| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:13:39 PM | | Ok...This actually happened to me. While sitting in a bar a female walked up to me and gave me her number and stated I don't care if you call me, just put this in your pocket. She did this, while she was on a date with another guy. I felt pretty awkward. What is your opinion of the girl who gave me her number ? | |
|
| |
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:21:50 PM | | Well, first of all, that move was very disrespectful to her boyfriend, even if they might be going through some 'rough times'. She shouldn't not hit on another guy if she has a boyfriend period. Imagine if she was your girlfriend, you wouldn't be happy if she gave her digits to another guy. You can't possibly trust that girl. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:31:02 PM | I'm thinking that girlie was looking for trouble and apparently left her morals at the door!
I would have been happy if you ended this with "The guy she was with... got up... walked out the door and left the b*tch standing there with the check and all alone!" And then you ripped up her number in her face and said "Sorry sweetheart, I don't think i'll ever be THAT desperate!" hehe | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:41:55 PM | 1. Are you really sure it was her number? If it wasn't her number, then she definitely doesn't care if you call.
2. I think she was doing it to make her date jealous.
3. Are you sure she was on a date with that guy? | |
|
| |
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:09:35 PM | You were used. Not "you" personally of course; it most likely would of been any other guy if not you . Why? Some sort of self-serving agenda on her part, no doubt. Perhaps to make him jealous, or, to validate her own "groove", or, perhaps he was unpleasant or boring and she needed some amusement, or, perhaps she really was hoping you really would call thinking to yourself "Wow, she must really be interested in me, giving me her number like that while out with someone else." Who knows. It is an entertaining exchange, though.
mistressdolly | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:12:26 PM |
What is your opinion of the girl who gave me her number ?
Rather amusing and completely tasteless thing to do.
While sitting in a bar a female walked up to me and gave me her number and stated I don't care if you call me, just put this in your pocket. She did this, while she was on a date with another guy.
Are you sure she was on a date with another guy? Maybe they were just friends?
However, if she was on a date? Clearly, the only appropriate course of action would be to hang around the place and at the most opportune moment, walk up to them both and hand the paper back to the girl.
Excuse me, I hate to interrupt you both but...I believe this is yours?
...and just walk away. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:14:08 PM | How do you know it was a date and not just a friend?
Pretty tacky behavior.... I have to say, if she was on a date.
You sure this really happened, and was not just a dream? Ohhh, curious mind wonders... what did YOU do?
| |
|
| |
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:41:45 PM | she's trouble. i've known plenty of women in several different sides of this type of thing. they cannot be satisfied with anything and looking for their next best thing. you'll be one of many of her schizophrenic conquests. hmm, in fact, one gal i knew who was like that (no need to divulge the story), she's actually in a half-way house now for her schizophrenia.
i say give the number to a group of some high school boys and claim that she's a good lay. maybe others can come up with better ideas...maybe get her signed up to be telemarketed or something. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 12:05:01 AM | OP, as you can see, everyone is pretty much in agreement – no one needs that kind of trouble. What I want you to pay attention to is the way a man with class would handle the situation:
“However, if she was on a date? Clearly, the only appropriate course of action would be to hang around the place and at the most opportune moment, walk up to them both and hand the paper back to the girl.
Excuse me, I hate to interrupt you both but...I believe this is yours?
...and just walk away.”
Now, how someone without class would handle it:
“i say give the number to a group of some high school boys and claim that she's a good lay. maybe others can come up with better ideas...maybe get her signed up to be telemarketed or something.”
No matter what you or I think of this woman be someone that behaves with integrity. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:14:41 AM | | Who knows which number date it was with this guy. It could have been the first date, and she just wasn't feeling him. Or it could have been the 700th date in 8 years. So, I can't speculate. But, if it's the former - who cares? If it's the latter . . I would care. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 3:03:35 AM |
Ok...This actually happened to me. While sitting in a bar a female walked up to me and gave me her number and stated I don't care if you call me, just put this in your pocket. She did this, while she was on a date with another guy. I felt pretty awkward. What is your opinion of the girl who gave me her number ?
OMG a gal actually did that, there really is some strange females or more 'i dont care' females in this world eh
If i was sat across from you when that happened i would of been sat laughing at what i had seen ,you must of sat thinking geez i should come in this pub more often can see your inbox being filled with ''which pub was this then'' from guys on here 
But on a seriouse note im with few others who have already said the obviouse....if she can throw her number at you and not give the other guys feelings a second thought then what would she do with you | |
|
| |
| |
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:54:24 AM | I take this as she was with a male friend/relative, or on a first date with a guy she didn't like...
