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 bigthunder167

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:11:43 PM
I have always wondered why it seems like women seem more open, accepting, and inclined to have sexual relations with other women though they may not consider themselves to be Lesbians or Bi-Sexual. I personally have had girlfriends that have had such liasons and they both acted like it was no big deal and were just experimenting. You see the Girls Gone Wild commercials and it makes it look like nearly all women are into a little girl on girl action and it doesn't ruffle any feathers.
Essentially, most women do not seem to consider sex with other women to be taboo while sexual activity between men is more likely to be viewed by both man and women as unmanly and twisted.
Do women generally view sex with other women on a same level as a massage and not something that is unwomanly or twisted? Explain this to me.
 that sam i am

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:14:03 PM
Not only is it normal, I think that dyking it out for the entertainment of us men is also highly recommended. Trendsbians are hot. tATu 4ever!!
 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:45:40 PM
I think there are several answers to this. My bi and lesbian friends get very frustrated with alcohol induced lesbianism. It's more about teasing and attention than real affection. Then there are people like me who are closer to the straight side of the scale but would be bi for the right woman. I think we, as women, do have more freedom to explore this side of our personalitites. Guys can't even expiriment without being regarded as completly gay. I've had several male friends say there is no such thing as a bisexual male, but they say there are bisexual females. That's one of those double standards I will likely never understand. I'm not sure why all male on male activity is regarded so poorly while female on female is regarded as "hot". Society likes to warp things.
 boyzni3

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:51:29 PM
I think another issue with this is how much more sensitive and connected women are. Generally women are more open, loving, affectionate, touchy, closer, etc to our friends...I do think a lot of women do it for the aw factor, and I know I have myself for free drinks at the bar....There are women that think it is gross though.
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 5/1/2008 3:59:09 PM
Yeah - I have to agree that women are simply more touchy feely with their friends and it is exasperated with alcohol sometimes - as well some do it for attention seeking! Next time you see this OP just ask!
 Pete 9

Joined: 3/2/2008
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:15:23 PM
This concept never fails to amaze me! On one hand we have the "red blooded men", sorry to drift off, but does blood come in any other colour? Anyway my point is, girl on girl action is GAY. Man on man action is GAY. Shucks, maybe I should spend less time on here and start looking at hair replacement sites.
 Krazy Kar

Joined: 10/3/2005
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:21:41 PM
Open and accepting? Clearly you haven't paid attention to all the issues we had getting gay marriage legalized?? How much trouble same sex couples have adopting despite gender? I think that it might seem more accepted or 'trendy' because it's exactly what it is. I fail to believe that the girls in the clubs grinding with each other aren't doing it just to get the guys' attention. I doubt that many of those girls, or girls in videos will do some of those actions if they weren't on camera, or the like.

I believe that gay men is considered more taboo because guys are more sensitive about their masculinity and are afraid that this would compromise it. I personally know many many girls and guys who think guy on guy is hot. It might also be that women are more in touch with what they want, emotionally if nothing else.

I think I had more to say on this, but I'm apparently being dragged out to supper, so I'll be back later.
 pimp_squeak

Joined: 4/9/2008
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:30:54 PM
Gay marriage is legal, in Canada at least. Besides, what do you need a piece of paper for as long as you love each other. That said, homosexual/bisexual women are definitely more accepted in society than homosexual/bisexual men. Both genders still face HUGE issues with it considering the prevalence of western religion in the world today.
Girl on Girl Love - Is it normal
Posted: 5/1/2008 4:36:04 PM
Trendsbians. Good word.

Women lacking in self esteem will do anything for male attention.
 packagedealx3

Joined: 2/4/2006
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:55:56 PM
It is society and most men seem to get totally juiced by girl-on-girl porn. Women grinding on each other in clubs I am told do so because they have free drinks for the night. If this is your biggest intellectual dilemma might I suggest volunteer work?
 Katiiiiexx27

Joined: 1/23/2008
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Posted: 5/1/2008 6:05:04 PM
Not all of it is attention seeking due to a low self esteem. I have tried many different things with other girls for the sake of our own pleasure. I would not consider myself lesbian or even bisexual, but women touch and respond much differently than most men, so it provides for a new, exciting experience.
 nickphilosoph

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 5/1/2008 6:05:49 PM
re the Opost

Simple and IMO obvious.
The women on woman sexual act is clearly and obviously different than the man on man one.
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