| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 3:30:35 PM | | Is there anywoman out there who believes that public play should never happen. Public play like oral, mutual masturbation, things like this, whether they are in full veiw or maybe in a dark corner or in the car. I s this a turn on or not? | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 3:50:50 PM | | Public PLAY-------NOT a turn-on. Seems onorous. NOW, flirting is okay. Words, smiles, winks, etc, etc. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 4:07:40 PM | Public play is excellent. Adds a little spice to life! | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 4:19:42 PM | OP: voyeurs, exhibitionists..... they have school there right? Of course some never would do this and for others it is an extreme turn-on, and every point in between. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 5:05:32 PM | i would never do things in plain sight of people. i would only do stuff in the "dark corner"...or like well - lit, but no one really around. i've given the bf blowjobs many times while he's driving...at night. or we've ****ed while driving...at night...when there's no other cars (back alley road)...so we don't get pulled over or accidentally hit anyone...lol!
it was such a thrill for him, for me, it was just sex. nothing extra exciting about it. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 6:18:11 PM | All for it! It's fun and enhances a relationship. The possibility of getting caught adds to the excitement  | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 6:24:18 PM | use to goto a club in san fran regualarly called bondage a go go...
a exhibitionalist and a voyeurs paradise...
if it turns you both on I say do it, life is to short to give a damn... | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 6:25:02 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Agreed!!! Added risk adds to the intensity of playtime! Public play is very much fun to add to the variety. Gotta keep it fresh! | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 6:29:12 PM | | I will add this, do it approprately, a club like that means all who enter our consenting adults... | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 7:00:41 PM | wacky, Not a woman here, but do have my thoughts on the subject of PDAs, even those done for self-gratification. If the person or a couple (more-some?) is out for getting others' attention, then no, it shouldn't happen. I've enough trouble teaching my 6 y/o son not to 'diddle' in public. He doesn't need to see someone, especially an adult, doing what's socially-unacceptable and very against the law.
If, however, a couple wants to spice up their carnal interludes, being careful for being as-sight-unseen-as-possible for playing in public is possibly one of the most titillating experiences to have together. A person who attempts to pull this off likewise? Bonafied pervert. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 9:09:41 PM |
All for it! It's fun and enhances a relationship. The possibility of getting caught adds to the excitement
Most defintely Missblueeyes....A sense for adventure, exploring ones imagination is always a good ingredient in a relationship...why be mudane, that is not fun nor stimulating. Being adventurous but respectful gives a sensual element that simply adds fire to the relationship. | |
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bs069
| Joined: 4/24/2008 Msg: 12 | |
| Public play? Posted: 4/27/2008 10:34:30 PM | | I think it's the thrill that you might get caught and who's going to catch you..... | |
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| Public play? Posted: 4/28/2008 12:29:28 AM | | Just because we are adults, doesn't mean we can't play too!!! | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 2:49:58 AM | | What's better than almost getting caught or getting caught and not caring? It's hot...not to mention the cum that will drip down her leg the rest of the day | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 3:40:53 AM | | I really can't get enough of sex out doors. There is nothing like it. It's just hard to find a real man willing to do it with. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 4:44:50 AM | I read public play, and I immediately thought about getting a BJ in the mall, sitting by the fountain. Then I thought about the semi-public play I would get in the jail cell.
If both people are comfortable with each other, and they aren't going to freak out granny at wal-mart, while she's buying towels, then I'm game.
I guess it depends on what you classify as public because that's pretty general.
I worked at a hotel as a night security guy. I was walking around by the hot-tubs at around 3am, and there was a guy with his girl bent over in one of them. I mean they weren't out in the parking lot but it was still public. I was mean and didn't let them finish.
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 6:00:21 AM | OMG, Yes, a huge turn on. Public play is one of the little things that keep a relationship new all the time. Dark corners, in the car while driving, in the office, at a park, in the hot tub late at night (please do use your imagination)........ they are all really good. For me it's the possibility of getting caught, love that rush !! If you haven't tried it yet.... by all means do.
I must add though, this is something that both people need to be really comfortable with. It's not that much fun if one of the two involved is not into it. Some people just can't handle the rush it does give.
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 6:10:00 AM | | There is something tantalizing about public play and I have no problem with it! I just wouldn't do it infront of people in an overtly - in your face way! Nor where children may see! | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 8:39:18 AM | | Public play is o.k. if both people are on board. If one of the two is uncomfortable with it or feels pressured into doing something then it won't work. I don't believe in asking someone to do something that makes them feel uneasy .... I, for one, will get no pleasure or enjoyment from that type of activity knowing that the person isn't a willing participant. Pleasure comes from turning someone on or being turned on by that person. If a person feels pressured or intimidated into doing something then it's not for them. Let the person know how you feel. If the person doesn't respect your wishes then it's time to move on. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 9:49:08 AM | | Oh public play at the right moment can be hot! The whole idea of getting caught can be such a turn on. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 10:16:29 AM | | Everything had a time and a place. Being obvious and not caring about who's around is kind of gross. Being subtle and trying not to be seen or noticed... yummy. For me it's more fun teasing 'cause to date I haven't been able to relax enough to have an orgasm. | |
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nogo3
| Joined: 2/26/2007 Msg: 22 | |
| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 10:56:28 AM | well i say screw the world, i'm going to play any time i feel like playing and if people wanna watch they might learn something. lol
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 6:23:42 PM | | have done public play as u call it and yeah was suchhhhhhh a turn on at the time but got to say one piticular time i am a bit embarresed now but ohhhhh it was so good at the time lol | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/3/2008 7:46:54 PM |
All for it! It's fun and enhances a relationship. The possibility of getting caught adds to the excitement
But getting caught is more embarrassing....Worst if the police take notice. | |
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| Public play? Posted: 5/16/2008 9:27:12 PM | | I have to agree, I have found I get more daring each time too! | |
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