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Posted: 4/7/2008 11:05:54 PM | | like i don't know...people message me saying i'm a jerk..i'm just a very honest and upfront person..isn't that good? like don't girls want an honest guy? lol...let me know though and if it's offensive to some people i will change it | |
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Posted: 4/7/2008 11:44:16 PM | Yep, you come across as a jerk. There's honest, then there's BRUTALLY honest, then there's well, jerkdom. Population: you.
What ever possessed you to put in rants about transsexuals and other "wierd stuff" and "bigger girls" in a profile that's supposed to showcase you in the best light?
If I had some nasty aside on my profile about, I don't know, how all football players are latent homosexuals and how gross I thought they were, there's a chance you might be offended and think I was a jerk. The key is, even people who AREN'T football players would think it.
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Posted: 4/8/2008 6:51:03 AM | i'm going to be honest with you , your about me section has to be changed
the part about transgendered and fat girls is just plain bad and makes you look bad for writing such a thing in your profile to begin with .
remember your on here to attract single girls , comments like those are not going to help you in your search . they really should be removed from your profile and you should write somethign that makes you sound nice and type of guy a girl would want to date . | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:21:07 AM | | nice guys finish last...nice guys are the guys that girls walk all over..i'm sure once a girl reaches her 30s or so she wants a nice guy because she's tired of jerks but girls my age want a guy who can control them..obviously not in a violent way but a guy who will put his foot down when he believes in something...and far as your arguement of football players being gay...that is very silly and ignorant...the reality is big girls are exposing too much skin on this website..and i'm sure many guys on this website, including myself don't want to see that. you might ask why am i even looking at big girls' profiles when i don't find them attractive the reason is they'll put a picture of just their face as a profile pic...and it's very deceiving...and as far as transsexuals..i've had one too many messages from them..and it grossens me out..they are free to practice their lives as wish but i don't want anything to do with them what so ever... :) | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:50:26 AM | First you should change your heading
From this: dj abie : funny, exciting, charming guy
To this: dj abie: homophobe, hater, controler
Remember when you write about "bigger girls" that many slim beautiful girls have a best freind who is a "bigger girl". She will always pick her friend over you, and will not want to risk exposing her friend to a man who could hurt her feelings.
If you wil say something like that on here where you are trying to put your best foot forward, what will you say when you are relaxed out in public?
Also, many women have a gay friend, who they love. Again, The fastest way to loose a woman is to offend her friends. The transgendered comment makes you look ingnorant.
"once a girl reaches her 30s or so she wants a nice guy because she's tired of jerks but girls my age want a guy who can control them"
So you are admitting that you are a jerk....?
There is a difference between confident and controling.
So to answer your question, YES you sound mean.
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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:59:22 AM | LOL I sympathize with you but you are kind of being a jerk on your profile. Certain things need to be put a little more eloquently. Ever heard the saying : "its not what you say but how you say it"
You can be honest and specific but try not to be a jerk about it and telling girls you are a jerk isn't going to win you any fans either. I know you are probably going on the notion that women always fall for a-holes... But not here. Trying being a bit nicer because being a jerk only gets your profile clicked over. Plenty of guys for women to choose from on here... Keep that in mind. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 9:29:53 AM | If you are being honest and come across as a jerk, then the problem is not in the profile. Sure, people can tell you how to change it and remove stuff that is offensive. But, it is not like it won't come out in real life.
Profile reviews are for those who have hard time meeting someone because they can't quite express who they are. You have opposite problem - you expressed who you are. You don't need profile review - you need some serious self-review. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 9:35:34 AM | wow!! - your profile made me laugh, thanks. It is so narrow minded but i guess thats your age and why many girls your age prefer older men :)
by the paragraph of yours below and other comments it sounds like you are good at dishing out criticism and narky comments though cant take any criticism yourself, so i would work on that and a girl checking out your profile may not wanna risk saying hello incase you call her a loser.
"UMM most of the guys on thsi website are either losers or creepers, and I am neither...haha..anything else msg me, but honestly like if your gonna msg me saying I'm an ***hole please don't cuz I'm not"
Also your profile pic has got - 'i want a transexual up my bum' written all over it so maybe work on that if you dont want them messaging you. 
yeah you might be a nice lad just dont come across as vein.
At 18 i understand your humour defo but there is a time and a place for it.
having said all that i think you are joking though to ask people for their views, knowing that you think you may be being a bit mean and to call most people on pof losers yet ask us for your opinion lol
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Posted: 4/8/2008 10:00:55 AM | huh... you've honestly have to ask the question? The honest brutality of youth... unfortunately you haven't learned good manners or gained an understanding about life.
