| Lets began with why women "CHEAT" lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/3/2005 1:15:14 AM | Check this ok im 19 right im not a player cheater hater or a perv and yes im talkin to some of you OLD mofo's that need to stay away from younger women looking for love not an ubduction rating ummmkaay k. Back to the subject 19 I have been in 6 BAAD relationships an they all cheated on me LOL figures but im more of a observant heartbroken person lol and i have it down wit a theory for every bad relationship u may bring to mind.
So either critisiz me or have a nice ball with
my prfile either way if u wanna ask ill give u the facts
Its about stopping the problem at
the source!!
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 1:01:39 AM | in most cases of cheating that i know of, one of two things happen
a) the sex is sh** or non=existent
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b)lack of communication- when your partner don't feel they can openly communicate with you, they're going to find someone with whom they can. once this happens, you know the sex follows soon thereafter. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 11:14:01 AM |
derek, you're 19. give yourself some time to sort them out.
I'm 26 and still can't seem to find a faithful one. Anyone who's read my early posts or has talked to me personally would know the story behind this. However, I know there out there, and I'm actually talking to one that I beleive doesn't cheat. Hang in there derek, I'm sure you'll find yourself one.
 cheers and good luck | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 12:22:45 PM | | I can honestly tell you that there are a lot of women who would never consider cheating on their partner. You just need to take some time to really get to know them. Also, look and see if there is a pattern of the women that you are meeting..if you find one...deviate from that pattern and you may find yourself meeting women with different thoughts on monogamous relationships. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 1:08:40 PM | Sounds like a bad run of girls. Probably young and immature and still out for a good time.
I've read studies indicating that the #1 reason girls cheat is because they don't feel attractive to their man so the first guy that is giving them attention becomes they're 'ego booster' so to speak. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 1:59:46 PM | You don’t cheat if you are confident in yourself and have ambitions that take your mind away from female/male pleasures.
In the UK a couple recently celebrated their 80th wedding anniversary. They said God kept them together.
Basically if you are both strong in morals then you are less likely to cheat. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 3:36:38 PM | well what i think it all boils down too .. is for anyone that has or could do it ,
The new factor thats all ..thats all it is..
i think its the feeling of being with someone they aint never been with !
ya know every relationship has ups and downs each feels lonely at times ..
if the relationship is meant and both are serious about it !!! well they find away
not to stray..
and if one strays then .. well it never was really about love to begain with!!
personaly i would like see all the one's that could do somone that way too take a long look at what there looking for in someone and don't make anyone a promise or a comitment untill they are able to know who and what they want out of life!!!
again...why they cheat { men and woman }
its because they like the rush of newness.
the I Wonder what it is like with her or him ? factor
just caught in a moment thing...
I never cheated on my X of 12 years so this is just my view , no facts . hell THE way i see it is you live you learn . some mistakes makes you a better person for who you are?
so this is for every one out there , don't past judgment on anyone you wasnt in there shoes,
you dont no what made them do it...... I can say that openly because my ex- cheated
on me too but hay we had some good years after it happen just wasnt meat to be!!!!!!
ALL I KNOW IS IT BURY'S THE RELATIONSHIP The TRUST IS GONE!!!!! BETWEEN THEM..
it may not makes since
just my view!! | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 5:08:29 PM | cheating is no different then a drug......if your a cheater either you stop or your quiting for the rest of your life at anytime able to have it happen again....cheat once and well i wouldnt tell it to people who are interested ...
cause if someone finds out you cheated on someone else...they be out of there mind to wanna hook up with you...
cheaters should take advice from hookers men or women that cheat should....
they hookers would say "at least we get paid" | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 8:41:43 PM | | I feel that women and men cheat out of fear and curiosity. First theres the curiosity as stated above of being with someone that you have not been with befor, the excitment of getting caught and seeing what your partner will do when they catch you. The other is fear, fear of being alone most people don't go out of their way for the first time. It usually happens after an extended absence of the partner where they will go out and a member of the opposite sex will comfort them and as stated befor communication leads to.., | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 8:50:16 PM | I've never cheated on anyone who didn't cheat on me first.
If I caught someone I was with cheating (Without a Doubt)
I would usually sleep with their best friend and then dump them.
Twice the pay back. Let them know the pain of being cheated on
and ruin their friendship with their best friend. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 8:52:33 PM | ppl cheat becouse they either are cheaters to begin with(and will always be)or they are weak and don't understand the concept of being respectfull to their partner. It is so easy to just walk away from things these days instead of understanding that there is a problem in the relationship they're in and working together with their partner to solve it.
If a person doesn't feel wanted or desired or equal for that matter by the person they are with they will try to find it in some one else. It's basic human instincts to want to feel needed and wanted and respected by the one your with. And most ppl who cheat i think put out lots of red flags before they cheat so i think one can only blame themselves for their partner straying. | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/4/2005 9:07:26 PM | Paulienne were you in school they day they taught you two wrongs dont make a right...
cheating huh...sleeping around is all it is and a way to justify doing so....
with the amount of std,s out there now a days i,m surprised talking about this doesnt scare people.....people in here first off claiming there partner slept around wich if they did suxs to be them.....
but then hearing paulienne here say she goes out and does the same to be spitefull or whatever...allows me to realise if one person thinks that way you know others do...
man sleeping around is gross in the first place...me i have a problem with germs ....finding myself with a girl who sleeps around just sitting around her i probaly gag even my guy friends who i know sleep around ...i cant even sit beside them until i know they showered even then ...sometimes no...
aids is scary and now a days like serial killas there seems to be random people in the last few years ...who knowingly have aids and go around sleeping with people and not telling them...and even maybe ones on this site......
have fun sleeping around ......maybe pof will send flowers to your grave  ...
hense cheating is all about sleeping around hense my opinion.....and paulienne hun not trying to attack you or bash ...i,m just a bit surprised a beautiful women like yourself doing such things.....your smart and beautiful have some respect for yourself...
sex is spouse to be special .....with the way you treat it and others we might as well get you guys in a group and we can do drive threw free pu$$y or****with every order....
we,ll call it cheat mart drive threw lmao...
guys good luck and dont die to soon ... | |
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moist
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:58:29 AM | People don't cheat due to lack of attention
People cheat due to lack of CHARACTER
Being a real MAN,or being a real WOMAN requires CHARACTER/ethics.
At 19 if you've been in 6 BAAD relationships,I honestly must say its past time to take some time OFF from dating.....too many "relationships" in too short of a period of time doesn't give proper time to heal and gain PERSPECTIVE. Learn who YOU are and EXACTLY what qualities you want. Figure out the similarities of the TYPE(s) you've not meshed with and seek a type more suitable for YOU. Once you begin to date ASK questions about EVERYTHING that comes to mind. NOT for the INQUISTION but out of inquisitivness about finding out WHO the person IS beyond the superficial. Take your time.....build your character and seek others who have DEMONSTRATED character. | |
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bobos
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Joined: 5/27/2005
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bobos
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Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 24 | |
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| Lets began with why women CHEAT lol this will never end on my part!!
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:15:36 PM | ummm i admit i dont have time to read all the post but who said only women cheat...sense you seem to like bashing on people bobo...even if you dont agree with someones opinion you say it in and adult way you dont have to bash....
shows your not better then the person who said such things...and that means your opinion means zip....
i mean your saying why should just women be sterio typed as cheaters....
i have posted my opinion on other threads my views on men and women and difference with the cheating side of life for either sex....
i admit i believe more women cheat then men...but i,ll let that go...either or you seem like your a no none sense type of person and your opinion is kewl just approach how you share it with others...show some respect if you wish to get any if not fine do as you wish | |
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