| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 8:31:51 PM | I guess that maybe it's me but i like to be bite myboyfriend on his neck and at first he was okay with it now he says just lick me neck!
I love being bitin and him doing it to me i find that a HUGE turn on but my question is
What wrong with me biting a little?  | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 8:34:12 PM | If your partner doesn't like it, then don't do it.
Some really enjoy it, some don't. Some like the marks left, some don't. It's quite plain and simple.
Would you enjoy your partner doing something to you that you didn't like? You should be considerate or it's just being selfish.
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 9:01:35 PM | Biting, m'dear, is one of those things that tend to express dominance. Some guys have a real problem with it...and sometimes you just need to find the right time to express a bit being in control and he will allow it. But do let him know that you like it.
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 9:03:35 PM | He liked it at first? Like he didn't want to tell you he didn't really like it or he did and you're getting carried away with it?
Back off and nibble, see if that's better. Nibbling is usually good, some people just don't like BITING biting... they think it's freaky...
Kind of like choking... gotta back off a little when they start thashing about... cause thrashing about is freaky... | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 9:03:40 PM | | I find nothing wrong with it. I'm a biter myself. It's a more bestial and primal thing to me. As long as you're not drawing blood, or are courteous enough not to leave lasting marks, and it's not hurting your partner, have fun. But again, as with any intimacy, make sure it consenting. If he's asking you not to do it, then respect that it's not something for him. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/10/2008 10:02:34 PM | | I always thought 'lovebites were a thing of teen childhood, seems they are not, its ok to do it on a woman who has long hair to hide it,I would not like to walk around with a 'Shagger' on my neck. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 12:32:48 AM | You know, I pretty much demand that my woman bites me when she's performing oral sex. But for some reason, I don't generally enjoy it when she bites me anywhere else.
Although it can be ok during particularly angry sex! | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 12:42:07 AM | | I think that marks on the neck are like a dog pissing on the hydrant! Please do not "mark" me so that people know I am "taken". Ick | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 12:47:33 AM | | Haha, that's a good point! But sometimes, it just happens. I also prefer not to be marked, at least visually. If my woman thinks she needs to stake out her territory, something ain't right. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:28:18 AM | Nothing is wrong with alittle biting to me! I LOVE having a man bite my nipples bite my inner thighs and he must bite my ASS hard so I LET OUT ALITTLE SCREAM!  | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:11:27 AM | There are some people with a little couth and decorum - they do not wish to have bite marks on them in the work place - or out amoungst others who do not need to see such things!! For those who like a little biting -   | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 7:18:04 AM | I think there's a continuum:
Licking
Nibbling with lips only
Hickeys
Nipping - light biting
Biting but not drawing blood
Full-on biting!
Maybe your guy could get into a lighter form at least, let him know it's not all or nothing...and maybe if you let HIM bite you.... | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 8:51:51 AM | | IF and I do mean IF I get this right OP is stating "a little biting" might be taken (as I did) as nibbling, light playful things..... thats cool, but hard enough to leave an actual bite mark... no thank you, SUCKING on my neck is ok too (turn on as well as the nibbling) but again not hard enough to make a "hickey". HOWEVER with that being said... I can't speak for him, but if he knows you're not going to leave a mark and it's a turn on for you..... did you tell him that? Can you live with doing it just once and a while? can you live with not doing it at all? Can he live with it once and a while? COMMUNICATION is the key.... you should be asking these questions to him! Personally something I didn't like, but I knew turned on my mate... I'd allow it to be done sometimes, then eventually seeing how it really got her going... I'd probably learn to like it more. but each person is different, hence the reason we are all here on POF! | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 9:06:45 AM | OP - Nothing wrong with anything two consenting adults agree to but if either objects it's off the table. Perhaps he'd object less if it weren't visible to the world thereafter. Find out if it's the biting or the location that puts him off.
You may also find he's more amenable to it if it's a trade off - he lets you bite and you let him do something to which you might not normally consent but which he enjoys. It's all about give and take. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:32:42 AM | | Perhaps a bite placed discretely would be more appropriate for an adult. I love sensual biting but don't want anything that is visible to the world when I go for groceries. Its not a bloody advertisement! | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 1:49:55 PM | | Nothing at all. I do it myself. Be careful when they bite back. You both could end up with alot of bruises after the night is over. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:43:11 PM | | There's nothing wrong with biting or anything else if your partner agrees to it but it they don't then don't do it. | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:54:17 PM | Ever woman I've been with whether we got intimate or not, loves to be bitten on place or another... usually the neck, and shoulders, a little nibble on the ears... stuff like that.
I absolutely love being kissed and licked on the neck, but I just don't get much from actually being bit.
I think it has to do with either the whole Vampires attraction thing... or a Dominant / Submissive thing that goes even deeper than what the whole vampire thing is about... something hardwired into the female brain or something? That's just a thought... | |
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| What's wrong with a little biting?
Posted: 5/11/2008 4:16:54 PM | | Years and years ago I had a gf that would love bite. Well one time she was too drunk and she love bit me like a zombie. Blood, skin! It was all there! It was horrifying. That was basically the end for me. Don't love bite drunk. | |
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