I'd hope that if I was with a male friend and hit on a guy nearby he wouldn't take it as rude...when my male friend may have encouraged it or been aware it was happening.
It could be a 15 year relationship with a bf, but who knows? You should have asked her... | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:57:42 PM | Ok, I called her. She says her friend is Amish (I'm not questioning it) and she said she wasn't going to let it become more then just friends with her guy Amish friend. I didn't set up a date with her. I just talked via phone, exchanged theory on job related things because I found out she does something a little bit similar to me. Have to say this is awkward. She did flatter me some. Her friend was short and little, but I sensed a tiny bit of turbulence in him. I'm not the kind of man to destroy another man over a girl so I won't set up a date.
I loved reading your responses and interpretations to this tiny experience I lived through. I appreciate that. Single life is interesting.
The Devil | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/9/2008 9:41:52 PM |
And he isn't in Georgia...
Who said he was? Maybe he's been to Georgia. Maybe he likes Georgia. Maybe he likes the song. Heck, maybe he dated a girl named Georgia once.
However, if she was on a date? Clearly, the only appropriate course of action would be to hang around the place and at the most opportune moment, walk up to them both and hand the paper back to the girl.
Excuse me, I hate to interrupt you both but...I believe this is yours?
...and just walk away.
Easily the best response thus far. Of course, this is assuming she was on a date with the guy. Maybe I'm entirely too naive, but since you say you weren't certain that it was a date, I'd say that the best course of action would be to assume nothing. I was sitting at a bar having a drink with a girl friend of mine one night recently, and I happened to notice a guy a bit farther down the bar who kept trying to catch my eye. At first I thought it was odd, considering he was with a girl who appeared to be his age. It got stranger still when the bartender came over and gave me another drink, courtesy of the guy across the bar. Several minutes later, his female companion approached me and said her cousin thought I was cute and wanted my number. Probably not the most common situation, but it happens.
Now that she's clarified the situation for you (somewhat), OP, I'd recommend proceeding with caution, if at all. I'd just hate to see you go on a date with the girl to end up possibly being accused of being Amish yourself. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/10/2008 5:52:34 PM | Head game, she was doing it to make her date jealous.
Question I have for the OP did he see her give you the number. That is an important thing.
If she did it so he wouldn't see, then she might not like him anymore and looking for an out.
If she did it so he would see, definitely was a set up to make her date jealous.
If a person tells me something its not important unless it really is important
If someone lies that is important.
I doubt very much he is amish. Amish avoid anything from modern times. | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/10/2008 7:07:52 PM | Devil
Same exact thing happened to me, it was a paper
on which she wrote her college dorm room and
phone number.
Now I knew her from afar, also that her boyfriend
had to go aways to maturity, yet I was dating a girl
so I merely took a pass on it. [she was a doll too]
Two months later, Mr. Immaturity found himself
out at the 'curb' looking in, took it out on me with
his usual childish whining.
Didn't have the heart to tell him that I had his girlfriends
phone number , no matter how idiotic he acted.
[wonder how he would have reacted?] | |
|
| Getting a girl's number, while she's dating another guy
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:51:28 AM | Hum I guess I really don't see a problem with this! She was with someone and saw someone else she was interested in and didn't want to miss the opportunity to let him walk out of her life! She was on a date - she wasn't married!  Why is it that a woman gets blamed for 'starting trouble'?!?! Sometimes you just have to make a move - even if it may be at a time when it may seem inappropriate!
Case in point .........
I made a date with a guy I had chatted with on line and spoke to on the phone a couple of times. He seemed like a nice decent guy. However the night of our date he came apparently intoxicated and/or under the influence of drugs. NOT my kind of man! When I excused myself to go to the ladies room I walked past another man who caught my eye! We had eye contact - we said hello and we started chatting - he gave me his phone number and I thought, 'hum I like this guy' - so I gave him mine! The next day he called - he was a fantastic guy - I am now married to HIM!! As for the other guy - he called a couple of times after - but I simply told him I was no longer interested. I am more than sure he has lived through his disappointment! Sometimes you just have to make the move when the time is ripe to go in for the kill!!  | |
|
Home
login 
