| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/18/2008 4:19:55 PM | | Ive encountered quite a few women here in Las Vegas on this site who wont even meet for a lousy cup of coffee because of where I live. I have a feeling theyre not on here to sincerely find a relationship, they are amateur hookers on here looking for sucker guys to buy them a few meals and drinks. Sad. Dont reward their bad behavior. | |
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/18/2008 4:42:08 PM | Perhaps not wanting to meet you Rick for a "lousy cup of coffee" is less about where you live and has more to do with WHOM you are. Using the broad stroke of your brush to reference women in Las Vegas as "amateur hookers looking for sucker guys to buy them a few meals and drinks" reeks of bad attitude and negativity. I daresay that attitude of yours comes across LOUD & CLEAR when you are communicating to these women. "Don't reward their bad behavior"...well now isn't that just like the pot calling the kettle black, lol. Posting a whiny thread about your datelessness and disparaging commentary about the women of Las Vegas isn't what I would call..."good behavior". Seems to me your lack of dates...is in fact your 'just reward'.  | |
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/18/2008 4:59:15 PM | Oh...one other thing... Whilst there may be some women open to meeting for a "lousy cup of coffee", there are some women who might actually appreciate and warm up to the idea of a gentleman's offer of nice meal and drinks out somewhere. Any good fisherman knows...if the fish are not biting...you move on to another spot...or you change the type of bait used. Fish are not that impressed by a guy bitching in the boat, lol. Maybe the idea of a 'lousy cup of coffee" coupled with a negative-nasty attitude isn't perhaps the most enticing bait choice...
Lastly...how many hookers do you know Rick...that actually have time to eat? As far as I know...their time is spent doing 'other things' **rolls eyes @ you for such a silly suggestion** | |
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/19/2008 9:09:00 AM | | Careful OP..not all of us are in that amateur hooking mode and posting like that will probably not get you the women that are here really looking for someone real......ummm maybe this kind of post from men like you(and not saying all men) I went outside of nevada and found my love..................when I was dating thru here I always went for coffee, not a problem.............sheesh, maybe it is the girls your picking OP. | |
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/19/2008 10:46:45 AM | I try to be as diplomatic about this sort of topic as I can.
The basic problem in Vegas is there are too many men and too many of them are dumb asses. The ratio of men to women in the Vegas area is about 12 to 10. That is over all, 12 single men for every 10 single women.
Oh sure, If you like hookers or getting hustled in stripbars, then Vegas is the town for you ! No single unattached man has any business moving to Vegas, thinking he's going to find a girlfriend.
Personally, I don't know a single woman here who doesn't have more than enough low quality men hanging around her all the time. After a while, the women go bonkers and their attitudes get flaky with everyone they meet. The men get jerky about it because they are constantly standing in line all the time.
If there were more single women in Vegas who could take some of the pressure off, everybody's attitude would improve. We need at least 200,000 more single women and we need to get rid of the same number of single men.
Of course, Vegas is the weird-ass, mental case mecca of the whole country. If you can't get along with people where ever you're living now, then move to Vegas and join the crowd.
If you've recently moved here you probably wont see what I'm talking about yet. Just wait a few years and you'll understand. | |
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/21/2008 10:15:10 AM | Rich Smith,
It sounds as if funds are an issue (perhaps I’m mistaken[?]), and you don’t particularly want to invest the slim dollars (and in today’s economy, they are getting slimmer by the minute) on someone who you view as looking for a meal-ticket more-so than a human connection.
Maybe you could razzle-dazzle them while preserving your hard-earned dough. Perhaps a picnic is in order in lieu of a cup of coffee(?)
Don’t let it get your down that some seem to be disinterested due to your current abode. Some are attracted to men with $$$. It should not be faulted as men are similarly superficial in different ways. We all have that thing that attracts us (both men and women). For some, it is the almightily coinage, for others prestige, and others individuals it’s power. Some are attracted to education, and others to sport-figures. Some are attracted to individuals with above-average physics and some to an individual with that added “cushioning” that makes for good cuddling. Some people like big butts, and some little butts. Are any of these less or more superficial “wants” than that of someone who is after an individual with a fancy-shmancy house that can throw some cash around?