Your profile "might" attract someone who will end up squashing you like nothing because you will be sucked up in a cute girl who will play you to no end. You will not attract someone who is nice and genuine. If I was a girl in your age group, there is no way in hell I'd approach you, not in fear of being called a loser but because people as arrogant as you represent yourself in your profile are a total turnoff.
Everyone told you your profile sucks and you argue with them. Do yourself a favour and come back to ask for advice when you're ready. Right now you need to grow up a little. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 10:08:35 AM | Oh indiallias!
"Also your profile pic has got - 'i want a transexual up my bum' written all over it so maybe work on that if you dont want them messaging you."
I think I love you!
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Posted: 4/8/2008 10:32:06 AM | Op your profile in brackets:
[My favourite thing is house music. I like football and going out.... I also like girls, I love them actually. I love fashion too which means I dress very well. I consider myself better dressed than most people here, becasue people in Ottawa have no idea about fashion].
I hope your 'neighbors' in Ottawa find this amusing :) Seems to me that if you were such a fashion plate, you would be dressed in something other than a football uniform for your profile picture~hmmm
[I can also be slightly "stuck up" but I don't see anything wrong with that because at the same time I can be very out going.]
Above is idiotic, 'stuck up' and 'out going' are two totally different things. Try 'close minded' and 'self serving'. Works better there.
[I can be a huge jerk especially if you're damaged..but I can be nice too.]
This goes without saying, you totally reek with the jerk factor, so you could probably strike this sentence and save some room ;) 'damaged'? wtf?
[ UMM most of the guys on thsi website are either losers or creepers, and I am neither...haha..anything else msg me, but honestly like if your gonna msg me saying I'm an ***hole please don't cuz I'm not]
You seem to have a vast knowledge about 'most of the guys' on this site. Just the way you said that bothers me...can't quite put a finger on it...(oh...just a heads~up but, most guys can 'spell')
[please if you are a transsexual or something like that DO NOT message me..thats cool if you wanna be a social reject but i'm not down with that weird stuff..thank you]
Slightly judgemental but of course acceptable, you must have gathered a vast amount of knowledge in your 18 years.
[********** AND for the slightly bigger girls..like that's cool everyone is different but please please please please please please please don't put up pictures of yourselves half naked..trust me from a guy's perspective that's a HUGE turn off..and any guy who gets turned on by that you probably wouldn't wanna talk to.]
^^^^^^^^^^^LMAO^^^^^me thinks ye protest too much
You need to grow up little man, cause all I can see in your future is black eyes and broken noses :)
I would suggest you join the army, but I think they have higher guidelines.
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Posted: 4/8/2008 10:33:07 AM | You are the poster boy for why women your age date men 10 years older than them.
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Posted: 4/8/2008 11:47:37 AM | awww Amy32223 thanks for the compliment. i guess looking like a Tranny magnet isn't such a bad thing after all.
i mean at least i would never get piles right?
i think i love you to, though im afraid i do not meet your criteria. i am looking for a girl to lie and tell me that my man hood is massive. 
i see by your profile you cannot lie. (Shakes head in dispair)! there is always blooming something  lol | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 12:13:50 PM | | haha thank you for all the comments i love them all...i'm not gonna fill my profile up with cheesy lines abut how i'm such a sweetheart and a sucker and i can't get girls because that's just stupid and really not the case...i realize being on an online dating website makes it seem as though i have/had trouble dating although that is not the case at all..i'm just on this website to meet girls my age in the city and have a bit of fun..(if you know what i mean)...and i understand my profile may be a bit harsh to some but all i asked is if it was too mean...the proper response from you people would be something like "yes it's a bit too narrow i suggest you remove the part about blah blah blah..instead i am receving comments from 27 year old males who themselves have retarded profiles which are poor attempts at being funny saying "you look like a poster boy for w/e w/e"...and i take it if you are 25+ on this website you are either looking for sex (which isn't the case for most you) or you have trouble dating(which is the case for almost all of you)...so i don't need advice on how to get girls from any of you because you people would be the last people i'd ask for advice believe me.....so fat women and trans sexual males i apologize if i've offended you...some real criticism would be appreciated, thank you | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 12:43:32 PM | i am seeming to like my own voice today. Again lol you made me laugh with your last message.
paying 50 dollars for a crack whore once a week doesnt mean you don't have trouble with women. :)
on a serious note to what you want outta people messaging you on here, is cut peoples comments down on here and you will learn that everyone is saying yep you are coming across as a jerk and should change your profile.
