Scags
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Joined: 5/23/2005
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:44:41 PM | | I don't know about some of you ppl, But I can't sleep with a stranger! I mean I need to know the person first and know a little bit about them. What about you guys, Would you sleep with someone you don't know? | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:50:03 PM | | yeah i wouldnt either its the whole not knowing them enough thing maybe on the 3rd date or something. | |
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Scags
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Joined: 5/23/2005
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:16:23 PM | | I don't see how sex can ever be casaul ,as hard as I try it will always get invailed | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:24:33 PM | I miss my HIPPY FREE LOVE DAYS when I would walk up to a "chic" and say...hey, you wanna???
Ohhh, hey I can still do that...
LOL
-Mikel | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:26:04 PM | NOpe, couldn't wouldn't even consider it. No appeal whatsoever here.
Fire | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:29:32 PM | Not with strangers no...
Casual sex? maybe when I'm single..
*Wait.. I am*... For now that is..
Hey Mic.. you wanna? LOL
Kidding Mic.. only kidding.
I'm no troll just a tease
Katelynn | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:29:46 PM | | this is a pretty suprising thread both the ladies and fellas dont seem to do this hhmmmm ud think with the stories u hear there would be more people about free love | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:37:33 PM | So, the general concensus is 'no'. Gotta know them first. Blah blah blah.
Hmmm. Question is....why? From my point of view, it's all about fear. We've all been burned to the point that we're hesitant to take risks. So, getting to know someone--for lots of us--is really all about safety. It's more like an interview process, where the big question is "will this person hurt me physically or emotionally?" With all the nasty STD's and dangerously unstable people wandering around, I think it's a fair question.
I'm wondering if any of you FANTASIZE about sex with strangers. I just bet you do. If you knew it would be 100% safe--physically and emotionally--would you? C'mon, be honest. RELATIONSHIPS are about intimacy--getting to know your partner inside and out. But, especially for men, SEX can be mostly a physical thing. Doesn't have to be emotional, or spiritual, or anything but sharing the most wonderful physical stimulation. It CAN be that simple.
At this stage of the game, I'm sick and tired of women who sex their men because they love them. I want a woman to sex me cuz she's horny as hell and won't take 'no' for an answer. Those women are few and far between. Unfortunately.
So, ask me if I'd have sex with a stranger, and I'll tell you 'no'. But, ask me if I THINK about it, and I'll tell you 'every single day!'
DISCLAIMER: This is MY opinion. You other guys don't have to defend or deny. Doesn't make any difference. I honestly believe MOST people--men AND women--aren't even honest with themselves, so how can I expect you to be honest with me??? Again, just an opinion. Don't get too ruffled. Sorry if I offended. I'm at a point where I'm just tired of the games. Sure would be nice to find a little truth somewhere. And a woman who doesn't have sexual issues. | |
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Scags
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Joined: 5/23/2005
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:42:30 PM | | ^^^ The problem with this day and age Is, You don't know who the person has been with and you don't know what they could have. Of coarse Is always a must you use petection, But what about oral? Not a alot of ppl use protection It that sence. Not only are there STD's, But there are STI's aswell. And some of thoes infections can be scary. No matter what, The chances of catching something are 50/50, But even more so If you were just having casual sex with complete strangers. | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 4:19:52 PM | | Would never happen, I am more into the intimacy of someone I know then the quiky with someone I have no idea who they have been with. | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 4:21:14 PM | I don't like sex with strangers. I don't like the sex on 2nd or 3rd date thing and then they disappear. I dont like the sex as friends thing. I need to feel some kind of bond.
Did I just say that? lol
Robert | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 5:07:48 PM | Aren't they all strangers ~in a way~until you actually sleep with them?
I hate sex with condoms. . . . even when you know a person really well prior to sleeping with them you have to use a condom until you know they are safe.....unless you take them to the clinic and watch them draw the blood and wait for the test results. . . . really, casual sex is a scary thing | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 5:25:14 PM | I just don't get it. If a "stranger" is someone you haven't known for a long period of time then yeah, I have sex with "strangers" all the time. It's amazing how many people will say that they could never, would never, have never had a one night stand or slept with someone that wasn't beholden to them and yet the same people are the ones saying how terrible and pointless such sex is. I've made love to a partner I've had for years and I've ****ed a woman I had only just met - both can be fantastic.
Sex with someone you love allows for understanding your partner's needs and desires, familiarity and experience giving them pleasure, knowing the boundaries, and the spiritual union between souls that are "mated". Sex with a "stranger" is about excitement, danger, exploring the person's body (and mind), discovering some of the things that make the other person totally excited, finding out new things about yourself and your new friend, being completely wild and uninhibited because you may never see that person again. Both can be amazing and both have strengths and weaknesses.
As for disease, I have found that in relationships women often want to do away with condoms for various reasons. In casual sex, I always wear a condom. Given that many people aren't faithful in their relationships, who do you think is more likely to get STD's? Think about that one, if I had a dollar for every innocent person in a loving relationship that got an STD from their partner...I'd buy you all houses!
Sex is fantastic and I consider it a need for the human animal. Why deny yourself pleasure just because you aren't in a long-term relationship? Dating keeps you vibrant and healthy, and you'll be more attractive to that "soulmate" if and when you meet by keeping up an active social life than you would by sitting at home alone in front of your computer. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2005 5:28:39 PM | What is a stranger? Time is an ilusion.. Many times it happend to me that everything happened in just one night, but afterwards it turns into a long term relationship. They is a 'chemistry factor', something unavoidable that connects you to other, not longer 'stranger'. I can get emotionally involve very quickly with some women, it is not just a physical thing!  | |
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| Casaul Sex with Strangers
Posted: 6/2/2005 5:44:12 PM | if you know them for a few hours are they still strangers? lol
roleplaying being strangers with your partner, meeting in a bar and going home together is always fun too. | |
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