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 Phoebus2k9

Joined: 3/15/2008
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WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:49:17 AM
Any thoughts on this idea.

I would think men are but recently i have found more ladies are more and more becoming the leaders in this area.

The only difference is ladies are quite better at not getting caught seeing there is no real way to catch them. With men you can at least smell the other ladies private parts all over the man.

 DRNelson24

Joined: 4/22/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 6:55:57 AM
it's called soap and water dude. if that's too much for you try cologne.
 js104c1

Joined: 3/7/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:05:33 AM
Well I think that girls are the better liars, and even if caught in an obvious lie can usually argue their way to the point where YOU slept with that guy. I've had that happen before, never even knew I was gay.......
 N*Love

Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:05:44 AM
Ha. ok Ic.
So you are talking within relationship... Bad boy...

Being promiscous when single, very different from being the same but attached...

Brings the question : Why be attached then?

(shakes her head)...
 njinthehouse

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:07:00 AM
Afraid to say it.....but I think women are
 svj2

Joined: 3/16/2008
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WHO is more Promiscuous MEN OR LADIES ???????
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:09:02 AM
Allow me to fill you in on how these threads generally play out:

Random Guy #1: Well I never cheat... so it must be women.

Random Girl #2: Well I never cheat, either... so it must be men.

Random Guy #3: Well I never cheat... and my wife of 5 years cheated on me with my boss. So that means women are whores!

Random Girl #4: Oh yeah? My husband of 65 years cheated on me with my best friend! Men are just sausages with feet! Oh yeah... I would never ever, ever cheat!

Random Guy #5: Women are still worse. I came downstairs this morning to find my fiancee giving head to the mailman in my doorway! Women will do anybody! Oh... and I would never, ever, ever, ever cheat! I'm of high moral standard.

Random Girl #6: Not even close... men are way worse. I am of extremely high morals, and I would never, ever, ever, ever, ever cheat. But the other night, I found out my husband was also having an affair with the mailman!

Random Guy #7: I am of an incredibly high moral standard. The Pope comes to me for blessings once a week. But a week ago, I came home from work, opened the door, and found my wife, my mailman, my boss, a stripper, and my dog in an orgy together, while snorting lines off of the naked body of a circus midget! Why, oh why can't everyone else be as pious as I?

Random People #1-6: Respect!
 Ice-ey9

Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:13:39 AM
Women ... most def.
 shinxy

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:22:33 AM
OH LET'S NOT GO THERE.....

 MSCAphrodite

Joined: 3/22/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:32:13 AM
Well I can't speak for EVERYONE here...but for myself.. I'm usually the more promiscuous, at least when I'm single or the relationship I'm in isn't exclusive. But I'm happily attached now, and so will stay faithful. If there's a time I think about cheating, then is the time for me to think about rapidly becoming single.
 strangebunny

Joined: 2/15/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:42:09 AM
well from the perspective of a mathematician... it is a simple fact that there is no way that as the two groups in question are by the nature of the question promiscuous with each other... that they can do other than average out as equally promisuous..

altho i think that we all know that some women take the opportunity to screw anything that they fancy and others are much more discriminating...
while most men are inclined to take what ever is on offer.
 blimpyMguiness

Joined: 4/7/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:51:00 AM
Takes two to tango.
 plumb5150

Joined: 2/27/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 7:55:04 AM
I would say they are equal. Woman are just better at not getting caught because they are smarter and better/ bigger liars than men. A guys lie would be, No honey I was at Steve's house. A womans lie would be, yes honey you are the father.
 christi66

Joined: 4/17/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 9:02:10 AM
I have always had an idea of what promiscuous ment but i looked it up so i would not be corrected ....
pro?mis?cu?ous ?audio? (pr-msky-s) KEY ?
ADJECTIVE:
1. Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
2. Lacking standards of selection; indiscriminate.
3. Casual; random.

