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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:02:05 PM | | Ok this has gotten to the point where I just simply don’t understand things anymore and something has to be wrong here? Just don’t get it I’m financially independent have a nice car planning to buy my own house and still no g/f. Let’s say from 10 messages I send out 9 of them get deleted with no reply?? I can’t be that ugly like what’s going on here… I’m simply thinking off giving up on love maybe it’s not my time. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:03:59 PM | | Are you asking for a profile review or a shoulder to cry on? It's not clear. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:05:44 PM | | nah don't do that dude........... maybe your looking to hard....and no your not ugly you seem quite sweet infact.....just be yrself and the right one will come along soon anough.. good luck with yr serach | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:09:38 PM | | Ty kiwivixen and yes I was asking for a profile review sorry that wasn't clear enough. Maybe I am looking too hard.. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:22:10 PM | | You need to smile in at least some of your pictures. They currently are not very welcoming/inviting - in fact, you look downright in pain in some of them! | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:32:04 PM | | Thanks I know that, I can't smile and yes I'm in pain.. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 5:47:55 PM | | ok why can't you smile? and why are you in pain? | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 3:04:52 PM | | Something I can't discuss but hey when it's time it's time ;) i'm in no rush. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 3:13:04 PM | hmmmmmm well you will know when the right time is. And hope all goses well for you
best of luck | |
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QTinTo
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Posted: 5/2/2008 3:29:33 PM | your most welcome i was reading yr profile sounds like you have alot to offer the right girl and people think good things about you...and i am sure you will fine a girl that will make you smile  | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 6:03:35 PM | Your profile picture is hostile. It actually frightened an 8 year old I showed it to. She said you looked bad.
You should get all new pictures. They just are not positive. Except the bike. Which is pretty sweet. Try parking your butt on it and get another picture. Ladies like the bikes. (except the last gf, who told me I had to get rid of mine)
After you get new pictures, stop messaging girls. Stop it. Entirely. Nothing good is coming of it. The pretty ones get too many messages anyways. Thats why they delete yours. Make a good profile and wait for the messages to come to you. Trust me, worked with mine. Was getting lots for a while, and then I found someone perfect and I'm done now. And I live in a crap-hole compared to Glorious Canada City.
Your looking for long term, but you should stick with dating first. Some ladies may filer out the "long termers" as being too desperate.
Your interests are mostly good. Very boring in some cases (restaurants, elephants, drinking, shopping, plants, M3.)
Your about me needs to be reworked. You start off wrong, start with you, then describe what you are looking for in her.
The rest of it sounds like a bunch of boasts. Kind of like your trying to much. You don't seem to have a sense of humour, and the quote at the end may be construed as a bit creepy. (the "L" word)
Finally remove the "Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail" filter. Lots of nice ladies might be just looking for that at first, but will never be able to message you because you filtered them out.
One more note....This is not the be all and end all!!!!!! Its one of the tools you can use to find friends. Thats it, ONE of them. Go outside and have fun. Put yourself out there. Mention to your clientèle that you are looking. Play sports, have fun. MEET PEOPLE, not bits and bytes on the interweb. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2008 6:31:35 PM | | Smile and when you are done... smile again. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 12:40:19 AM |
I’m financially independent have a nice car planning to buy my own house and still have no g/f AND you are buying a bike. Do you lead into your emails with the same tactics as well, as I can assure you it’s akin to prison sex; the women you want you won’t attract this way and the women you attract you won’t want!
You are a pretty good looking guy. I’d tell you to smile but I have the same disease, brother. But what’s with the Vanilla Ice look you’re sporting? I’d can that picture faster than a fat kid on a Smartie. The bike picture only accentuates your desire for material worth, which is another big turn-off for most women. Plus, you don’t own it yet. I want a toilet made of solid gold but it’s not in the cards and I won’t be posting pictures of one anytime soon.
You mention you are going to be starting a successful career as a hair stylist soon. Okay, put the career path on hold for a second here… how do you know it’ll be successful? How do you know you’ll be successful in it? Get the job, put a few years behind you and then start declaring your success in the field and planning your future. I think it’s a little premature to celebrate victory already.
Are you starting a new fad of straight hair stylists, or are you merely confused at this point? I’ve NEVER heard of a straight male stylist and in fact if someone told me theirs was not gay I’d laugh at them and argue it till I was blue in the face. Call me petty or narrow-minded for that, but that’s like saying not all male wedding planners are gay. HELLO. I’m merely playing devil’s advocate here and trying to help you be a better person in the dating realm, as is everyone else.
Fashion TV? You aren’t helping your cause from above any more here! Jeff 2, QTinTo 0.
You should never ask someone to message you. They should want to message you based on your profile. I’d also lose the quote. And where’s your first date? Oh there it is, hidden by fluff. Filler sucks, dude. Put something of merit in there. Give her a glimmer of what you, her, and a fine bottle of chianti on a terrace could be like. Why is the term terrace so sexy?
Don’t take any offense to what I, or anyone else, has written in criticism of your profile. It’s all in good sport here and primarily we are here to help. Don't give up.
By the way, you won’t be disappointed with the R6. My last bike was an R1. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:18:03 AM | I am looking for that special girl that I can look at not just a g/f, but my trusted friend and my true love. I want someone who is serious and is ready for a long term relationship. Someone who is not afraid to be herself and give love a chance. I don’t think I can describe my ideal woman outright. I will know it when I see her… But certain qualities are important to me, namely: honesty, intelligence, integrity, passion, and humor.
Ok, I obviously can not speak for the ladies,and since that's what your after,this MAY not be good advice. However,I strongly suspect it is,or I would not have bothered writing it. There are certain things that EVERYONE is looking for,they should go WITHOUT saying in a profile. Do you know anyone,that is looking for a DISHONEST,UNINTELLIGENT,PASSIONLESS, individual with NO INTEGRITY or SENSE OF HUMOR? If you do,forget I said this because I am full of hot air,if you don't, then what is your point? The things that you have listed as (what you are looking for in a woman) are things that EVERYONE assumes EVERYONE wants,I think it is what DUECE calls "filler". It is a waiste of space and if the ladies are anything like me,WILL be detered by it's presence. You need to list things that are "unique" about the lady for which you are searching,so when she reads your profile, she will think to herself, HEY THAT'S ME! For example, I am oldfashioned,a throwback from at least 50 years ago. I simply WILL NOT get along with for lack of a better saying it a "modern lady". Ok ladies,please be kind,I was as PC as I knew how. Never was my strong suit.
Best wishes
OFCB
Hang in there dude,it will be worth it in the end. | |
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