At the end of the day you are saying you are better than everyone on POF - ok it works for you i see but what you say on your profile is more for the lads in the shower room while peeing on each other to act manly.
to attract a female i doupt it will work, you are not showing a sensitive side though i would like to be surprised defo, i really would...
not out of me being caring but for the comedy aspect of checking her profile out.
GL anyhoo i guess.. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 1:25:17 PM | | You can want to be dominant and come across as**** without coming across as being an ***hole (even if you aren't people are seeing you as one). There's folks on here who pull it off (Scoundrel for instance) but you're not there so far. Ditch the negative stuff. Expand all of your interests to take up the slack. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 1:38:00 PM | ...the proper response from you people would be something like "yes it's a bit too narrow i suggest you remove the part about blah blah blah..
Here's my "edited" response:
"yes it's a bit too narrow i suggest you remove the part about blah blah blah..
Because that's all you want to hear. If you're here to have some fun (yes, I know what you mean, I may be a lot older than you but most definitely do know about life) then may I suggest you just put "hey, high testosterone male, a bit aggressive but deep down a real sweetheart (yeah right...) who is looking for someone in Ottawa to have some fun *wink wink*. I don't have a problem dating, I just want to have some fun. Let's hook up."
And be done with it. But be warned, if you don't get any response with that one too, don't come here to get another review lol | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 1:39:26 PM | You're happy being a douchebag, great. You're very successful at it. So take out the part of your profile saying you're really a nice guy, and go on being a douchebag.
Truth in advertising, and all that. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:19:37 PM | LMAO
I have a seriously hard time believing this is a "real" post but on the off chance it is, some facts for you:
1. "..." isn't used the way you think it is. Try doing a google search on "." and ",".
2. Count the number of times you used the word "like" in your profile, divide that by 10, and make sure only that many remain.
3. Trying to act like badass over the internet only makes it amusing for everyone else.
4. Taking advantage of a girl at a frat party while she's on roofies doesn't count as "getting the girls".
5. Paying cash doesn't count either, sorry.
6. The fact that you are 18, in school surrounded by HUNDREDS of women your own age on a daily basis but have to come on here to find "company", and you think other people have trouble dating? LOL
Thank you for one of the funniest threads i've seen in a long time. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:22:38 PM | And thank YOU ^^^^^^ for actually making me laugh out loud! 
Taking advantage of a girl at a frat party while she's on roofies doesn't count as "getting the girls".
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:51:26 PM | shirley i don't want to be mean to you but you're being a real b1tch...so listen go lose weight and change that 80s hair style that you have going..seriously.
and jackal or w/e your name is...i'm sorry my grammatical skills aren't as polished as yours are..you're double my age so i'd pray your english was better than mine...yes i am surrounded by 100s of women...and i'm sure you remember highschool ...everyone knows eachother, word gets around...girls don't want to have sex unless it's with their boyfriends because they are afraid of being called sluts..thats why i come on this website to enjoy some discreet encounters with girls that have no connection to my group of friends or peers at school...so i do not have trouble with women..anyways i would commit suicide if i was 30 + on an online dating service spending so much time posting on an 18 year olds thread and calling him things like douchebag...just by you calling me a douchebag shows the amount of class you have...haha white trash | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:57:15 PM | dj abie...
Why do you continue to let your mouth over~ride your a$$?
We were actually trying to give you some decent advice and you just don't GET IT!
See, this is entertainment for all of us overweight old f##ks!! Thanks for playing.
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Posted: 4/8/2008 3:02:23 PM |
anyways i would commit suicide if i was 30 + on an online dating service spending so much time posting on an 18 year olds thread and calling him things like douchebag...just by you calling me a douchebag shows the amount of class you have...haha white trash
I totally object to your calling me a 30+ something on an online dating service. I am, in fact, a 40+ something on an online dating service. And really, it takes no time at all to post to threads, so don't worry about that.
I stand by my original statement(s). Feel free to off yourself if you're consumed with despair about them, though.
Gotta go, my trailer's sprung a leak and my three-legged hounddog just whizzed on my orange shag carpeting...again. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 3:11:05 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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Posted: 4/8/2008 3:27:42 PM | OMG LMAO! I am seriously going to pee my pants. Are you honestly for real!? Did someone dare you to do this!??!
First off, it's not grammar, it's punctuation, that will help with the google search. Second, if you think yours is going to improve much between the ages of 18 and 32, you are in for a big shock. Third, i never called you a douchebag but with the number of people that have, i understand your confusion. Fourth, there will be MANY more reasons for you to commit suicide long before 30, don't worry. | |
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