| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 1:31:28 AM | I belive I met the woman of my dreams thanks to P.O.F. She's the first one that made contact. She was looking for email/talk. We met at a local park and just sat and talked for about five to six hours. Everything seemed perfect. We have so much in common. She treats me like no woman has ever treated me before in my life. I can honestly say that I have fallen in love. We are already talking about moving in together. She is my soul-mate. I would love to spend the rest of my life with her.  | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 4:52:56 AM | Thats great news.....good luck ..hope both of your dreams come true LI | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 5:20:30 AM | Been here a month today, and you've not only found your soul-mate, but you're going to move in together.
Uhh, best of luck on that... | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 5:25:17 AM | Be careful taz! I had 3 guys on here in the past year ask me to marry them after meeting them for coffee only. I found out they were in a hurry because: Man#1. His mortgage was behind Man#2. He had drug and alcohol problems Man#3. He was already married! There are a lot of sharks in these waters!  | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 6:03:12 AM | | So what is POF? Whats the big hurry to move in or marry sheesh .Desperate people or what? Just because its a site to meet, doen't mean you should jump into something.What ever happend to courting and getting to know that person first. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 7:56:32 AM | Sounds exactly like a relationship I had once.
Blew up real good!
It's not healthy and probably not real. Either take it S L O W, and maybe it can last, or just enjoy the ride and don't lose your sanity when it all vanishes because it never had substance.
As far as love at first sight. Get back to me in fifty years, and we'll discuss if that was in fact the case! lol | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 6:18:38 PM | I agree with plastic surgeon.
Been there, done that. Twice. The first one fizzled. Fortunately I had a plane to catch to return home. The second took me two months to figure out how to best get her out of my place.
Get to know her before jumping into anything like marriage and/or living together. 5-6 hours is not enough to get to know someone.
I've learned not to jump into anything, although I still occasionally want to jump. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 6:33:32 PM | Well taz I believe anything I mean anything is possible when it comes to matters of the heart and such! Some of these people that have comments and doubts but hey we are not walking in either your new ladies shoes or yours so we should hold tongues/and doubts. Hell alot wierder things have happened online, not saying what has happened to you is wierd! Good luck, live long and be happy and all that good stuff.. Hope things truly work out for you both | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 10:02:02 PM | Wonderful!!! Best of luck. Keep us updated how it goes Guess you will have to get divorced first. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/12/2008 10:46:32 PM | | I don't even know you, and I feel like I want to protect you, but you are a grown man. None of us has a crystal ball, but I would bet that many people reading this are both very happy for you and nervous for you as well. There is no point talking reason to a person who believes he/she is in love. Stranger things have happened, and you may be with this woman for 50-plus years. If anyone knows a man that I could fall so hard for that it knocked all common sense out of my head, please direct him to my profile. All the best, my friend. I see that you're separated and she'd prefer not to say her status. So far, it sounds like you two were made for one another. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 5:28:23 AM | | Just to let everybody know, We've been talking for almost a month now and we've already discussed what w want from each other. To all of you that have given negative responses, I honestly don't care what you think. To all of you that have given positive responses, thank you very much. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 5:51:03 AM | taz.............. sweetie........I know that rush in the beginning of a relationship is a wonderful feeling, but try waiting for the 3 month WALL. If things are still good after that then start making plans to move in. Right now just enhoy each other...........
Good Luck......................
And waiting till you get a divorce might be a good idea. Just saying............. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 11:01:18 AM | Babe you are my world and i know we are going to be as happy years from now as we are right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love you so much!!1 I know you are my soulmate as well~~~ So everybody with something negative to say We could care less cause we love each other now and always!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 12:03:13 PM | Good luck to you, but you’re separated (married) and her marital status is: prefer not to say???
Hmmmm..... | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 12:03:32 PM | Only if the sex is good ......and 3 times a day 
edit...for you know who.................. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 12:29:36 PM | | heheeheheheheheheheheheh....edit for you know who..."Oh my heart valve"...click click.. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 12:31:58 PM | I was once like the two of you, thought I met someone I had so much in common, and we had similar views and goals, etc. then we spent a week living together, and it fizzled. That was after a month of phone calls, and other regular communications.
If you can make it work, great.
If not, don't go to the Broken Hearts forum, because we'll be tempted to say "told you so"
You may not want to hear what we have to say, but it's important that some have been there only to have it not work. 50% of marriages nowadays fail. If you can beat the odds, more power to you. | |
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| Love at first sight Posted: 5/13/2008 1:11:11 PM | | Kids, Kids, why the hurry? Do you absolutely have to move in together right now? Why not wait, keep seeing each other and find out if this is really real? I truly wish both of you the best. Just want to say hay, slow down a bit and enjoy it. | |
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