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Posted: 4/9/2008 8:31:47 AM | I've been in POF beginning of this year.. I have gone out with several nice guys from here, and others who have seen the palm of my hand in their faces.. You know who you are..LOL
But have you received offers from guys asking you if they can be your sugardaddy? Well I really dont need anyones funds..I'm very well off financially and can work for a living.. But these people who are asking to be sugardaddies are Attys, Doctors, who are married.. To me, if you are wanting and have been a sugadaddy to someone, is time to analyze your morals and values.. What goes around comes around.. and it seems they dont get the point.. How sad it is!... To see people are still thinking they can buy out your happiness.. Happiness begins with you.. And you need to find your happiness without buying anyone..
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Posted: 4/9/2008 9:36:58 AM | Yes I have, and I was annoyed as his next sentence was Im married but you could be my well off bit on the side.....ewwwwwwwww....told him that personally that wasnt for me and then asked him why he felt the need to have someone else...his point of view was he loved his wife but the bedroom side lacked and instead of dating he wanted a mistress....well that was his prerogative and I wished him all the best...I do agree with you to a point everyone is an individual and has been brought up with different standards, what they feel is right or wrong and can be stretched or not...personally I couldnt go down the road with anyone who is married. The consequences would be terrible for everyone involved...however, the sugar daddy bit doesnt really bother me...am I morally wrong for wanting a guy to treat me I dont think so however I wouldnt want a guy to go to a vast expense for my favours...that would be in my opinion verging on prostitution....Regarding happiness if we are both into each other I wouldnt care about status, age etc...happiness rules.... | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 9:41:41 AM | | Gees, maybe they just wanted to spoil you! It is not a bad thing. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 10:49:07 AM | | Oh yeah. Or the wife doesnt want sex after menopause and is okay with this. Or I will put you up in a condo in Las Vegas and visit a few times a year WTF!! Yup heard a mountain of sh1t. Funny thing is I think some of these girls who lack the financial means or backbone might actually fall for it. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 12:02:46 PM | | I agreed with you.. Some of these girls who lack financial means or backbone might actually fall for it.. But what gets me, why would you lower your standard to be the other paid woman.. is like being second plate.. geshhhhhhh.. Also, poor wife, being blind of her husband's behavior issues..Not mentioning the STD he can giver her from getting a piece of paid action from the side.. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 12:55:06 PM | > poor wife, being blind of her husband's behavior issues..
Ya sure it isn't her idea in the first place? | |
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Posted: 4/9/2008 2:32:41 PM | | HAHAHAHA.. Funny, the way this atty put it, she doesn't know anything about it..So no, is not her idea.. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 12:52:26 AM | | It's a questionable practice, and potentially dangerous. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 1:56:51 AM | | Even if I were filthy rich, I'd donate it all to charity before I'd pamper & spoil some brat that wanted to use me for a sugar daddy. That's about all I have to say on that subject. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 6:08:05 AM | | Ask the atty to put the offer in writing! Then insist that his wife sign it too. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 6:35:01 AM |
"Well I really dont need anyones funds..I'm very well off financially and can work for a living."
I am not rich or well off but I would never agree to such a deal. There are women who do for their own reasons and, for many, money isn't the deciding factor. Some like the convenience of a man who has other obligations and, therefore, is only around on a limited basis. To each their own.
To your OP, I interpret the "I like you, wanna get married?" emails as sugar daddy offers, to which I ignore. Oh, and I also avoid lawyers, doctors, traders and bankers as potential mates because IME they seem to learn somewhere in the schooling that comes along with their auspicious degrees...exactly how to be crass a$$holes.
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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:20:02 AM | | I agree with your comment.. Where do they get the idea, that they can buy anything they please.. Theres women out there with respect, and dignity and wants the actual fairy tale.. Also, if they are so unhappy in their marriage, have the COGONES, to get a divorce.. But mentally I guess they dont get the point.. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 12:50:48 PM | | Damn... where are all the women offering this!... LIVE IN LAS VEGAS AND VISIT A COUPLE TIMES PER YEAR?... I'm in...!!! | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 3:08:32 PM | | I think you are not taken the time to read the posts.. We are talking about men being sugardaddy, and how awful it is.. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:42:22 PM | To me, if you are wanting and have been a sugadaddy to someone, is time to analyze your morals and values
But you are not a man. This is not up to you to say: you are not the one who does or will ever do this. I see no point in pointing fingers. Maybe you should look at why you need to preach your lessons to those that probably clearly know what they are doing but still decide to make that choice...In many cases they know they cannot buy you. But still enjoy to offer. They are not all morons, you know? And who are you to judge? People are different and are driven by different motives and intentions, not all good and not all bad. You seem to show resentment....this is not a good sign. If you do not like the offer, just say "no, thanks".
