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 Regularguy_31
Joined: 3/21/2008
Msg: 1
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How socially unacceptable! I've been married for almost ten years and now my wife and I have decided (together) to free ourselves of complications regarding sex. This is new to me, less than six months old, but be certain, both of us agree with this life style. My question is how to sell myself to people who might be uninterested in a married person because it would mean a horrible affair. I'm sure that some people would say that they aren't interested because someone like me would be incapable of having a long term relationship. I'd like to know people's thoughts on this subject. Should I say I'm married on my profile or single or something in between?
 MissTique II
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/17/2008 6:53:42 PM
My question to you is.. why are you still married?
I know .. to each his own but, when there are children involved you have to consider them first… they did not ask to be born, they should be your first responsibility and love them more than your thingie, once more when your poor kids find about this .. you will be hated – and you can take that to the bank deposit it and collect interest or it will screw them up permanently… that goes beyond values and good morals.. what in the world can you explain this to your innocent children and what the heck are you two thinking?!… When you are single its one thing.. however, when wives and kids are involved … this gets sticky.. dude you better come to your senses! your only worry is how you will be accepted on pof... that should be your least of your problems!
You can hide it from the children for a while but, my father used to tell (God rest his soul) once a thief, twice a thief .. third time is his bad luck day... buddy, it will ALL come out in the wash.... and, the walls have ears... co-workers, bosses, relatives etc.. will see your nice mug shot... my whole family, kids, colleages saw mine...just imagine what they will be saying behind your back....
What more can I say but, whatever pops your clutch dude… but, this is disturbing to me…shaking my head with disbelief
What do you think.. you are living a movie star life.. you my friend are far from it…you are NOT Brad Pitt and I am pretty sure your wifey poo is not Angelina .. as we say in Quebec… NEXT, Suivant!!
Get it together before it falls all apart beyond repair ...
Judge Judy has spoken
There are my two cents.. just my opinion ... and observation.
Try to remember for every action there is a reaction....

Good luck with the whatever you want to call it
 php
Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 3
Open Marriage
Posted: 4/17/2008 9:41:03 PM
You should be on somespamsite, you'll have no problems there .. you'll probably find people in your situation looking for NSA.

As for here, put you're married (technically) or living together (except on those nights you are shagging other people)
 Regularguy_31
Joined: 3/21/2008
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/18/2008 12:10:05 PM
Tell me what you REALLY think. I'm sorry, MissTique, I don't love my children as much as my thingie. I have to say, I'm very happy that I convinced my wife to do this (it was like pulling teeth), because now I can neglect my family to my heart's content. Why bother getting divorced at all? I've got the best of both worlds and my wife doesn't have a clue. By the way, what did you mean when you spoke about your mug shot? May I ask what you did that was so terrible? And yes, I am sooooo Brad Pitt. But my wife certainly is not Angelina, so, this was my way of compensating. Thank you for your comment.
 Regularguy_31
Joined: 3/21/2008
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/18/2008 12:13:20 PM
I checked out that site...I don't think that'll work, but thanks anyways. I don't know if I want to be editing my profile quite so often (I'm shagging alot these days, whew!). Which one would be a good permanent honest one?
 php
Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/18/2008 1:24:19 PM
Sorry my post got edited ... they consider mentioning another dating site by name, "spam" ...

The other dating site that i mentioned in my earlier post that featured adult oriented dating is not as bad as you think, well it could be if you want it to be.

Put you are married and in your description what you mentioned here, in an open relationship, no point in hiding it anyways, never helps.
 MissTique II
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/18/2008 4:30:07 PM
OP, All I can say is that you are truly and absolutely ... LOST in the SAUCE with NO Where to go ...
Shag away dude till your dinky doo doo falls off...

 4loorplay
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/18/2008 5:03:20 PM
sniper....your shagging and you are still married...why hold on? You guys should divorce move on, or get wigs and change names.
 chrisintoyland
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 9
Open Marriage
Posted: 4/18/2008 9:23:19 PM
"Hello! I'm a soldier in the Canadian Forces."

The values of the Canadian military are astounding. My old friend in Courville was also in the Canadian army at Val Cartier. My high school friends are in the US airforce and they wouldn't dare publicly post anything remotely like this. Passable in Canada though.
God the weather is absolutely beautiful where I am. The gas is cheap and there's no french... mmm ... mmm... mmm.... "this must be just like living in paradise" - David Lee Roth
I have pity in my heart for all of you. ;)
 MissTique II
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/19/2008 7:47:06 AM
^^^^^ What the heck does any of that have to do with this topic you KOOKY MONGOOSE?
The only song you should be singing is.... All by myself

Now go back to your cage and stay there
 4loorplay
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/19/2008 8:09:42 AM
Chris I have read a few of your post's ( you seem to be everywhere like dog s h i t) and all you do is complain about being here. Why is it you complain always? What you need is to stop sitting on the puter while spanking your monkey. Just make a party and tell everyone its in your mouth....some will cum.
 chrisintoyland
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/19/2008 9:21:30 AM
Oh how I miss that unfunny Canadian humor. I'm not complaining about being there. I'm saying that I pity you. I was also making a point that the immorality of the Canadian armed forces and the fact that it's publicly advertised as such is laughable.
Where I am there are nothing but palm trees and sunny weather. Oh, and Carl's Jr restaurants. It's like 70 degrees here where I am. Our cable TV here has something like 900 channels. I already got a new high def set to watch. Take that videotron.
 MissTique II
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/19/2008 9:58:30 AM
^^^ I can see that it does not take too much to give you a thrill .. little man BIG world
You do not get OUT much do you?
FYI you dumb dweeb since you left it has been sunny and very warm
I guess we can very well call you the *Black Cloudof Quebec* good riddens .. like I said.. stay in your cage.. the dumb dweeb bird that you are...

