| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:45:45 PM | This is something just recently that I ran into on this site. It truly bothers me
and I am puzzled by men asking me for skin pics or to pose in a postion and
take pics of my body parts for them.
So I ask...... WOULD YOU DO THIS POSE FOR PICS RACY OR RAUCHY ?
This past Friday I got this email from a man that I've been talking to since
Nov 2007 , he started out as a nice man and loads of fun too! Heck we even
talked of dating cause he's like 52 miles from me.
Then the pig in him started
comming out , he'd talk trashy to me and want to see nude pics of me
in many
poses of doing things sexually for him.
He told me he liked to be teased , and stimlated that he was turned on
by me and well it got to a point of being sick and gross. He wasted precious
time on me cause this lady don't play that way PERIOD !!!!!
Stuff he said was
what you'd say to a HOOKER IN A CAT HOUSE LOL !!!! any way he became
more and more piggish with selfish issues.
This dude wrote me back and said
well babe either play or else tease me and if you don't ADIOS ! I said simply
and sweetly have a nice day don't call me and I sure as heck have no intention
of ever calling him and that I'd make sure his wish list had many
issues of Pent house
or Playboy or any other sex mags to please his desire LOL !
Well I'm sorry I said NO!!! and was quite turned
off by it and told him to find another fish that would comply to his nasty
demeaning wishes.
Is this what dating has come too ?
Please tell me no all are like this , that get there kicks by doing this
sick and crazy stuff ?????
I feel in my heart that I did the right thing and walked away feeling
good about the fact that I did not cave in or comply to his demands
that is so degrading , it was sick and well sure as heck not romantic
at all he was just an all and all out PIG!!!
I know not all men are pigs
but something like this what he did was PERVERTED and Brenny
walked away with her pride and self respect.
Is this normal for people to do ???
Has the sex world all gone fake and cyber ? Dear God does anyone want
real or are they affraid of an incounter with someone . To me fake is fake
real is real and far the best !
Did I do the right thing ???? Have you ever encountered this problem
with a person on here or the wide web of the internet ?
Love to hear your input on this subject ! 
Is this what the dating world has come to ?
Brenny | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:02:24 PM | Handsome , yes but Eve had something to do with going out into
the forbidden forest and par taking in eating that apple and falling
for that snake Satin LOL .... Hey babe it's both sexs doing this
stuff not just the males that are PIGS and well I'm not calling anyone
that just a figure if speech ~ But is that what has come of the sex world
to FAKE ~ Brenny | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:24:34 PM | bren,
not all women think that it's being piggish, racey or raunchy to pose nude or anything for it...as a matter of fact, i found out from talking to people on other sites that it stimulates them knowing the fact that there's a person of the opposite sex gawking at their pics. i know that i for one will not ever do anything like that....even if i had a sexy body, i'm sorry....no man is worth posting nude pics for and sending them over the net. do you know how many computers get hacked into and pics stolen?
if someone wanted to see me nude they'd just have to wait. if they're not willing to wait until the time is right for the both of us to bare all then they're not going to see a thing and it's going to have to be left up to their imagination. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:40:25 PM | Hey CG
Well said Gf you are so right and it is robbing your soulmate
of something special! It's like the ones that do this are getting
a free peep show geesh !!!! I thought show and tell was for kids ?
So sex has now resorted to a game of SHOW & TELL
Free Peep Show !
AMEN Gf
You Rock !
AI'NT NOTHING LIKE THE REAL THING HUH ?
Brenny | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/27/2008 11:55:13 PM | Ohhhh Bren, you mean you don't want to show your goods to someone you don't know on the net????
Sad but true this is the way a LOT of people act... Since the invent of internet dating and webcams, guys seems to think ALL women want to put on a free peep show...
I used to have a web cam about 5 yrs ago, but got rid of it because I got sick of people feeling I OWED THEM a peep...
You aren't going to find a soul mate by giving them a free peep...
If the two of you are dating and really into each other, it can be spice.. DANGEROUS, cause YEP those pics can be stolen...
Just tell any freak that bugs you for nudity that there are pay sites for that....
Sorry, but that kind of stuff is sort of some kind of norm for some folks...
Sad that you chatted with the guy for so long, but at the same time good thing you found out what kind of dillweed he really.... | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:48:55 AM | Hey Thanks Gf , that was a nice reply to my post
Yep it's kinda sick and crazy about the internet .
