| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/25/2008 12:08:37 PM | What attracts you the most to someone ?
Is it warm smile or there eyes maybe there personality or is it based on visual
looks and sex appeal ? Do you base everything on the outter package
or the inside of someone.
What attracts the most ?
Is it purely physical or is it the total package of someone ?
I feel that the eyes speaks for it's self and smile to me is so captivating and a
sharp mind of a person really turns me on and excites me the most cause the
mind is a powerful tool that controls everything we say and do as well as sexually
a mind is a beautiful thing and quite stimlating too.
I really look for cause that impresses me the most and then I
look at there eyes and smile that assures me of even more, I never judge a book
by it's cover I look at the total person and not just a photo. I am find more and more
that most are visual and they look at a body and parts not so much as the rest of
a person.
God made us all human with hearts , souls , sharp minds ,
he made us in different
shapes , looks but the heart and soul is what he takes back ;
the body is shell that goes to the earth and becomes dust
that heart and soul that is here on loan to me is what matters the most.
Never take someone for granted..
Hold every person close to ur heart..because u might wake up one day
and realize that u'v lost a diamond while u were busy collecting stones.
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Choose your words, for they become actions.
Understand your actions, for they become habits.
Study your habits, for they will become your character.
Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny."######,
So I ask which is it ... Body , Looks , Mind , Eyes , Smile
Or total package ?
All the best Brenny | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/25/2008 5:34:41 PM | hmmm, let's see.....it's not looks since i don't look perfect so why should he? body? nahhh, just as long as he's not too much over weight nor is he too skinny. his eyes do speak for themself with being the window to the soul. he should have hair (not too much body hair, i don't want to date king kong)....i love running my fingers through a nice head of hair. his mind should be stable....a bit crazy at times to have some fun but not entirely too crazy (suicidal). what really attracts me to a guy is their personality, honesty, respect, and seeing that they know how to live life to the fullest.....not someone that just sits around like a bump on the log unless we're sitting out in my yard on the swing under a star filled sky. | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/25/2008 6:15:17 PM | To me it is a sparkle of recognition within both of us which pours out of our eyes. If it continues, we both know we have something. A feeling inside.
He could be a toad in the garden but if we had that spark....ohhhh boy! Ok the sex would be lousy but other than that!!! | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/26/2008 5:25:21 AM | I'm attracted to a man with a sharp mind and that is so intelligent that he can
be fun to carry a conservation with , and also his wit and humor thats important
too.
The other thing I'm attracted to is there personality , that they are warm
caring but also a real human that can express there feelings and open up
to me also someone with self respect that I can bring around my child
cause who ever I choose will it reflect on her as well.
I'm close to my family
and I look for someone that I can bring home to meet them , whos honest
sincere quite real .
Oh those eyes just melt me , then there warm smile. I don't base it on
looks I base it on everything , the total package .
I like someone that can laugh
whos fun to be around and not a stick in the mudd LOL. I look at the total package
not so much the outside as I do the inside that heart and soul is what makes is whole.
Brenny | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/26/2008 5:23:44 PM | something else that would attract me to my s.o. would be just hearing him sing whether it's to me or while he's trying to make that perfect steak for me on the grill. there's nothing like having someone sing to you even if they can't hold a note...it gives a person a special feeling of how their s.o. feels for them.
oh, and ummm, you don't want me to sing....there are a few people that attended the last pig roast back in september that heard me sing. | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 2:26:50 PM | The eyes and smile are a package. That is the fire-stick for me. Then the "real Person"
need to be investigated.
Dave.... I'm out | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 4/30/2008 9:21:58 PM | His bank acct, his toys...his age... I don't like boys..."I want a real Man"(Bonnie Raitt)
seriously..I like the tush, with eyes that can see right through you,. stimulating conversation, splashed with a side of common respect, great humor, doesn't have to be book smart,,maybe learned from his life lessons & mistakes.. and if he looks like George Clooney humm, that would be the whole package... prolly why I am still here?? ah huh, ...
Now is that asking for too much...
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/1/2008 1:21:42 PM | You all know I am joking around in here.. I have that cynical flare.. that has gotten me in trouble a few or more time.. hoping I didn't hurt any ones feeling that's all..
I am trying to polish my image for a special someone..hummm, SC way..ya hear.. and no one will back me up.. everybody seems to be napping..lol...take care.
but if there's friendship first, with trust, warmth,and happiness...and laughing along way.. followed with lots of cuddling in between, just give it some time, no rush,.... what can go wrong..?? Hope everyone finds someone that is attractive to them and just gets happy for a lil' while ...rock on...
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/1/2008 3:54:29 PM | If y'all lean in a little closer, I'll tell y'all the secret of what men are attracted to...
...a little closer...
...a little closer...
Ok...men are attracted to.....
T & A !!!!!! 