Have fun with the 900 channels
 chrisintoyland
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/19/2008 10:01:48 AM
The worst day of weather in LA is better than the best day of weather in Quebec. FYI, I get out plenty.
I think I'll go work on my tan today. You can after all work from anywhere(we have PCI broadband wireless anywhere in CA unlike Rogers *shock*).

http://www.thomaspurves.com/2007/04/09/canada-worse-than-3rd-world-countries-when-it-comes-to-mobile-data-access/
Oh man. I think you guys will be stuck in your cubicles for some years to come.

My sheet white Canadian skin is due for some vitamin E. Bye bye ice queen.
 4loorplay
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/19/2008 2:25:30 PM
You are a loser plain and simple. You talk palm trees and gas price and weather....BUT THE TRUTH IS YOU SIT ALONE AND WATCH TV. You are a Basher with no life....walking the beach with your zipper down trolling for queers. Oh yes Concert promoter LOL yet all you do is bash and complain = LOSER!
 chrisintoyland
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/19/2008 4:09:17 PM
Stick to the facts. I did. I haven't promoted a concert in 11 years. If you stick to the facts you have nothing. Anybody can make things up. At any rate, this is getting off topic. I just wanted to point out the morality of the Canadian forces.
Have a wonderful, happy and icy cold socialist life.
And the franch, enjoy your franch dressing, your franch fries, and your franch coultuur.
bye now.
 its really me
Joined: 11/2/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/19/2008 6:10:16 PM
And this all has to do with open marriage ..how?????? Teach me to read the forums...look who's back.
 4loorplay
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/19/2008 7:06:12 PM
Fact??? LOL the one's in your head ? You must see black helecopters flown by pink elephants.
 php
Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/20/2008 2:57:28 PM
Getting back on topic, the question was what he should do with his relationship status on PoF not his personal life ...

... and ... believe it or not, it is possible to ignore Chris the board troll, I learned to do it and so should you

 its really me
Joined: 11/2/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/20/2008 3:16:48 PM
As far as his status should go (in my point of view) he is married and it should list it that way. He can further explain in his details that he has an open marriage . That way there are no lies. Lies are hurtful, so why try start off any kind of relationship with a lie?
 Regularguy_31
Joined: 3/21/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:19:30 PM
Thank you! I won't try to defend myself on this forum because frankly I have what you all want. Two great kids, a marriage that is loving, honest and in fantastic shape (going on nine years now), and a great social life. I don't want to put anyone down and I just wanted to know the most honest way to meet new friends. So thank you, it's really me, for that very good advice.
 cryostage
Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 22
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Posted: 5/27/2008 11:11:41 PM
Snipe i am reading your post's and i must say u need to get a life bro, u dont love ur kids as much as ur thingie... K now i see why you are so immature to the touch,
and you are proud that u convinced your wife,
what you think u will get out of this a 3 sum some new flint all u are going to get is a empty hand in life, and no family because all it takes is for another man to sweep ur woman off her feet... but wait that is what u want so then u dont have to worry about a devorce lol smart but dumb..

why did u marry ur wife in the first place...?
 cryostage
Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 23
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Posted: 5/27/2008 11:14:38 PM
What u have is a shallow life that all what u thinks people should be impressed by this it makes u look like retard and a low life with no self a steam,
what you think is a good marriage will be a lost one....enjoy
 DiveFree
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/1/2008 2:28:12 PM
Where I am there are nothing but palm trees and sunny weather. Oh, and Carl's Jr restaurants. It's like 70 degrees here where I am. Our cable TV here has something like 900 channels. I already got a new high def set to watch. Take that videotron.
Can't believe you show up here still! I really thought the extra work in Cali would not allow you time for POF.

Please tell us how much your rent is and/or mortgage for the square foot of the house. You're not living in Milpitis, I hope.

OP wrote:
I won't try to defend myself on this forum because frankly I have what you all want. Two great kids, a marriage that is loving, honest and in fantastic shape (going on nine years now), and a great social life. I don't want to put anyone down and I just wanted to know the most honest way to meet new friends. So thank you, it's really me, for that very good advice.
I read your posts and your profile. The only thing I can conclude from all of this is that the whole thing is a joke and you've managed to provoke a bunch of people to feed you as a troll? There are just way too many contradictions for another explanation.
 yna6
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/27/2008 5:52:21 PM
hmm..if your wife and you BOTH agreed...maybe set each other up on dates with people each of you knows. Could be fun!

Sometimes the "same old same old" just gets soooooo stale.
the plural of "spouse" is "spice"!
Have a good one.
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