Agrees it adds spice to relationship , but so true
you never know where you dang pics might end up.
As for the man in question , well he lost out on a good thing
me and well saved me a lot of time and greif if he's like that on
here what is he like in the real world day to day know what I mean?
Hey I have a thought perhaps maybe the women of the net need to
start charging for a free peep show that will stop them old PERVERTS
PUT A SNAP IN THERE PANTS THAT NEEDS ZIPPED UP *lol
I enjoy your post thanks again everyone your advice is so greatly
appreciated , wish ya'll the very best in life!
Psst winks ~ Had three web cams gave them away hehe
detest the things .
Happy Fishing ~ Brenny | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/28/2008 6:22:48 AM | Ohhh come on Brenny girl.. show te girls and you have any man in heat!!! ( rolls eyes)
This is even never ending story on the intrnet honey! It is very sad but, true.. Men are visual and one little thing well, it puts them into a tail spin..... ( SEX,SEX, OMG, SEX)
Now, if you wanted to put spice into your relationship well girlie girl that is a different story!! I would say gooooooooooooooo for it and enjoy!!! have to love with wild side of life when you in a RELATIONSHIP!!
But, to show all the goods before they buy hell nahhhhh that is just wrong in my book! Becides, Brenny you should of told the nasty man if ya want too see it will cost ya...(LOL)....
Bottom line peeps..... just be careful what you do on the internet.... yes, there are some sick pigs and there are some jems! just have to take the time to weed them out!
Best of luck to all of you,
Giggles | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/28/2008 8:10:56 AM | There's always the case like Paris...whose had them taken and taken and then taken from her...extortion ...hey both Men and Woman play that way...hate being the Devils' advocate here..as I had a bad guy in my past...for me...those pictures, that I once gave to him..(as a beautiful Christmas present) I might add. Very nicely done ..expensive too..I burnt them up personally(negatives and all)..Toche'   who needs that crap out for the whole wide World to see?? ahem?
PS I already had the Man...if the conversation goes fairly early into anything sexual online..I move on..status quo. Web cams..is a def..NO NO..it just goes down hill from there, like Bren said..weeeee..ugggggg..
I only speaks the truth in here!
POST EDIT... had to add... Momma didn't raise no fool...~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
would I do it again?...read the above line again...lol.... | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 4/28/2008 7:54:15 PM | Nope!!!! I would not send anything like that over the net. Totally foolish if people are. Who knows where that picture may end up.
OP: You met an @sshole....don't let him victimize your outlook on people in general. Personally a dude like that needs a good punch to the head. He probably just got out of jail for some other sex crime. When someone makes crude sexual remarks unsolicited it is wrong. When it is confronted and they don't stop then it is harrassment and borderline criminal.
I am in no way condemning if people are flirting and mutually it develops into a more sexual conversation. That can be healthy in the chemistry developing. However when the conversation is designed to become offensive and degrading then that person needs slapped. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 5/6/2008 6:57:42 PM | omg hilly, that's just too funny i never heard of that one before.
the girl that i was staying with her and her family before i moved into my trailer was talking to someone in a chat room, the guy said to her..."why don't you show me your p*ssy?" so she did................
she moved like she was going to take her pants down and leaned down to pick up her cat....."here, here's my p*ssy, how do you like it?" the guy laughed and so did i.
i also know of some girl that goes on cam with her bra on and shows the guys when they ask her to. she doesn't care what they think, i think it's degrading.
some guy i know from temple, pa went on cam while talking to me and i ended up calling him a f*ckin pig and haven't talked to him since. he was someone that i was staying at his house with him, his daughters, and his grand daughter after my ex boyfriend broke my nose and i left.
hey, if anyone wants to see my bare a$$, i'll show them my bear's a$$! i'm not going to lower myself to please any man. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 6/15/2008 7:05:45 AM | First mistake was even responding once it got to that point.
Not all guys are like that one.
But the ones that are also get a kick out of shocking women and getting just the response you gave him.
Next time just delete the email, don't respond , and put him on your ignore or block list.
Move on to someone more appropriate and respectful.
No "cheesecake" pictures for me. Iagree - you would never know where they would end up.
However my ex DID post pictures of his bare back-side on a porn site and emailed them to some women. Hmmm - I wonder if I should show them to his new wife....
Naawww, too much trouble, anyhow. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 11:53:36 AM | Bottom line: if you're looking for a quality relationship (more than sex, and shallow attractions), you're not going to find them by posing half-naked (or whole-naked) for him.
