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 trying2findme

Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 1
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Posted: 5/11/2008 8:01:20 PM
Seem to be attracting idiots and/or people without a pulse. I am guessing it's the shaved head, but I don't do it to look like a bada$$. I was on this site once before and met some good people, met some bad ones, too. The online dating community is a little weird at times it seems. Can anyone carry on a conversation? I've been stood up once, which prompted me to remove my profile, but I'm back again. Any hints out there?
 Havoc1970

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 5/11/2008 9:54:16 PM
Trying,

Well lets see, I'd upgrade your pics with a "clean head shot". Literally: A lady wants to see your face. It's the first thing to be checked. Metaphorically: The pity party theme that you have going in your "about me" section is not going to attract women. They will run screaming into the night. Trust me. Rework that and come back and let us check it out.

Sorry, don't mean to be harsh. Just being honest.

Havoc
 LolaMaxwell

Joined: 9/4/2006
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Posted: 5/11/2008 9:55:17 PM
You cannot possibly be attracting people without a pulse, because they would be dead.

The dead do not use the internet to the best of my knowledge.
 OldFashndMntMan

Joined: 6/20/2006
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Posted: 5/12/2008 12:29:03 AM
Hi tryin, it doesn't look good that's for sure. I suggest you go "profile tips" at the top of the first page on this forum. Study the suggestions therein, and the delete and try again.

Best wishes

OFCB
 ~Maggie~

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 5/12/2008 1:49:36 AM
You list a few extra pounds as body type, so you really should get some pictures that represent that weight. The ones you have are not flattering to you. IMO. The main image should be a close up of your smiling face.

Below I have taken the liberty of removing all of the negatives from your profile.

Trying this again....Today is my birthday (5/3) Sitting alone again and wondering if this wasn't a good thing that I just threw away at some point.
because I've nothing else to do,
sometimes that just doesn't happen though. Fearful of rejection may be a good way to describe me, but after you've had your shot at marriage fall to the floor, that's understandable to anyone that's been through it. I'd like to find someone that's maybe been through what I've been through, at least we'd have something to talk about at first.
Update: bald doesn't mean that I'm bald, it's shaved. Not to look like a bada$$ or a biker, but for other more sentimental reasons. Ask if you feel so inclined. Also, if you look at my profile, maybe think about dropping a note, eh? I hate when people whizz by and don't say hello.


This sounds very negative and reeks of self~pity, maybe you didn't mean for it to appear this way, but it does. IMO

Get some confidence, dig deep and do a re~write that includes the positive side of your life.

Good luck
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
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Posted: 5/12/2008 3:39:47 AM
Listen Man, Don't take this wrong. You need to start all over. Re-do your profile and your pictures. Do away with that pitiful stuff. You might not have meant for it to sound that way but it does. I can see where you have one thing going for you that some men would kill for. "I can't carry a tune in a bucket" But there you are with a guitar in your hand. Use it! Redo your profile and be a little more happy when you write it and elaborate a little about your music and how you like to play. Let me give you a little tip. You know how to make love to a woman? Her ears. And you have it right there in your hands. You follow what i am trying to say here? Post a good picture of you so every woman can see your face. Use the one you have now to let the women see you like to play music. Redo everything and come back again.
 trying2findme

Joined: 5/3/2008
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Posted: 5/25/2008 5:33:00 PM
Alright, changed a few things around. Looking alright now?
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