| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:25:34 AM | I'm a 30 year old female who came out of a marriage a couple of years ago, and now, back in the single life, and have decided to take my bicuriousity to the next level - and it will likely be official this weekend. I do love men, and am looking forward to a relationship with one, but for now, I'm going to explore the 'erotica' of being with a woman... MEN - what do you really think? Do I tell my future dates? Or not? Is it accepted?
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:59:02 AM | Having been involved with someone who has had bi-sexual experiences, I can tell you from my point of view. She cheated on me with another woman. Being sexual wih another woman is stil being sexual with another person and therfore I see it as cheating.unless it's ok with her partner. She told me she didn't think it was cheating because it was same sex. To me same sex or different sex, it's still sex with another person.
As faras I'm concerned if she thinks it's ok, to be sexual with other women while she's going out with me, then I should be ok to also have other women in the relationship. Not my fault she's bi-sexual an I'm not.
That being said, if she's bi-sexual, then find someone else, I don't want her coming home with an STI she caught from someone else, be it male or female. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:00:38 AM | Anybody who does or doesn't do something because of what others might think is an idiot.
When they lay you in the ground it will only be you and your regrets of what you DIDN'T DO.
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:06:17 AM | | I think the majority of men out there will admit that it is a turn on for a woman to be bisexual. Now a topic like this might not be brought up on the first date, but shouldnt be kept a secret either if you plan on acting out on it. And if you do, you better plan on at least having him there, and if you're really nice have him join in the fun!!!!! | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:08:56 AM | | Go for it. This is the twentyth century. I believe that if a person, man or woman wants to explore their fantasies and has a chance to do it then why not? I dont believe that its "dirty". To each his own. As for myself with another man its not my thing. I was in a relationship where part of the "pillow talk" was about sharing with others and it was a turn on for both. Deep down we want to expierince it but are too afraid of what "society" will think. Bottom line....who gives a hoot about what "society" thinks. As for telling your future love about it why bother???? Will you share every detail with your past life???????? NOT....and if you do tell him (which I think would be a mistake) and he doesnt like it then he never really loved you for who you are in the first place so therefore you should dump him. My opinion only. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:11:44 AM | I think it's something you are exploring as a human and should keep it to yourself unless you want your partner(s) to know about it, and are willing to risk losing that relationship.
It's very "in" to explore extra-sexual activities with other people these days; same-sex, or no. Some men will be excited by it. Others will be turned off. If t'were me, I'd consider it your private issue, but would certainly be very curious about it and like to hear, if not see, the details.
Hopefully, your partners won't give you some odd response (as is seen in this thread) that is hard to decypher. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:41:23 AM | Yup! Go for it! And tell a new guy about it! A bi-curious gal is sexy, sexy, sexy...
I had a bi girlfriend for a couple of years, but she was a lesbian who had switched to penis. Not nearly as sexy because they usually only like a penis that has a paycheck and health insurance attached to it...
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:47:51 AM | I say go for it--It's a "TURN ON" for most guys I think.
I don't think you need to tell a future "DATE" anything. A future "comitted relationship"? If he asks then tell him. Not sure how many women ask a new guy they are seeing if he is Bi. But if asked I'd tell.
Of course after you tell him get ready for a "3"some, LOL..
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:51:04 AM | Go ahead and explore your sexuality!
Do not feel you have to discuss this right away with anyone unless you feel comfortable doing so. Not everyone is as openminded to these experiences and unless you have a really thick skin, be careful who you disclose this information to and how quickly.... the reactions you get will range anywhere from disgust to indifference to lust.
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 10:13:39 AM | I agree with the last post. If I am in a relationship with you though, I want to know if you are going to have a good time with her. It is part of the communication freak that I am. So if that is the case, I am ok with it. Not to sound like a pig here but eventually I would want to be involved some how. Can't help it, I 'm a guy. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 10:58:48 AM | | I'm bisexual. Now, I prefer a man over a woman any day and I don't actively seek out a woman for pleasure. I usually don't tell a guy that I am dating right away about my tendencies of being with a woman. I don't tell because some of the guys I have dated once they do find out automatically think "Hey, I'm so lucky....threesome!!!" And that's not the case. So, I usually wait until I feel comfortable enough with the guy that I'm dating to tell him. And I explain to him that this is something I don't go out and seek...it's more like if the situation is right and it happens, it happens. Most guys that I have dated aren't bothered by the fact that I like to be with a woman every now and then. I think it's because I don't live the lifestyle of being truly bi. I can take it or leave it when it comes to being with a woman...my main preference with being with a man. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 11:30:56 AM | | I have to admit it... I consider it to be hot. Guys typically can understand a woman wanting to be with another woman... they're attractive to us so why wouldn't they be to each other. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 12:53:23 PM | Eh, this is a subject I'm divided on.
Women who are truly bisexual or at least bicurious (which is what it sounds like you genuinely are), I have no problem with. Their whole interest/curiosity in other women is purely for their own gratification.
However, most "bi" girls are just straight girls who want attention from guys. I have no respect at all for these girls.
That being said, I still find it totally hot and have no problem watching them. | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 1:04:54 PM | i'm right there w u, baby doll.
i could say am bi, but am a strong believer u have to eat p***y before saying such a thing, and all my attempts to go all the way w women have failed so far, so i say i am bi-curious. one was too sick to kiss, so we just got hot n bothered, one got too drunk and bit my nipples so hard i thought i was gonna throw her out the window (i ain't a cow), one stood me up for a movie premiere (she called me the next day... well f*ck u, i already lost the premiere cause of u), had one at work i was drooling over, but she's going thru a break-up and am not sure how much i love women and not, so i don't wanna be bad influence...
so, am still 'curious'.. god sabotages my women, all i gotta say
anywyas, my point is this - u wanna try it, go ahead... i believe like draws alike, so u might draw in a bf that, if it all works out, would be totally turned on to see u w a girl from time to time
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 1:18:43 PM | | DO WHAT EVER YOU FEEL YOU CAN LIVE WITH IN YOUR LIFE REGUARDLESS WHO KNOWS. IF YOU FEEL IT WILL CAUSE TROUBLE LATER IN YOUR LIFE, BEST LET IT GO?!!! | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 2:12:04 PM | | I would say you would have to judge what kind of relationship you would prefer.. one w/ a man or one w/ a woman .. Because if you go south on a lady you might find you don't want to turn back ;) | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:32:12 PM | Hmmm...so I think the general conclusion is that:
1) Do it if I'm comfortable with it and dont worry about what others think
2) I dont know if i like it until I try (but women sure are sensual, erotic creatures..mmm)
So my last question is - if someone I'm dating doesn't ask - there's no need for me 'disclose' this? For some reason I feel like I should? | |
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| What do men REALLY think of bisexual women?
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:35:08 PM | | I am a tell almost all person up front, that way there are no issues down the road, and if she doesn't like what I say, sorry to say this but NEXT!!!!!! | |
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