| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 6:29:13 PM | Sorry if this is a redundant thread...never posted before.
OK, so I'll be 40 next month and have a healthy sex life. I've had many intense orgasms in my life, however I've never 'squirted'. Is this something that can be learned? Have I just not been with the right partners?
Please do tell, as if it is a learnable trait I would like to acquire the information to share with my partner and tell him what needs to be done!! It would be a great 40th birthday gift in my opinion!! 
Thanks much for your help!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 7:57:59 PM | | No, It has to com enaturally Sad to relise that soem woemn still cant let go with themsleves but true. If youre having great orgams and your not squirting you wont. Soemthign that is true though is that if youre a squirter you can teach yourself to squirt harder, faster and aim it etc. Its those Keegles that does it! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:00:12 PM | | No, It has to come naturally. I started squirting the first time i masturbate at age 10. Beleive me I was surprised. I spent the next two days making myself come again and again and it happened every time, only the amount of fluid varied according to the time between orgasms.It doesnt take a"great lover"or him hitting the magic G spot, it takes a woman with glands that produce extra fluid my OBGYN told me. Women who are "wet "most of the time are usually the squirters but if you never have a strong orgasm and you are a natural squirter you still wont squirt. Some women are more inhibited at masturbating so they only time they will squirt is if they have a lover who they let go with. Sad to realize that some women still cant let go with themsleves but true. If youre having great orgams and your not squirting you wont. Something that is true though is that if youre a squirter you can teach yourself to squirt harder, faster and aim it etc. Its those Keegles that does it! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:04:14 PM | ABSOLUTELY, It can be learned.....The ability is there for all women....There are some excellent sites..I will give you the links...I cannot post links on here.
These are medical sites, with full detailed information, instructions and pictures....it is NOT PORN. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:21:02 PM | Thanks for the feedback everyone! I truly appreciate it! Knittin Kitten I have changed my settings to accept from women so you can email me with the sites so i can do my research. LOL
Thanks again to everyone!!! I LOVE learning new things!! LOL | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:22:46 PM |
Is this something that can be learned?
Certainly couldn't hurt for you and your man to try! Google Gspot and squirt, then sift through all the porn sites and you should be able to find lots of info.
Everybody is built a little differently and has different things that get them there. If your guy has been with you a while and knows how to read your body language he'll probably be able to find it. I've found a few "first time" squirts, it's awesome...
ummm.... One thing that might help... You go pee first. The Gspot is close to the bladder. When he finds the G and get's past tickling, starts to dig on it and milk it you'll feel like you have to go. So if you know you don't really have to that might help you relax and .... cut loose.
Most important, don't rush it. Relax and enjoy, let it build... | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:24:44 PM | OP...I have been trying to send you a message, but I cannot get through. I have found the other threads on this subject and will direct you to come excellent information....
The thread is "female G-spot....go to Page 6.
Two excellent, informational posts to look at are:
sexywoman4U...msg 128
Dave632...msg 131
There are more, but I am not good enough at this computer to figure out how to find them. I believe you can write to me. Don't know why I can't message you...
Sincerely,
KK
PS> You learn, girl....it will be well worth your while (and his, too..I bet.) | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 8:54:39 PM | | Thanks KK and VonErik I'll begin my studies this evening...and believe me, I'm very studious so I'll keep at!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:43:29 PM |
Thanks KK and VonErik I'll begin my studies this evening...and believe me, I'm very studious so I'll keep at!!
Just make sure you wash your hands before you come back for a report on your progress else your keyboard will get all sticky lol
(sorry, I just couldn't resist...I just HAD to say something lol sorry, my bad) | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:27:43 PM | Ah rentahusband you made me laugh out loud!
I've done my scholastic reading as directed by KK, which was very informative by the way...now off for the hands on application of the course. LOL
And yes...a stop to the wash basin will be in order before any progress report is provided. LOL | |
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:33:18 PM | TRY reading this thread. There is a bunch of fluff and banter but there are also some terrific posts which explains how it works and how a woman & her partner can get there - over and over and over again.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
THE TECHNIQUE
Quick Backgrounder
The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.
Basic Technique ideas:
#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.
#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.
At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.
One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/28/2008 2:52:59 AM | Knittin Kitten can you please email me information regarding the websites you mentioned. i believe my profile is set up so you can contact me because i cant contact you because of your restrictions. thanks i appreciate it. also good luck 1samrap  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:49:24 AM | xxchaoxx:
I've just sent you a message...now I'm going over to my profile...it is not my intention to prevent fellow posters from contacting me....I was just trying to keep out the young fellas who are looking for a bit of excitement with an "old Lady" They fail to realize that the old lady is also WISE.... 