If you think that you could be thought of as for sale, maybe you are.....If you knew you weren't for sale, you wouldn't bother. ( Just my opinion) | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 12:46:11 AM | | So I guess you will love to have a sugardaddy.. Which that is your choice.. and I'm not resentment, plus I'm not for sale.. But I guess some people like your comment loves the idea to have others take care of them for a prize.. (Just my opinion) and I did said NO THANKS .. and is not like is bother me Bloom10, i just wanted to know if other women has rcvd these kind of offer, but I guess you haven't.. Otherwised you wouldn't be commeting it this way. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 4:58:39 AM |
learn somewhere in the schooling that comes along with their auspicious degrees...exactly how to be crass a$$holes
Don't be so narrow minded, loislane, there are lots of guys out there with no schooling who are crass a$$holes  | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 7:13:38 AM | | ^^^^^Hahaha, how true that can be. IME, however, the aforementioned types have perfected it. They are just too unbearable for me to deal with. *smh* | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 9:50:36 AM | "Crass" means things like "ostentatious", "loud", "offensive", "inelegant", "uncouth" -- sorta like the way this thread is going. 
I understand that women going on and on about the men they do not want is essentially posturing about what high standards they have. Put yourselves up on a pedestal all you want, just don't expect the rest of us to reflexively salute or bow before your loftiness. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 10:41:28 AM | "I agree with your comment.. Where do they get the idea, that they can buy anything they please.. Theres women out there with respect, and dignity and wants the actual fairy tale.. Also, if they are so unhappy in their marriage, have the COGONES, to get a divorce.. But mentally I guess they dont get the point."
With all due respect Avonlatina the offers would not be made if they were not well received from time to time. Beautiful women simply need to learn that for all the good men out there they're just going to have to learn to ignore the offensive propositions and get on with the first day of the rest of their lives. So you had a pig oink at you. Get out of the barnyard. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 11:41:26 AM | Suger Daddy offer??? - sounds like a scam to me...
What are they doing - offering to buy cars etc in return for sex? Oh dear oh dear oh dear. I am ashamed to be male... (& glad to be single). Do girls actually fall for this sh*it? | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 11:46:05 AM | Oh i read the posts... I want a rich woman to want me for her cabana boy in Vegas...!!!  | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 1:38:33 PM | I commend you OP for actually having the morals, values, drive and determination to get your own life for yourself. But as many people like you who are offended by these offers, sadly there are just as many who look regularly and exclusively for them.
I for one don't agree with it but it is a reality and an equal supply / demand equation. Some women equate happiness with being spoiled and rich and nothing else and there are men who get their pride by providing these things and having a "no hassle benefits" situation in their mind.
Again I am glad to hear there are plenty of women out there to balance out those folks who want sugardaddies. On the flip side, also know there are plenty of men out there to also balance out those folks who look for suggardaddy situations.
I would hate to see any more jaded folks on here start speaking with the "all men" or "all women" tone. It is sad to see people go off the deep end like that. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2008 2:17:36 PM | Actually mess. 16, I have had many offers of this kind and I was wise enough to avoid what I believed to be a the trap, simply because the offer came from men whom I did not respect. Had I honored the person, I would have accepted.
However, I believe the not al men have the intention of possessing your essence simply because they wish to provide for you.
Call me old style, I still like the idea of the man taking care of the woman ( although, truthfully, I do not need it, in fact I come from a family where women have always been the main providers and I can see the downside of it: women who become tyrants and men forced to submission: it is pretty ugly; or, on the other hand, women that kill themselves in order to provide what the man could never appreciate: not a pretty sight!). Needs can be met in many different ways and judgment without the background of specific circumstances is truly inappropriate, in my opinion. | |
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