expunge it from your thinking. Your life has no place for that line of thought. It says to the man reading your profile, and any man you encounter in the real world, that you feel he is the prize because he can walk and you can't. Actually, it is the other way around. Because of your unique experiences as a disabled person you have probably learned great compassion, patience, life skills and ways of solving problems that would benefit any man who has you in his life. If one adds those attributes to the fact that you are attractive, educated and accomplished, it is very clear that YOU ARE THE PRIZE, not him. He/she is the one who should be hoping that you will talk to him.

Embrace all that is your "Wheelly Goodness" when it comes to dating and romance. Put it out front and be proud of it. It is a very big part of who you are. Yes, there will be men/women who won't date you because of it. They don't matter. When they found out about your disability, you'd end up without those guys anyway . So, you've saved yourself some time. At the very least, by making your disability known from the beginning, you'll know that any man/woman who responds to your profile doesn't care about your chair and values the opportunity to get to know you. And, if he's lucky, you just might let him/her take you out.