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Posted: 5/11/2008 10:25:42 PM | This has happened a few times to me and am just wondering if anyone has any advice as to what is going on lol.
Alright well there's a girl that I'm into but she has a boyfriend...now she has shown signs that she likes me but probably not enough to leave her boyfriend lol...anyways she gets all angry when ever I bring up anything about another girl or even talking to other girls...anyone know why?
Now I have had this happen a few times to me so I'm not saying who this is exactly but any advice or thought would be very much appreciated.  | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:41:01 PM | She is playing games with you and is an attention seeker. She likes the attention you and her boyfriend give her and know if you had another girl you wouldnt be doing it.
Dont fall for her games
(this is the opinion of an older woman who has seen many types of women) | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/11/2008 10:51:10 PM | | Thanks that's what I was thinking... | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 2:04:15 AM | This is because she is completely without any sort of loyalty.
Is that the kind of woman you want? One who is going to lust after other men while she is with you? | |
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~Kyn~
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Joined: 2/15/2008
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 2:17:28 AM | I had a guy who had the "whatever the hell it was"...for me.
He had a girlfriend...LTR...and used to carry on like an idiot if I started seeing someone.
Couldnt stand the guy. | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 3:56:57 AM | | It could be that she really does like you but she needs a secure environment and he offers more security. | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 9:34:02 AM | | That sounds like something that would happen in High School. I think your best bet is to walk away. If she is willing to leave her bf for you then im sure if you two got together she would be willing to leave you for someone "better". Its all way to dramatic, and personally I think that you just need to find someone that is not in a relationship at all and avoid these types of problems. | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:03:31 AM | | I agree with most postings, this girl just wants attention, she has two guys that want her and she'll do anything she can to keep u trailing behind her. You should definately leave her in the dust and find a great girl for u! | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:18:31 AM | Why are you looking at women who are in relationships? You do realize it's a very quick way to get hurt by the current BF/Husband/SO... Right?
Try finding someone who is actually available and leave the unavailable women alone. | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:22:46 AM | It's called "wanting your cake and eating it too" = head games!
Now, would you want to date a girl that had a boyfriend, flirted with you (and who knows who else she flirts with), and then left him for you? Is this someone that you can see yourself trusting? Food for thought................  | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:34:18 AM | Agreed......and nice new picture Sabrosura.......
Why are you even telling her these things? Is this a competition? Why not just do as you need to for your relationships, and let her do her own thing?
It seems to me, that you both are playing some games here, and I would suggest that you learn that having a significant other means to stay away from them in any way associated with sexual overtones.
Back off and treat them as just a friend or sister, and do as you would if that was the situation. I bet you do not tell your sister all your romantic opportunities, nor your female friends that are just that, and no more.
She may want you mentally, and still have her boyfriend physically as well as mentally, and that leads to utter chaos in the long run.
Run buddy run.......
Just my opinion.......   | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 11:34:26 AM | Silent
I had a similar drama, only she was single, gave me all kinds of signals.
When I bit, she bit my head off!
She , not known as a big dater, immediately sent emisaries to goad
me to make a second fly-by, I couldn't see her failure to handle this herself
so naturally I declined.
She went on a dating spree, BARS which she once said she detested,
rather quickly found a 'detestable barfly', wed him 6 months later!
[after she conspicously showed off her engagement ring 5 feet from me]
Chalked it up that she needed 'anger 'to spur her on, quirky way to
self-motivate , eh wot?  | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 1:50:30 PM | Thanks guys and gals...I appreciate it.
When we started talking she actually was single but a few weeks into she told me she got back together with her ex....things went weird fast lol.
But I seem to meet the ones that like to use me for emotional security haha. | |
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| I'm confused???
Posted: 5/12/2008 1:56:12 PM | | She likes the attention from you but and wants you to herself but there is no way she's leaving her boyfriend. This person is out there and you need to do what you want. She's not leaving her boyfriend. | |
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