| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2008 8:07:33 PM | | My girlfriend and I had a discussion today on what men think makes up a good woman.I think all the qualities I have makes me a good woman,however I am still single .I do wonder what do men really look for?I told my friend when I figured it out I would let her know..lol All comment would be appriciated. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/20/2008 8:10:02 PM | Blow job, in my honest opinion is all THAT IS NEEDED.
Your soul and spiritual worth/growth is something you're going to deal with all on your own. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/21/2008 9:13:50 AM | | Well, It's not what Beckylee answer was. Careing and loving are the two most important things in my opinion. Myself I don't ask for a whole lot. Just someone to listen and care about what I have to say. And someone to lean on a little when I am feeling down. Give me that and I would try to give you the world if it were possible. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/21/2008 4:11:36 PM | Everyone wants caring and affection and concern. The problem is, we don't necessarily feel caring and affection and concern for everyone out there. So you have to find the people who have things in common with you, who understand you on some level.
I am constantly amazed by the number of exact same profiles I read--"looking for a good woman" or "looking for a good man" and people say things like they want caring and affection and concern, but don't talk at all about who they are. What's important to you? What would you drop anything to do? How do you spend your time? Who ARE you?
But yeah, blowjobs help. I've also heard if women would turn into a pizza after sex, that's good. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/26/2008 11:31:55 PM | | OMG your kidding right! A blow job? Men and women may think a little differently at times but both sexes are after all people and It may be just a simple matter of you have not found someone who is compatable with your personality...or you are looking for one type of person while you are dating a completly different type of person from the kind that would actually be good for you...the only person who has the answer to your question is yourself and its called soul searching,all answers eventually lye within yourself not others. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/28/2008 4:25:33 PM | Okay okay, guys .. I know my response was cynical but I am so happy to hear the rebuttals !!
... just wish there were more of them -- rebuttals, I mean .. you 3 guys might be the only POF-ers interested in more than a BJ -- sigh ... exception is musicjunky who might appreciate my humor - lol.
Piece.
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 4/28/2008 11:34:59 PM | It's not really a matter of "what makes up a good woman". Or a man just the same.
The big part of being good to a woman (or man) is knowing yourself so you can give it back to them, mutually.
What do men look for? I'm not sure about the rest, and I don't want to speak for them, but a good man wants a good woman that can be cohesive with him. Someone that will take the time to understand his wants and needs. And at the same time hers (or his).
It's not an easy balance.
About BJ's.. of course men like that. But if your just looking just to give or receive...my money says it won't last that way. The best sex is had by 2.
That's my 2 cents. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/5/2008 10:30:02 PM | Thanks for posting this question. I'm going to watch this yarn and see what kind of answers you get. I'm convinced that it doesn't matter how fun, kind, loving, attractive or easy going a person is. I think partly it is fate. Some things are meant to be. But, I know wonderful, attractive single ladies who never date and there is no good reason why.  | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:28:45 AM | | Someone who has a personality that meshes with mine, likes the things I do and I like the things that she does. Someone who respects and accepts me for who I am and I in return will do the same for her. Looks are important of course but you don't have to be a size 6 and be drop dead gorgeous to be sexy. I'm not saying it's ok to be obese and butt ugly but I think you know what I mean. If your a size 6 or less and really beautiful, that's just a bonus. But on the other hand, if your a b*tch and not afraid to show that side of you, your beauty is absolutely worthless to me. And the same goes for the BJ, BJ's are nice but most definitely not the most important part of a relationship. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/21/2008 1:05:48 AM | i think for me a woman who likes being treated in a respectful and loving manner. she should also show the same respect for him. also one who is fun. i don't think sex is a huge part but a perk. i know i can go over 2 months after going seriously with a girl before sex is even an issue. i have a greater respect for a woman who respects herself and her family. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/22/2008 2:27:34 PM | I think everyone who posted a reply made a good point. Now the question is how do I get to be that kind of a person? All those things rolled into one. I guess love comes from within and its a matter of give and take on both parts. with the right person i guess it will come easy. From one who has loved but not learned. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:40:39 PM | Maybe that’s like guys having a discussion on what makes a good guy. Hmmm.. guess that’s why there is that book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”.
I think of more of values then qualities. But in today’s world all that is changed. I get looks from females if I open the car door for them. Values are not there anymore because today both male and female have to work just to make ends meet.
Maybe I should open a thread and ask that about us guys..cuz single here too. LOL.
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 8/6/2008 2:06:47 PM |
I get looks from females if I open the car door for them. Values are not there anymore
i think this is a bunch of bs i think alot of people don't know what chivalry is however i don't think it is dead. i was raised old school, you treat a lady with honor and respect or you get smacked aside the head! when i eventully have kids i WILL teach them the same lessons i have learned the same way. i may be shopping, going to school, a bar, resturant, or some other place. if i open a door for a girl they say thanks but most times i get a smile. later if i see happen to run into them later they would show alot more respect. a couple of times it even got me a phone number. guess that is why i have mainly female friends | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 8/8/2008 12:00:06 PM | You know what makes up a good women.
One that is caring and understanding, and doesnt scat when things get a little tough with every day life's challenges, a team player.
A friend a lover. One that will hold you when things are tough and tell you we will get through this together. One that is happy to see you when you get home.
I would go to the earths end for just part of that. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 5/18/2009 3:11:51 PM | i also believe that a good woman should have a good head on her shoulders one that is smart, funny, serious, mature, and can stand up for herself. it doesn't hurt to be good looking, i don't mean sexy i mean knows how to take care of herself.... hair maintained, smells of the right amount ofsweet purfume, tries to keep healthy, not too skinny yet has some meat on their bones to pull them close and snuggle with    | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 6/1/2009 6:32:51 AM | This question is to simple. So simple I don't have to repeat a laundry list of what makes a good women.
For each man there are different things that add up to calling a woman good. What is good for one, is bad for someone else.
The simple answer is.......
It's what makes her good for me. | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 9/3/2009 12:07:28 PM | It very simple (as that has been stated before) A woman who can display love and caring to her loved ones, i.e. parents, siblings, children and her friends. A woman who is found to be smiling and happy more often than not. A woman who loves to be close together physically, but can also be indepedent when apart. A great Team Mate to work towards the mutually beneficial goals, and future.
If I have left anything out, please feel free to add to...... | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 9/27/2009 2:01:44 AM | | How bout a woman who forgives imperfections? As I'll admit I am no where near perfect and I make mistakes. MEN ARE NOT PERFECT! Not as perfect as we would all like to think we are anyways, lol!! | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 10/16/2009 6:00:20 PM | | a good woman will smoke a bowl with me n chill all day. not try to spend the little money i have :P other than that. not being fat always helps | |
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| What do men believe makes a good a woman?
Posted: 10/17/2009 5:20:51 AM | | I don't think ANYONE should really ever want "Perfect"...who could live with that pressure everyday....I think we all just want someone who is a perfect fit in our lives...no matter what that means to each person. Personally to me it is someone who loves me no matter how stupid i look at the end of the day, who makes me laugh when I should be crying and who makes me tingle anytime I think about him. To me, that is Perfect. | |
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