NOw with this in mind it s not about cheating as some posted its about being wild and having diff causual sexual relationships ..
To me id have to say with my thoughts back centuries ago men where more apt to have the higher amount , but today women are more open to be wild than before so id view its about equal . Now i will admit women are more sneaky about it and therefore seem to hide the fact that they are promiscuous but i believe it still equals out on both parts just my view .

just my thoughts
christi
 packagedealx3

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Posted: 4/24/2008 9:13:39 AM
Who gives a rat's butt? It would seem to me that the only person that causes you to be wondering about promiscuity is the person you are with whether that is male or female.

Kudos, Strangebunny!
 CassaGo

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 9:33:11 AM
"Ladies" are not promiscuous. Women and men are, but not ladies and gentlemen.

I think men are more promiscuous, they have less to lose biologically and culturally.

Women are biologically programmed to be less promiscuous because they invest so much energy [nurturing and developing the other human inside them] should they get pregnant. Guys just shoot a wad that they would have shot, anyway.

Then, because of this biological predisposition, society/culture developed a stigma that is MUCH harsher against women than men, would they become "promiscuous". And the actual level of promiscuity is also lower for women [society says so]: men who have 10 partners are "normal", women who have 10 are "promiscuous".
[I used 10 as a nice, round number, I don't really know the actual value that equals "promiscuous", since I don't think this way]

PS-- I agree women are better liars. I think it's an intelligence thing...
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 9:58:45 AM
RE: First post.

The diversity of human personalities renders this question unaswerable to any accurate degree. Take people on a person to person basis. If I HAD to offer an opinion however... I'd say.... women.
 nogo3

Joined: 2/26/2007
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Posted: 4/24/2008 10:36:08 AM
If we are talking about pof, it would have to be the men because the women on pof don't do sex.

 MelloDLyn

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Posted: 4/24/2008 11:18:42 AM
Sorry ladies but I believe the ladies are and we are better at not getting caught!
 Leeanne

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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:00:31 PM

Takes two to tango.
Exactly what I was gonna say!!! Who the heck are ya having sex with?!!? If you are heterosexual - chances are it's the opposite sex and indeed that comes on equal ground!!
 shinxy

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:09:50 PM
I agree with you two.....It does take two to tango in paradise.....

Obviously they forgot where they are!
 Phoebus2k9

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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:17:03 PM
WOW ya...well i have seen and know alot of ladies of whom my friends have slept with while the BF was home watching the kids....you know the joke...what is a womans a$$hole doing while she is having good sex ? at home watching the kids :P

The ladies are quite good at getting caught and to the point where they dont even tell the GF about what they did the other nite in the backseat of a car lol...but i wont generalize the ladies, nor the men. So who is right and who is wrong ?

Is it wrong being that way or is it natural for us to engage in such activities /??
 VoxClamantis

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Posted: 4/24/2008 12:29:03 PM
Most men are nowhere near as promiscuous as they would like to be. This is usually because they cannot find women willing to be promiscuous with them. A woman who can have any man she wants usually still only wants one man, or at least one at a time. A man who can have any woman he wants usually has several. Since most promiscuous women have a habit of chasing the same few highly-desirable men, who become kind of super-promiscuous, so I guess it kind of averages out.

10% of men with >100 partners
60% of women with 15-30 partners
20% of men with 15-100 partners
40% of women with 15< partners
70% of men with 15< partners

That's kind of how I would parse it.
 christi66

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Posted: 4/24/2008 1:17:49 PM
I think someone made this post because they are bitter... just my thoughts ..
 DRNelson24

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Posted: 4/24/2008 1:27:56 PM
@ Vox
I'd like to know where thes stats come from. and who was the poll audience.
 OutMind

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Posted: 4/24/2008 1:58:10 PM

Random Guy #7: I am of an incredibly high moral standard. The Pope comes to me for blessings once a week. But a week ago, I came home from work, opened the door, and found my wife, my mailman, my boss, a stripper, and my dog in an orgy together, while snorting lines off of the naked body of a circus midget! Why, oh why can't everyone else be as pious as I?


Does the circus midget has a sister?


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