I’m by no means (in fact, far from it) a wealthy individual, so I can somewhat understand your lamentation. At the same time though, realize that we all have that thing we are attracted to. If those who you have dealt with are attracted to individuals with prestigious living quarters, I don’t think you should fault them any more than I fault someone who does not share my penchant for jazz.
There are individuals in this city with the ability to make the world slow down while sitting upon a swing in a park trying to reclaim the childlike wonder that the succession of time has stolen. There are other individuals that enjoy the glittery shirts and pumping base of the skin-fest club-scene. To each their own. In the end, just try your best to be that which you wish to attract.
At least that’s my free advice (which is worth considerably less than what it cost). | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 6:30:43 PM | | I have only lived here for about 7 months but I do know that there are not safe neighborhoods, I wouldn't live in one and I wonder about people who do (back in Maryland I had to). Sometimes our circumstances place us in places we don't always want to be. I still am willing to meet men who live most anywhere in Vegas as long as they don't expect me to do all the driving all the time... though I will ask you how you feel about a suit or Tux. Just because you live in a area that isn't the best doesn't mean you don't know how to appreciate the good things in life. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 12:01:17 PM |
Ive encountered quite a few women here in Las Vegas on this site who wont even meet for a lousy cup of coffee Rick, Perhaps that is all you may be coming across as offering: a "lousy" whatever (cup of coffee, meal, drink). If lousy something is all someone going to get from you, then don't blame them for not scrambling to be the first one to line up at your doorstep.
This is a free site and you have full freedom to market yourself elsewhere, where you will find plethora of women who are willing to settle for a "lousy" whatever it is you have to offer; as well as where you believe amateur hookers don't frequent.
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| Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted: 4/23/2008 9:57:41 PM |
Ive encountered quite a few women here in Las Vegas on this site who won't even meet for a lousy cup of coffee because of where I live. I have a feeling they're not on here to sincerely find a relationship, they are amateur hookers on here looking for sucker guys to buy them a few meals and drinks. Sad. Don't reward their bad behavior. hmm... maybe, just maybe "quite a few women here in las vegas on this site" are smart and quick enough to figure out they don't want to waste your time. or, not want to meet anyone pessimistic who might be perhaps a bitter, glaringly obvious saboteur who just might be advertising themselves as otherwise?!
wouldn't a true "amateur" actually fall for and agree to meet practically anyone for, well... practically anything, even a "lousy cup of coffee?"
or indeed, perhaps herein this city there is a plethora of low lying women who'd play you for whatever you've got to give: money, drugs, blood, sweat, tears, guts; you name it. oh how difficult life is, a balancing tightrope act of sheer will and fortitude, to even entertain the idea of just trying to meet over a lousy cup of joe...
while i grew up here but had the opportunity to travel and live in many different places, my experiences have taught me that my thoughts create my attitude, and that is my own cross or joy to bear. still with me, or have you skimmed and decided this is a rant, or maybe you've decided to take a little nap and get back to this later? maybe. anyway, see i think it's sort of like this: we each create our own reality. ya dig? only i can change the way i see or view something as negative to potentially make a positive to grow from. or not, because we have this cool thing best described as free will and this huge thing of the responsibility to ourselves, firstly... that's a really good way to not have to go around blaming others for our own thoughts, feelings and fears.
i have to wonder: is the glass half empty, is the glass half full, or is there another way to hold the beverage itself?
why resort to negative focus, thinking so many women here are amateur hookers? i just can't bring myself to think most all people are bad, no matter what their gender, race, etc is. life is hard enough, so i figure it makes sense to just refuse to believe in the common man/woman "game" so many adhere to. what will be will be; it is what it is, people are people; good, bad, and everything in between, so taking the time to recognize the good is just time better spent ya know?
if i wanna be a cheeky monkey by flinging poo, i have to be responsible and at least somewhat reasonable by realizing i just may end up to appear to be a lil stinky myself, eh?
or assuming you have all the fingers on your dominant hand... if you wanna point your finger, don't you at some point come to the realization that you have at least three others pointing right back at yourself? | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 8:12:50 PM | I very rarely visit this site anymore, although I did try the online thing here and on Match.Com when I moved to LV 2 years ago. After reading this post I actually signed in to respond.