Hey, Dave: Didn't I tell ya that those who are interested in learning will eventually come out of the woodwork and investigate....Your good posts have been very helpful, you know. 
Sincerely,
Knittinkitten | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:55:23 AM | | It can be learned. I discovered it by one accident one day in my early twenties. I thought I had peed myself but it felt so good that I didn't care. I can do it to myself every time I masturbate and if I am with a guy who knows what he is doing. You should take some time alone in your bedroom, with a towel, and practice on yourself. They make g-spot vibrators (curved at the tip) that hit the right spot. Once you know what it is supposed to feel like you will be able to do it easier. Practice makes perfect!! | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:57:29 AM | For some women, it just comes naturally. Some have to learn. I believe that all women are capable of it. It can happen with clitoral stimulation or by G-spot pressure. I see that some above me have already given you good answers! You just need to experiment and learn what does it for you!
It's a subject that seems to be really hush-hush, for some reason. It is perfectly natural, and I think many have questions about it. Never saw it talked about before coming here, except when I was researching it for myself. Much info out there on the subject!  | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/28/2008 6:17:30 PM |
DO NOT BE GENTLE !!
Hammer it! lol, I have to have carpal tunnel surgery now...
Great post Dave.
NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE.
true... If you place your free hand on her belly just above the pelvic bone you can help control those thrusts and it helps apply more pressure. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 7:18:10 AM | Absolutely. Nothing better than taking your gf to new levels of pleasure and sexuality. It's a very effective way to forge a strong bond between the two of you.
The vast majority of women are physically capable of squirting, but most haven't.
The biggest roadblocks are lack of knowledge (how and where to stimulate) and psychological hurdles. (if you're not totally comfortable with it, odds are it ain't gonna happen)
Both can be easily overcome, however. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 7:49:57 AM | OP, I believe this can be learned by most of us. Please don't get discouraged by replies saying that it can't be. We're never too old to learn new tricks. I didn't experience this until I was almost 44 but it took a knowledgeable partner to show me. After much practice and finding the right toy (bent at the tip), I can do this for myself 99.9% of the time. When it first started happening, I googled female ejaculation and was pleasantly surprised to see so much info out there. I found the link below to be helpful.
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
It really does feel like you're having to urinate and I think that's probably what stopped me from doing this before. Thank God I know better now  Just relax, have plenty of towels under you and have fun! Even if you don't find it, it sounds like you & your partner will be having fun anyways. I would be prepared for a huge puddle the first few times. Sometimes it can be squirting and sometimes it can be more of a gush. Like Dave said...don't stop at 1.....It is possible to do it over & over & over-trust me!
Good Luck!
HR | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:06:20 AM | OK. Gang, my mailbox is being flooded with inquiries...You'd think I was an expert....I'm not. I'm not even good at getting around this computer to find the information where I learned. But, I just found something in my saved documents. I could not get it to darken for cut and paste or the links, so I'm copying a couple...Take a look and see what you find when you Google.
Female Ejaculation, the Female Prostrate, & The G-Spot
UCSB's Sex Info
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=anatomy & refid=015
I have no idea what this all means, but hope I have copied it so that you can find it. I have not had time to try it this way. Let me know.
Sincerely,
KK | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 10:22:18 AM | This is the person (and video) who taught me what it takes to make ANY woman squirt.
As soon as his video came out the industry was literally FLOODED with new porn videos all using his technique. What he shows is not porn, really, it is an instructional video but it has worked for me in all cases. CAUTION: ADULT CONTENT.
http://www.ideagasms.net/how-to-squirt-video/
If you want to learn, this is the video to teach you how. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 11:07:28 AM | from my own experience squirting requires 2 things, a woman has to have a very vivid imagination and she has to be secure enough with herself to be able to let herself go completely. and if a guy is involved then she has to trust him completely.
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 11:32:20 AM | | I can't see what imagination has to do with it. It's all about knowing what does it for a woman. I'd say it's probably best for a woman to experiment with a vibrator, learn what does it for her, then incorporate it into the relationship with her partner. Trust? Don't really see what that has to do with it, unless you mean trust him not to get freaked out when it happens. But each woman is different. If it takes imagination and trust, guess that would be the key for you. | |
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| Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 4/29/2008 1:39:53 PM | This is GREAT!!! Who would have thought I would have sparked such debate and discussion. I LOVE IT!!
And KK, I'm sorry you've become inundated with inquiries!!
Ok...thanks again to everyone for their input...myself, and obviously many others thank you...I too have have received a few responses in my mailbox here.
samra | |
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