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Posted: 5/10/2008 5:57:40 PM | To give a pearl necklace. I've never been interested in doing that. I was with a girl that offered to let me and I told her I thought it was degrading to her and women in general. Granted, she offered so she must not have thought so, but I still did. And what happens between two consenting adults is OK.
What's the opinion here on that sort of thing? Facials, necklaces, back sprays...anything that has to do with releasing your load on her body. Guys and girls are welcome here. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:04:31 PM | Facial? No thank you... ever had that stuff in your eye? Freakin stings... really really stings.
Anywhere else no worries.. it's all good....
She offered, you thought degrading? To her and women in general? As you said... she must not have thought so. But, I'm just thinking, what's wrong with your stuff? Presumably with a partner you are tested with you would come inside her, what's the difference coming else where? (other than in said eyes). What do you mean... but I still did? Still thought degrading, or still did give her the pearl necklace? | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:09:47 PM | | Still thought it degrading.Like I said, as long as its between two consenting adults, all is good. But to do that sort of thing smacks of pron and I don't care for that much either. Maybe it's just me. I'm OK with just about anything, but I just see that as poor treatment of your partner. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:13:15 PM |
Granted, she offered so she must not have thought so, but I still did.
So you did something that You thought was degrading,because????? Why didnt You just ask in this thread LADIES!! what are Your thoughts on pearl necklaces? I think the point could have been made without telling us that You gave someone a pearl necklace. but You submitted to her ONLY because.
what happens between two consenting adults is OK.
Justify it all you want, if You didnt really want to do it. YOU would have stuck to your thought that it was degrading, but since it got You off, and felt good, that little thought was long gone.
whatever happened to morals?
How can You think its degrading and be ok if its between two consenting adults?
If i consent to something i really dont think its degrading!!! | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:15:32 PM | It really isnt poor treatment especially if your partner is asking for it...
IMO, poor treatment would be doing something like this if your partner has specifically asked you not to. To me, this isnt about degrading her/women it's about what you are comfortable with, and that's important too. It has to work every which way.
Edit: Uh oh Kal, either clarify or read less into a post? | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:16:26 PM | I dont get how having sex and getting your love juices on your mate is degrading ? weird ... NOW the jap videos of scatting ( poo for those who dont know ) anyway THAT is degrading to me and filthy .. but putting semen on your mate .. lovely in my book. AL though I agree don't get it in your eye that stuff burns in your eye its the salt . I had it shot in my eye on accident when i had pulled my mouth of for a sec and he shot his load on my face , OMG my eyeball turned bright red and stayed that way . I tried to lie at work and say i poked my eye but I finally gave in and told those close to me at work what happened LOL i got teased for awhile but all is good .
To me putting it anywhere he wants is great lovely and a TURN on there is nothing more of a turn on than knowing i made my man cum and hear him enjoying me , and feeling him cum where ever he desires . | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:19:13 PM | Hey Kal, you missed it completely. I'm taking the same position you are. Take the time to read the post again. And don't be so quick to flame.
Tara, that's pretty much what I'm asking about. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:32:48 PM | You did something you think is degrading,but still did it. Sorry but i dont get that.
Its just a flicker and my thoughts, to each their own. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:37:39 PM | Based off of the OP
thought it was degrading to her and women in general. Granted, she offered so she must not have thought so, but I still did.
He is saying that he believes that she thinks it's ok and not degrading, but never the less he still believes it to be.
he never said he gave the necklace... | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:44:17 PM |
Granted, she offered so she must not have thought so, but I still did.
Nah! It's cool dude... she was expanding your horizons....
Do it... and when you see how much she enjoys it you'll be able to let that little hangup go.
Pretty soon you'll be at work daydreaming about her diddling her clit and cumming her brains out while you let go and put a big smile on her face.... | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 8:02:47 PM | I would just go with be happy a women was willing to be alone and naked with ya, and ditch the sexual hang-ups. Once those are gone its a whole lot more fun  | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 8:06:32 PM | | Not degrading if she's into it. Everybody has things they like that might seem unusual to the rest of us. As long as it doesn't turn you off, there is no harm in indulging your partner. | |
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Posted: 5/10/2008 8:13:20 PM | | Ok, I think I have my answer. The issue is mine to deal with. It seems that women either enjoy it or at least don't mind it. I guess this come from the NG complex. Always the respectful one, knowhudimean, Vern? | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 3:38:51 AM | | A old song from ZZ TOP pearl necklace!Thay new something back in the eighties. Hey guys if you want to DUMP YOUR LOAD THERE ? Go for it! I like cum any where on me I will lick it of my face ,tits and rub it into my ass! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 8:35:01 AM | Definitely not! It's nice to see you concerned about things like this but honestly I have never considered something like that degrading, and if she offered she must enjoy it.
T | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 8:44:44 AM | re the Opost
"What's the opinion here on that sort of thing? Facials, necklaces, back sprays...anything that has to do with releasing your load on her body. Guys and girls are welcome here"
I do not think that it is degrading to buy a woman a pearl nekclace. But her asking for it is a tad tacky. Pay for her to get a facial at a salon? Hm! Depends. As a "gift"? OK. Pay for her to have her back (and rest of body) sprayed with tan paint so that she looks tanned? Can she not pay for it herself? If, not, yeah it's cool, I guess.
But what do these issues have to do with sex and sexuality?
What? A "pearl necklace" is a metaphor for seamen sprayed where? Really? When did this enter the English dict? Is it degrading? Depends how it is done. Some women find sex in general degrading! So, it all depends. How it is done! And each person's minset, both the man who does it and the woman who receives it!
So, no, not degrading per se. Buying her a pearl necklace is more "degrading", IMO, to both. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 8:57:30 AM | | Anything done against the wishes of your lover is degrading by virtue of the disrespect you are showing for their desires and disregard for their pleasure. Anything done with their willing consent and/or at their request is not degrading to them. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 9:00:51 AM | OP: You've fallen for the feminist junk that states anything from a man must by virtue of being from a man be in some manner aggressive or degrading.
One gf loves watching ejaculation so she ends up with a fair number of facials/pearl necklaces. Why would I deny her something she enjoys? (as previously mentioned avoid her eyes)
Cum in her, cum on her, whatever and who cares so long as she enjoys it too. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 9:21:49 AM |
A old song from ZZ TOP pearl necklace!Thay new something back in the eighties. Hey guys if you want to DUMP YOUR LOAD THERE ? Go for it! I like cum any where on me I will lick it of my face ,tits and rub it into my ass!
I love you, I'm packing my bags now and moving to a town near you  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 9:34:16 AM | What's wrong with a pearl necklace? LOL....
Nah when I first came here I didn't get it, never heard that expression before. I personally wouldn't like any guy to come on my body, ew. Cum is just gross lol. But I guess if she asked for it, then it's ok with her, and so why not? But then if you feel it's degrading, you should stick with your own morals and thoughts about :) | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 10:26:57 AM | If it bothers you...you feel like it's degrading, or dirty, or whatever, then don't do it. YOUR consent is just as important as hers.
I think that enjoying a little bit of everything, and if that includes cumming somewhere on her body is fine. But a guy who refuses to cum inside of her at all b/c that's "too intimate" and only cums on her body, *that* is degrading. See the difference?
But again, it's how you and your partner feel that is important. If one of you is uncomfortable and giving it good long thought doesn't erase those feelings of discomfort, then don't do it.
Kaylie | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 10:33:58 AM | I detest facials and anything above the neck. Personal choice, due to a rape in my past. I don't see a thing wrong with it if both people enjoy it, but just count me out.
And anywhere else is fine. | |
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