| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 7:56:59 AM | Seducing a woman is an art.
I think a woman over 50...is not the same woman as over 30... (maybe 40 since they mature faster. supposedly).
She is sophisticated and probably has huge experience of life...
I wonder...it is hard or easy to seduce her? What practical method to use?
Back at ya.
I personally find there's no need to formally seduce a mature woman. But it sure speeds up the process. I find mature women are not as coy or uh...... reserved. Ya! That's the word. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:35:47 AM | ha Here I thought a immature kid wrote this and your profile says you are 49????
good luck .... you will need it | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:47:02 AM |
good luck .... you will need it
You're 57?? Some women never mature.
If you want to delete this one, then also delete the "How to seduce a man over 50" that this question mirrors. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 9:52:12 AM | | If you want to seduce a woman, you've got to seduce her mind first. This requires a fella to think with the big head vs. the little head. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:02:36 AM | Anybody who thinks a worthwhile human relationship can begin with "seduction" is in big trouble. That stuff belongs in novels, not the in the reality of the twentyfirst century.
Any woman who can be "seduced" is not a woman worth knowing. Real women today make choices and accept responsibility for their choices. And so do real men. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:06:17 AM |
If you want to seduce a woman, you've got to seduce her mind first. This requires a fella to think with the big head vs. the little head.
 In this world where people want it now and then feel empty, this is how it is. There are many who just don't want to use their mind. It is the best sexual organ.  | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:37:29 AM |
Any woman who can be "seduced" is not a woman worth knowing. I wholehartedly disagree.
If she can't be seduced, then maybe there's no connection between the pair. But I think you're confusing being seduceable with loosable (lol). What if the lady IS seduced but holds off and doesn't give in? What's wrong with that? Isn't that a good thing?
IMHO, fundamentally, the end goal of seduction isn't humping on the sofa, it's confirming a positive connection. Whether sex follows is a whole other ball game. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 10:52:29 AM | There's one thing that most women of any age respond favourbly too.....
Class.....it's a rarity these days, just read some posts.
Alot of good ole class and a good sense of humour goes a long way. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 11:02:39 AM | Tit-for-tat mentallity in the forum again!
I disagree with OP. Women can only be seduced if she truly "wants" to be seduced by a man she's already in love with.. which is usually considered a more "romantic seduction". Anyone else? She's just picking the man up. There's no art to "pretending" to be seduced.. as she must be the seducer. These "men" do have to wait to be "invited in" by the woman.. or it's rape.
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 11:20:08 AM | Just read a report on some research done on the reactions of men and women to pictures of subjects with a view to determining what kind of look appealed to each of the sexes. Turns out that women prefer men who look testosterone deprived, while men prefer women that look like Pam Anderson (Why this needed research I can't fathom!).
So, if you are a handsome hunk of a man, you are out of luck. Get a picture of some feeble looking bespeckled geek and post that. On the other hand, if you are a woman and don't look like Pam, according to the research you are probably out of luck.
And here I have spent years keeping myself in shape. At least I know now why the fishing is so slow...:) | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 11:21:34 AM | To be honest, I kinda like the whole process of seduction if it's done well. It's an art form, not to be taken lightly.
The same thing is true for me at 60 as it was at 30. You must titilate my imagination as well as my body. If it's just the same ole, same ole, why should I participate? I've been there and done that on more than one occassion.
I have written in many threads that I know how fortunate I was in my marriage. A huge portion my happiness can be attributed to the fact that my late husband took the time and made the effort to seduce me over and over. Boredom was never and issue. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 11:55:29 AM | "So, if you are a handsome hunk of a man, you are out of luck. Get a picture of some feeble looking bespeckled geek and post that. On the other hand, if you are a woman and don't look like Pam, according to the research you are probably out of luck.
And here I have spent years keeping myself in shape. At least I know now why the fishing is so slow...:)"
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What pic?
I've been to your profile.. and I read your little disclaimer of providing a pic.. IF.. the woman shows the "initiative" first.. by e-mailing YOU.. and "asking" to see one. Hmmmm... now.. that isn't controling the situation right from the start! Not to mention the narcsisist self-description. What you may "consider" a hunk.. women may find arrogant and controling. Try keeping the description basic and put the pic up for "her" to decide if your "fit" company. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 11:58:30 AM | " A huge portion my happiness can be attributed to the fact that my late husband took the time and made the effort to seduce me over and over."
Note the phrase.. "my late husband"
Ahhhhhhhh.. nothing like committed romantic seduction! Bliss! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 12:23:31 PM | I’ve found over the course of my life, that a woman who is seducable (that’s a word, right?) is generally ‘lacking’ in most of the things that I would want from a woman who has just been successfully seduced. That’s about as polite as I can say it.
cdn guy | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 12:30:11 PM | | I will be happy to send you a pic, Red, but because I don't live in the US and am not within 75 miles, I can't do it on my own initiative. I am about the last person that people would describe as arrogant and controlling, and if people don't want my pic, they are free not to contact me. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 12:41:50 PM | They may be "free" to contact anyone.. even those that "have" a pic. It's a "free" dating site. Putting a pic up is a way for us all to be seen.. even in the matches section of POF. Stating on your profile you have one to show.. "if you e-mail me".. is setting a trap (controlling the situation) to those who may not have a large variety of men to choose from in your particular area. If "you" do this.. "I'll " do that. Putting a self-description on your profile as to how great you look.. is arrogant. I may think I could be a beauty queen contender.. yet others may see.. I do have my flaws. Pic away!
