) | |
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| Erotic Toys & Your Partner Posted: 4/5/2008 8:05:31 PM | I was 18 when I attended my first party and attended my second one just 6 months ago.....all I can say is boy have things changed!! Or should I say evolved.....hehe.
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