I had zero results on this site (a few nibbles, no actual meets) and 2 meets on Match.
I hear similar complaints on other sites from men in Las Vegas.
I am having so much luck in the ‘real’ world in Vegas I canceled my Match and don’t even bother with PoF anymore.
Although I’m sure there are women in Vegas that match the OP’s description, I have not found that to be the case. In the two years I’ve been here, I’ve met and gone out with women ranging in age from 20 to 48 (I’m 54). I’ve taken, or been taken, to 5 star restaurants and Goth clubs, Broadway shows to bowling.
I’m a middle aged, ‘few extra pounds’ man, and won’t be asked to grace the cover of GQ anytime soon.
I meet most of them at work, but some at clubs, restaurants or shopping (my sister asked me if I ever watched Desperate Housewives; I told her every weekend at the Fashion Show Mall).
Maybe it’s all about personality, but I never have problems making friends. I’m not a rich man by any means, have little to offer from that angle (lost a lot of money on my addictions: 3 Porches and a Ferrari – I’m on the wagon now…recovering one day at a time).
If you have problems meeting women in Vegas, the issue might not be with them (there is, after-all, only one common denominator here). Women can sense a certain vibe coming from men, even if it’s just from online communication. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2008 4:33:19 PM | From perusing the internet dating sites for the LV area I've noticed that I see the same 40 gals on every site............and they've been on there for well over a year.........so either they are just trolling for that one-in-a-million guy or they are possible wack jobs that no guy would really stick with.............now, for equal rights, I bet females could say the same thing about the men on all these sites.
It's the total lack of any response that makes me wonder.............and yet I see the same faces on multiple sites..............maybe internet dating is the floor drain and all the leftover, unwanted, undesirables end up flowing to the internet?!?!
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Posted: 5/1/2008 6:40:50 PM | I managed to make it to LV once and spent a week. I am sorry I haven't made it back since it was truly an enjoyable visit, especially getting to know some muscians. Being a native New Orleanian I guess the similarities where obviously, music and food and good times. Not a gambler but LV has plenty to offer even to non-gamblers. I left the gambling to Edwin Edwards. Of course they let him win so it really wasn't gambling.
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Posted: 5/5/2008 8:31:16 PM |
maybe internet dating is the floor drain and all the leftover, unwanted, undesirables end up flowing to the internet"
Would this explain your presence on multiple sites????
Doh! I sure hope you have the common sense to regret posting that!
...but thanks for the laugh.
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Posted: 5/6/2008 6:34:13 AM | | msg 13...you are so off the wall with your comments regarding most people on the internet, or are you just talking about yourself being an undesirable?...there are many reasons people come to dating sites...I was on several, first one was for the forums, second one and third one was because friends of mine designed the sites, this one both forums and dating because I said why not, I dont like going to bars or clubs and I liked the idea of talking with someone on here before I met them, and just maybe go outside of the box to another area..which in my case worked and found my SO in another state. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:32:27 PM | Good point..........Touche' !
I still say I see the same faces on multiple sites and they seem to stay on there for a long time......................and I did say in the post that it's probably the same for men, and the men are all on multiple sites........(I think I'm on 3).
Maybe we are all looking for the one person who hasn't posted to all the sites and is the one new one, or maybe there should be some interaction on the sites?
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Posted: 5/14/2008 3:28:23 PM | | Hey, I really like your comment the best so far because its true, a lot of the same women are on here month after month and year after year and I think theyre just trolling for a sugar daddy(otherwise known as a real big sucker) or a total ly insane whack job like thmselves. the first questions I get from these woemn are what do you do for a living and what kind of car do you drive and where do you live? I wonder what theyre really getting at? And just look at the huge response I got from my comment especailly from the women trying to defend and excuse the truth and they know its tthe truth and as they say the truth hurts and these women cantt handle the truth . | |
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