People who know you.. may think that you aren't arrogant.. but.. we're just trying to get to know you. First impressions and all. JMO | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 1:25:49 PM | Take my word for it, rearguard is handsome, and I didn't e-mail him first. 
I asked the same question red, and got a photo. lol
Anyway, what has this to do with seducing a woman.. Oh wait, I know, start by producing a photo of a handsome man! | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 2:06:26 PM |
You're 57?? Some women never mature.
If you want to delete this one, then also delete the "How to seduce a man over 50" that this question mirrors.
From her pictures, she has matured very well...
It is sad though that you have to change one or two words from someone elses post to start your own... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 2:11:10 PM | Ageless..
He tried to send me one as well.. I'm better restricted than you are I guess..
Look.. it's not that I doubt he's "good-looking".. it's the manner inwhich he goes about "seducing" women into "asking" for his pic (by means of a rather arrogant self-description).. and the excuses he gives as to why he holds it back in the first place. If you don't want people to have it on the net.. don't put a pic on the net.. anywhere! There are NO guarantees anyone will ever use someone elses pic for corrupt reasons.. anymore then making statements will be taken (blown) out of context. It's a risk.. and if you aren't into taking some risks the rest of the dating world is willing to take.. what else aren't you willing to risk in making/having a relationship? It's used as a seduction ploy. That's what I'm saying ageless.. just took me awhile to get there... | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 2:35:22 PM | No, Red, I am not trying to seduce anyone on POF. Never fear, you are safe from me in every way.
Let me just say that I have had personal experience with the misuse of photos on the net. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 2:44:36 PM | I'm willing to take risks.. and men don't scare me.. at least.. not in print.
Then.. my question to you would be.. why put a pic on your pc and hand it out to women willing to ask for it.. if not for the reason of a ploy? If you've already had what I assume (and forgive me for the assumption) "bad experiences" with your pic on the net? Once it's been "given" it's out there for anyone to do whatever they wish with it.. and you still no longer have control over where it goes.. and what becomes of its use. Just sounds like excuses.. and not sensibility. A ploy for seductive purposes going hand-in-hand with the self-description.JMO | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:10:22 PM | OP .......... If a woman can post a topic questioning what it takes to seduce a man over 50. Then, I think it's valid to post a question asking how to seduce a woman over 50.
Good post OP.........
So, here's my take on it.
To successfully seduce a lady, validate her thoughts and opinions, first and foremost. Make love to her mind. ( you've heard that before) Make her feel valued, listened to and respected. Trust her with your innermost POSITIVE thoughts and feelings. Spare her any negativity.
Look in her eyes, not at her chest or other body parts. Choose a place to be with her with the minimum of distractions. Candlelight and soft music doesn't hurt either. Be clean and smell nice, but don't overdo. Be confident but not arrogant. Face her directly and lean slightly forward every now and then. Be playful, show her your sense of humour. Use your manners, open doors, pour her wine etc. It gives women a feeling of security when a man acts like a gentleman. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:32:20 PM | Ask them what's wrong and look sympathetic but don't mention sex, desperation, settling for less and wait for them to start talking.
Act interested and let them talk till they're convinced you're a nice guy.
Learn how to trip them when you're walking without them knowing you did it and then catch them as they're falling. They love saviors.
Me, I would rather say something dumb and make the seducible women run away cause they have a history of bad relationships and I don't want to be in that list. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:46:59 PM | | Wow! There are some pretty tough critics in the forums. Every woman who has ever been married has been seduced. Otherwise, we would just use artificial insemination for procreation. | |
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| How to seduce a Woman over 50?
Posted: 4/9/2008 4:56:46 PM | Phoebe48 says:
... validate her thoughts and opinions, ...
Check.
... Make her feel valued, listened to and respected. ...
Well, I do value people, and listen to them and respect them, although it is NOT to "make them" feel anything, because I think we create our own feelings.
Anyway, check.
Trust her with your innermost POSITIVE thoughts and feelings. Spare her any negativity.
Check.
Look in her eyes, not at her chest or other body parts.
Check.
Choose a place to be with her with the minimum of distractions. Candlelight and soft music doesn't hurt either.
Check.
Be clean and smell nice, but don't overdo.
Check.
Be confident but not arrogant.
Check.
Face her directly and lean slightly forward every now and then.
Check.
Be playful, show her your sense of humour. Use your manners, open doors, pour her wine etc.
Check.
But WAIT! She says it's "to successfully seduce a lady." Well, screw that. I do all those things because I am a sensitive and polite human being, not because I am trying to get anything from anybody.
If she gives me what I want only because I have "seduced" her then I don't want it anyway.
"Seducing" is coaxing another person to give you what you desire. Well, I don't do that. I let people know what I want, and expect them to either say yes or say no.
If they say "yes," that's great - I accept their choice with pleasure.
If they say "no," I will NOT try to change their mind. I respect people's right to choose whatever they want and I will hear them when they say what their choice is and will fully respect it.
If a woman gives me something, I want it to be a free gift, not a successful "sale."
If I ever decide to get into "seducing" I will take up a career selling insurance or used cars.
I am not a salesman or a missionary, and I am not in the business of persuading people to do anything they do not choose to do of their own free will, making choices without any seduction. | |
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