If that's what they ask for, they're dirtbags and you should cut them off asap. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 6/22/2008 5:14:02 AM | Yeah, you did the right thing. Did you report him to POF? Heck, if you have his contact info, report him to the police in his town. That ought to make his day.
Why send an opportunist nude pics of yourself so he can sell them to online sites? If he wants to see porn, he can just pay for it like everyone else. The best s*x happens from the neck up, anyway. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 7/4/2008 8:13:22 AM | well, its all a matter of personal comfort but bottom line, isn't it pretty silly getting upset about being seen naked unless you have something to be ashamed of? I mean, in reality, we are what we are.
I've have often thought that dating sites might be a lot more real if posting a nude pic was a requirement. probably be a lot fewer dates but they might be a lot more realistic.
naked pics are only an issue if they bother you or you have a job that might be jeopardized by them, which is in and of itself pretty dumb because you can go to any book store, open most any art book and see naked people galore.
whats the big deal? you're body is a temple. don't hide it.
and if you are going to date, sooner or later you're going to have to let somebody see it. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 7/4/2008 10:58:58 AM | well, needless to say that there's something that i'm a firm believer of....always was and always will be regardless of my body being a temple.
"less revealing is more appealing!" i'd much rather have the man hold off and love me for me and not my body. "there's more to live then sex alone!" is another one of my sayings and if that means that a man has to show me nude pics of him then he's only looking for sex and not love.
please keep in mind that any and all nude pics or guys jacking off on cam gets immediately marked as spam and ignored. i will never speak with that person again. i do not go onto nude sites, i do not go into nude bookstores, i don't like watching porno, hell, i don't even have any toys like a lot of women have...my toys are my power tools, i get more enjoyment out of building things then i would with just throwing pics my nude body around to anyone with playing with sex toys! now, i'm sure y'all are saying that i'm nuts but it's the truth...like the song goes, "that's my story and i'm sticking to it!"
i will not pose nor would i view anyone's nude pics!
geez, after this i need a double shot of jd...anyone care to join me?
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Posted: 7/4/2008 11:32:24 AM | This speaks straight to my heart. My soon to be ex and I got new cell phones last June and we would flirt over text with them when we weren't together. She'd even send me a pic or video of herself from time to time, and yes, they were X-rated. But we were married and it added to the excitement of our life, it wasn't some strange person asking or sending.
Well, in no time at all I found out she was sending the same pics and vids to friends of mine behind my back, and guys she worked with. It got to the point she even would take ones I'd never see and send them to other guys.
Talk about being crushed. Something that was fun and just between us became something that will never be fun for me again with anyone. I'd never ask someone I'm not invovled with to flirt with me like that in the 1st place, but how could I ever believe if I was with someone again that she wouldn't do the same thing to me?
Craig | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 7/4/2008 12:10:31 PM | *I would not pose nor would I view anyone's nude body pics"
so I take it Aphrodite Arising From the Waves, the Sistine Chapel, the David, half the statues in Central Park and a good deal of the National Gallery is off limits?
and there are virtually no bookstores that don't have at least a few books with nudes in them.
jeez its just a body. everybody has one. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 7/4/2008 1:54:18 PM | statues and paintings are a work of art. they've been around for many years yet some even new but they're all done by an artist. they are not a digital pic of themself or taken with any other camera...not even done by a professional. i will not look at anyone being nude in a magazine or anything like that. please get it through your head. i know the difference between a work of art and the work of an a$$hole and i'd much rather see the work of art that's displayed in a museum and not on a website.
geez, it seems that someone's trying to get my attention?
oh and craig, i'm really sorry to hear about what happened. i can't stand those cell phones with cameras in them. | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 10/13/2008 1:47:42 PM | hey dave, my ex bf wanted me to pose for him after he got a brand new digital camera....sorry, no can do! he was talking to his landlord and the landlord put him up to it....a married man, a neighbor, and a friend is what the landlord is......he's a dirty old perverted landlord.
so, i don't care who it is.....i wouldn't even pose nude for him. why do that when he can see me any time he wants? | |
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| Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 10/16/2008 1:48:25 PM | | Depends OP..do u think posing sideways in front of a mirror with a low cut neglige' on or laying down with one on so everyone gets the full view is raunchy?...depends on whose viewing the pics i guess.. (hugs) ~Kel.. | |
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