| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:12:56 PM | I recently started to learn salsa dancing. This wasn't to make myself more attractive, but because I have always loved dancing. (And I've also started to wonder why I didn't start learning years ago!)
What I'm wondering is if women find a guy that can dance well sexy. I know that when a woman dances well it makes me very attracted to her.
I know we can't lump all women into the same group, so just your personal feelings on the isue. Do you find it attractive when a guy can dance? | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 12:57:34 PM | | Dancing is my passion, so it would be great. However, I don't do the ballroom dance stuff, so that doesn't work with me. Although if he can do that, I'm sure he has the rythm to just dance in general. I have a hard time finding men who can keep up with me on the dance floor. And they usually need liquor in them to even try. Not attractive to me. | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:26:21 PM | | It depends. If they're engaging in it to have fun and enjoying it, that's attractive. If they're doing it because they think they have to (or someone is 'making' them because THEY want to) and the guy is obviously NOT enjoying it, that's not attractive. Sure, guys who dance can be a lot of fun, but definitely not required! It would be one more thing we'd have in common to do, but doesn't automatically rule anyone out in my book. | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 3:01:42 PM | ANY skill is attractive. as for this one - one of my fav guys ever is the designer thierry mugler. he used to be a dancer. totally HOTTT!!!!!!!
good dancer means flexible and versatile lover , or better chance of that, to me at least - men that can let go of themselves to move to music make better lovers, regardless the dance skills. if the dance is stylish too, well, than its a treat!
same attraction as martial artists - the man a man moves is hottttttttttttttt | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 4:07:24 PM | I think a man who likes to dance has a great asset. It has been said dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire. I love to dance and am trained in Latin American, Standard Ballroom and Argentine Tango. I have no expectations that the men I meet be dancers but I confess I send more notes to men who put dancing on their profiles. Dancing is a sport. It takes a lot of athleticism to dance well, as well as good spatial relations and interpersonal intelligence. So yes if a fellow can dance he has my vote. | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/4/2008 4:18:01 PM | | Well, It really depends on weather he moves with me or if he is just tryin to get up on me... that's kinda anoy'n when all that happens is him tryin to grab you close so that he can rub the "cash and prizes" on you... when dancing i wanna have fun... but yes complete turn on for me when a guy knows how to keep up with me... i have danced along time so its nice when he can. | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/5/2008 12:07:21 AM | I think it's groovy if a guy can dance... Yippee for you for taking the Salsa lessons...   I love to dance. I really hate it when a guy asks me to dance an does what I call the 'side sway'. You know... in one spot, swaying back an forth. OR... when they take a step, then another step until they have wasted a perfectly good dance floor to make a square. I guess the all time worst...Is when a guy humps your leg an thinks he is being sexy. Lil FYI guys: It's not sexy...lol My ex and I use to do what I call 'country ballroom' for lack of better description. He'd dip me and flip me. We've had people clear the floor to watch us. Once people had sent us too many drinks and we took out a disco ball when he flipped me... It was funny... No harm done. I tried a ' swing' dance contest once. Oh geez... It's to an 8 count. I learned that counting an dancing don't jive with me...  Most people would dance better if they'd just quit worrying about what others think. There is no right or wrong... You just 'grooveforawhile'. 
p.s. Don't let them make fun of you for loving to dance or taking Salsa lessons. They're just jealous and I'm sure your groove is sexy!!!  | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/5/2008 5:21:07 AM | To be honest it shouldn't really matter if they are attracted I think. If you go dancing expecting to find someone you'd be better off going clubbing than salsa.
However I think once you get into dance it gets in your blood and it becomes a passion you do irrespective of if anyone likes it or not. I argentinian tango and I NY salsa. It means you spend a lot of time embracing beautiful women but not expecting anything more than a dance from them. It shows confidence and respect for women, as well as self worth that you're not a sleazoid to them or yourself. And sometimes when you meet a stranger pull them close while looking in their eyes and spin and dip till you're both racked with sweat and aching, it's 5 minutes of pure feeling alive. Grinding is poor cheap seduction, dances like tango or good salsa are pure passion. I think it's attractive for a woman to see a man passionate in anything and dancing is something that engages in life. i'd stick at it no matter what | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/5/2008 9:56:33 AM | | If a guy can sing and/or has any musical talents in general (love a man who can play an instrument!), that to me is VERY attractive. And yes, I'll include dancing in that. lol. But they're not, by any means, prerequisites. :-) | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/5/2008 11:13:49 AM |
Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
No, they aren't  . This thread was posted by the OP for the sole purpose of seeking attention, and should be deleted by the mods. | |
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| Are women attracted to a guy that can dance?
Posted: 4/5/2008 11:34:01 AM | Damn, James--you're totally right-on about the attention-seeking thing. I feel so...duped!
Of course, it did give me the opportunity to say publicly that dancing is sexy. So, I forgive myself for that momentary lapse of judgement:P | |
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