| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:42:51 AM | Well a friend introduced me to another site for disabled single's all age's 18 and up it has support there more less it like a family i just join about 5 days ago so if your interested it wont hurt to check it out.
http://www.lovebyrd.com/
like i said its made for disabled singles iam so happy they made a site for this. | |
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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:20:57 AM | | you never know till you try at least at that site you may find some one who will asept u for u theres a better understanding there because people know what it is to be disabled and in some sites people rather not date some one with a disabilty wich is not fair thats why i went to lovebyrd.com as well i met a few good friends there and they have a chat room there to . | |
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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:14:37 PM | I don't have any problems with it. As a matter of fact, I do better in person than I do online. It's has more to do with confidence. Learn to believe in yourself and you will naturally attract people who want to date you.
It's easy to fall into thinking that you are "less than" or "less desirable" because you are disabled. But, that is not the case. Here is a repost of something I wrote on a similar forum. I hope this helps.
expunge it from your thinking. Your life has no place for that line of thought. It says to the man reading your profile, and any man you encounter in the real world, that you feel he is the prize because he can walk and you can't. Actually, it is the other way around. Because of your unique experiences as a disabled person you have probably learned great compassion, patience, life skills and ways of solving problems that would benefit any man who has you in his life. If one adds those attributes to the fact that you are attractive, educated and accomplished, it is very clear that YOU ARE THE PRIZE, not him. He/she is the one who should be hoping that you will talk to him.
Embrace all that is your "Wheelly Goodness" when it comes to dating and romance. Put it out front and be proud of it. It is a very big part of who you are. Yes, there will be men/women who won't date you because of it. They don't matter. When they found out about your disability, you'd end up without those guys anyway . So, you've saved yourself some time. At the very least, by making your disability known from the beginning, you'll know that any man/woman who responds to your profile doesn't care about your chair and values the opportunity to get to know you. And, if he's lucky, you just might let him/her take you out.
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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have
Posted: 7/3/2008 8:18:21 PM | But also it is easy to judge some one with out even knowing them if they have disabilitie and what if it was not there fault or what if they where born with it why are they differnt or be treated differnt from every one else thats why iam glad they made a site and perhaps now make other sites to help those find there true love with out being looked at or judged.
But thats why i believe there is more to love than money or judge those who cant help who they are. | |
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| having trouble finding some one because of a disabilty you may have
Posted: 7/29/2008 1:53:38 PM | But being disabled aint a bad thing it's how you use your time being alive and iam sure there are many out there who didn't choose to be disabled but now is and now it has been a down fault to them finding some one that would asept them for who they are.
It hurt's and you feel alone and feel rejected in this world because there is no kindness and if there is it's very little.
So it's nothing wrong in getting help from other's it's good to have that support and the problem is that the world has revolved of money and sex and selfishness and it leaves us good people in the middle. pretty sad ha | |
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