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 adamcambs1

Joined: 12/10/2007
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 9:47:30 AM
I had an opportunity to do so recently....and I didn't!!! Kicking myself now:fustrated

When was the last time that you did?
and did you seize the momment or let it pass and regret it later????????????????????
 x barberella x

Joined: 2/18/2008
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:11:56 AM
back in october..

had a message saying .. put the kettle on i be there in an hour..

3 seconds hesitation ... and a 4 month relationship!

i now grab every oportunity becuase you just never know.

i spent too long being carefull and caucious.. (sp)

life is way to long to be carefull all the time
 yorkiebar

Joined: 10/31/2006
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:15:07 AM
i never seize the moment,im just to careful,i wish i could be more impulsive when it comes to meeting the man of my dreams,i
 Brian_Hertfordshire

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/3/2008 10:16:53 AM
Well, who dares - wins !

Then again, only fools rush in !


 maggy456

Joined: 11/9/2007
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:27:17 AM
Always do and never look back.

So what if it doesnt work out. You have tried.
You never know what might happen.

Dont be scared about "what if".

xx
 SJS

Joined: 4/3/2006
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:59:35 AM
Its the things you dont do that you regret.....
Everything else, whether good or bad, is a learning experience!

Yeah - I grab opportunities.
 Princesss Fiona

Joined: 2/19/2007
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 12:16:15 PM

Its the things you dont do that you regret.....


Agreed. I don't fancy sitting on my death bed saying:

'i wish i would of'

I did kick myself when getting chatted up the other week... (diet coke material man) but still, only for the fact i was dim and didn't click I was being hit on.... Still something better was around the corner, so not all bad....
 Gucci Girl

Joined: 7/22/2006
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 12:24:30 PM
Im not much of one for seizing the day, i likes time to have a little think about things and then miss my opportunity

Maybe not the best but im happy with it.
 MrJohnnyB

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/3/2008 1:12:13 PM
No im far too much of a sissy to seize the opportunity, I'd really like to but I always worry about the consequences.
 hazzi

Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/3/2008 2:02:46 PM
getting an opportunity would be an acheivement for me lol
 4dexter

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 4/3/2008 2:13:07 PM
I like to analize things too much, buy the time I've worked out all the angels the chance has passed, where women are concerned anyway.
Everything else I tend to seize the oppertunity without a second thought.... ummmm why is that?

*goes to call councilor*
 spiraldive

Joined: 3/3/2008
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 3:41:07 PM
Carpe Diem.
Seize The Day.
Get It Done.
Life Is Short.
You Only Live Once.

I think eveyone at sometime in their life reaches a point when they realise that there is more to life than the same old same old.
 - Jules2008 -

Joined: 1/16/2008
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/3/2008 3:53:00 PM
Recent events in my life made me realise I should seize the moment more...Im working on it...at times I could kick myself though for missing an opportunity...MUST TRY HARDER....
 w00ts

Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 4/3/2008 4:24:56 PM
I try it when ever I have the chance, sometimes logic say's NO no calm down son, so it's a little tricky but overall yes get stuck in. Also in my line of work we take a little risk every now and then (sometimes calculated) :) i jest. My last pen test was on a Solicitors company and nothing at all was working. Server scan, Website scan, ports (services running etc) so i look at the old employees accepting emails...fair enough there it was :)

Indeed, it’s better to have tried!
 fleurskyblue

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/4/2008 1:16:29 AM
I tend to seize the moment all the time. Usually fall flat on my face but if I didn't then I'd always be wondering what if!
I've always been one that thinks lifes so much fun & you never know what is around the corner & if something doesn't work then hey what the hell it's been fun & another experience along the way.
I've certainly never regretted anything I've ever done, it's made me who I am & has given me so many different outlooks on life.
 The-Changeling

Joined: 12/18/2007
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/4/2008 1:21:43 AM
I always seize the moment,, you only regret it later if you let things pass you ,, if there are consquences they can be dealt with if and when they happen.
 yorkshire_rose

Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/4/2008 7:55:17 AM
when the opportunity arises i take it im all for seizing the moment lifes too short peeps................................
 weinundrosen

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Posted: 4/4/2008 8:23:28 AM
If an opportunity arises, better to grab it with both hands and handle the consequences later than to pass it up and spend a lifetime regretting not grabbing it.
 cdo_derb

Joined: 11/2/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/4/2008 8:32:36 AM
A few years ago I passed up an opportunity... it would've been good for a while as well I think.

I don't regret missing the opportunity but I promised myself I wouldn't let it happen again.
 Brian_Hertfordshire

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/4/2008 8:38:20 AM
Hindsight is wonderful !

One might regret not seizing the moment if later it turns out that it would have been a good idea.

But equally, sometimes it turns out that it would have been better not to act hastily.
 restless_native

Joined: 12/17/2006
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Posted: 4/4/2008 8:38:52 AM

and did you seize the momment or let it pass and regret it later????????????????????


I tend to seize the moment and then regret it later. But, as that wasn't an option in your question I'll keep it to myself for fear of going wildly off topic.

In conclusion....Hippopotamus
 CurvyDee

Joined: 1/8/2008
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Seizing the moment!
Posted: 4/4/2008 9:27:07 AM
I tend to be more cautious on here than in real life, i dont tend to seize the moment and arrange to meet people that day or the next or whatever which i have been asked, I think within a couple of weeks or a month is ok. To have someone wanting to meet you that night or the next afternoon when you've only just got the first message from them and have never had so much as a conversation just smacks of desperation, sorry.
 Simess

Joined: 3/29/2008
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Posted: 4/4/2008 9:59:54 AM
I've had many opportunities in my life, some I've taken some not...

In the end up the only thing you can say with any certainty is if you are happy/content with where you are now you've not done too bad...

I was in that place, and am trying to get back there again - I've made a couple of poor decisions in that past year or so and so did the ex but then we have made a good one - one that is giving us both a lot of pain - but I can see the good place again....

I think at the moment i regret not taking some of those opportunities over the past year or so but overall I think I'm happy with my life outcome so far...

Simes.
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