| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:10:48 PM | | I'd like to know if anyone else feels the same way about this that I do. I am very hesitant to meet a man my age (47) who has only been with one woman his entire life. Partly because I prefer a man with varied experiences and partly because I feel he may look down on me for having had many partners. How do others feel about this? Do men feel like this about women or do they prefer experience? | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:21:04 PM |
Do men feel like this about women or do they prefer experience?
In the 45+ age group I expect that women and men have had a number of experiences. I don't see any problem with a woman who's only been with one person. I would see it as a red flag if she'd been with a dozen or more men. That would indicate that she's not capable of staying in a long term relationship. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:38:08 PM | | It doesn't bother me one bit to say i was with one woman in my life. My X wife. When i was 12 years old i made the decision to be that way. It wasn't for religous reasons. I just wanted it to be that way. I have been divorced for 7 years now and i have been with one other woman since. So as for me if a woman doesn't want me because i haven't been but with 2 women in my life she doesn't know what she is missing. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/29/2008 6:44:16 PM | I would think he was a moral man who waited for marriage, kept his committment to his marriage and stayed faithful to the wife of his youth.
Maybe men who were happliy and faithfuly married to one woman, can be better, more caring lovers than men who have slept around (and come to be only concerned for themselves.) NOT always -- But sometimes.
After all, sex is not Rocket Science. Good technique can be easily learned by "doin' what comes natcherly". If the man and his late wife were happily going at it (without wanting to stray) for years -- they must have been doing something right.
If the man in question cares for you enough, he will not worry about your past. | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/30/2008 4:29:07 AM | Glad the shoe (male.. and not the female) isn't on the other foot in this one..
What's wrong with him possibly wanting to do all of his sexual experimenting with you?
That's what I've done.. wait.. for the "right" one. It doesn't seem to bother my new SO one little bit that I've only had one other "partner". If he had only been with one woman (he's been married twice.. so.. that aint happenin') it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. I also have never asked him just how many women he has slept with.. I consider the past.. the past.. and "his" past.. "his" past. If he "wants" to make me privy to his past sexual partners.. I'll listen.. but.. not be his judge. I just look forward to "sharing" a future with him.. in and out of the bedroom.  JMO | |
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| how do you feel about meeting middle aged men who have only slept with one woman in their lives?
Posted: 4/30/2008 5:03:05 PM |
Really, at our age, over 12 is a man/woman whore?? Who knew???
I had a 16 year marriage...that doesn't count as commitment??? Shucks ... I had a 22+ year marriage ... I wonder if that counts for any kind of commitment?
I meet guys all the time who speak about 2 or 3 marriages in the same time frame I had one. But I also know a man who was married 5 times and believe it or not ... marriage #6 has been the true and lasting one. I guess some folks just can't get it right without several dry runs?
OT ...
Maybe this guy just lived in a really remote area and there simply was no way he could find but one woman? Sometimes that happens to children who live on farms. They just live in remote areas and without a vehicle, there is no chance to do much dating. | |
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