...just thought I'd let everyoneknow that...
Boy I have such a knack for stating the obvious.... | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:37:26 PM | omg hilly you're just too much
ld, hun, we all know that you're joking and if someone doesn't then they should check back on some of your posts......no worries, you're doing good.
i do have to agree to a certain extent with ld......their wallet - make sure they have their fair share to pay for any speeding tickets and their own bills (restaurant somewhat included, i guess that's why i'd much rather cook) ...sweet buns - something for me to grab a hold of ...not afraid to look into my eyes - the eyes are the windows to the soul...nice hair - i love running my fingers through their hair (keep it clean guys....it's the hair above the shoulders) someone that's not afraid to cry - crying is for babies so i was told but emotions are feelings shown from one as we grow old. | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/6/2008 6:49:07 PM | Humor and HONESTY(integrity) actions speak louder than words baby.,,, if you can make someone laugh...LOL..laugh and then keep a story line going..what really messes with me..is when the guy says something and does another..
Woman are suppose to be so dang famous for it...I admit..I will slip up doing this, not on purpose, and I am being real.. like if when I get nervous..trying to get off the phone,,etc etc.. am I too easy.. some say yes..I think not..smile, yes I thinking about you!!
Anna, I know I am good, thank you sweets,... I just get insecure sometimes with all the lil' witches in here...LOL...(you are not one at the time..hehe) but there were sometimes we worried.. and yes, that truly had some things..well, I wasn't sure if you were coming back to us or not...thanks for your words and sentiments though. I hope you maintain this rhythm as it suits you... some are still worried.. can't do anything about that..forgive and forget..I tend to let things go off my back, except "in the face stuff".... can't deal with that crap...life is too short to be proud..it is one of those deadly sins.
Not preaching.. just living and really happy today too..not being fake or having to live any lies..
Optim alias..Ld,,my new name...hah get this one..Lizzz~
POST EDIT... I think Anna is leaving the building again..LOLOLOLOL..just read a diff thread. | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/6/2008 7:18:50 PM | since i didn't have anyone to help polish my halo i had to do it myself, geez i went through over a case of that tarn-x stuff to help polish it to bring back that shine once again. now all i have to do is find my wings....ya know, if my heart had wings.
anyway, i've been talking to someone in email rather personal things. he was telling me that some women has a problem with him (personal not personally). i was telling him that if he' s not able to find a woman that can accept him as he as with regards to a sexual relationship why not just settle for companionship since life has a lot more to offer than sex alone. he complimented me by saying that i was brighter than some women that he talked to and he's also very appreciative with my honesty and with me being forward to what he and i have been talking about. i'm not going into the whole thing it's just that he found in me the honesty that a lot of other women hasn't shown him and he respects me for that.
i just can't say how important it is for the person that may be interested in me be honest with me, trust me, respect me, and take me as i am and not what he wants me to be and i will be the same with him.
ty for what you said ld....what do you mean i'm leaving the building....oh about my magic...lol. yeah, i can go poof anytime i want... but then again, so can anyone else....lol | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/14/2008 11:15:35 AM | | #1 thing that makes me attracted to someone is their confidence. I will NEVER date a guy who needs their ego reassured constantly... | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/14/2008 2:01:01 PM | | I think that physical atraction is the first step. He doesn't have to be perfect, but there has to be an attraction on my part or it will never go anywhere. Assuming that is in place, the most important thing for me is a sense of humor...and a relaxed view on life... being bright is the icing on the cake! | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:45:56 PM | There is no question that I value what is in her heart and mind many times more than her physical appearance. I am not saying I do not need to feel physical attraction, beacause I certainly do. However, if I love her heart and mind, the chances are very slim that her "appearance" will be the deciding factor.
OFCB | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:46:47 AM | What attracts me to a male, is very simple. He must be chivilarous. If I feel protected, and he is putting himself second, it's a no brainer!
Men, women's lib went out before it came in!
Happy Fishing,
Catssing. | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/19/2008 8:35:43 PM | | yea Kel your right.......you got to love the flyers.....they are home and the Pens are going to the stanley cup..............what a attracts me to men are their eyes......and there personality..........and I m still fishing........ | |
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| What attracts you the most to someone ?
Posted: 5/21/2008 5:59:40 AM | | True intimacy. And that is something that takes time to develop. The is no shortcut. The best relationship I ever had was with a guy I'd corresponded with and observed for years in an internet-based group. I had 5 years to clock this guy, knew his views, liked his mind. His IQ was 'way over 130, so he could not only keep up, but we could race! I had only one very fuzzy old picture of him to go by. We finally met face to face after we'd both relocated closer to each other. He was almost bald, majorly obese (no lie!) and was over 6' tall, but I already liked him so who cares. Wow did we connect! Really, do NOT judge a book by its cover. | |
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