| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:50:50 PM | | Okay, I have an ex, and we just recently started talking again on somewhat friendly terms. He is now with another woman and at the "I love you" stage with her. He keeps telling me he loves me too, and keeps trying to have sex with me, why is he doing this when he's got another woman at home? I make it plain that I'm not interested anymore yet he keeps trying... | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:54:51 PM | | probably because things aren't going so great with her for whatever reason... or maybe he's just horny. are they having sex yet? guys are morons, it happens. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:56:29 PM | | he keeps saying things are great and the sex is amazing... so yeah they're having sex. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:56:47 PM | i think i would say that he is kind of torn between two people.
obviously with him being an ex, he probably still has feelings for you and the one he is with.
he probably doesnt want to let go of the times past for the simple fact that he wants to keep the memories, but honestly it should stop there. if he is with another woman, he really cant be telling another girl that he loves her too, i honestly dont think that works, and in the end will just cause more problems.
also, if he is telling an ex that he loves her and the one he is with finds this all out, then there will quite possibly be hell to pay. So, he needs to priortize his thoughts and channel what he really feels. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:01:34 PM | Because he's a douche. If you "make it plain" that you're not interested, and he keeps trying to dip his wick, that makes him a double douche.
If you don't have kids with this guy (you didn't mention any, so I'm assuming that you don't), why are you even talking to him?
Of course, it's entirely possible that you aren't telling the entire story here as well. Like maybe you're still stuck on him and hoping he'll leave her for you?
Oh, and your subject line sucks and is a generalization. It should read something like "Why is this guy doing this?" rather than lumping every penis-bearer together. Yeah, I know, guys do the lumping generalization thing, too. Doesn't make it any less annoying. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:07:12 PM | | no, I'm not still stuck on him... maybe guys should get over their damn ego trips. MEN ARE NOT god's gift to women. She why do they all think that? As far as I am concerned all men act the same, as long as they have a place to stick their****(real or fake) they're happy. Now go back to playing with your toys. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:07:59 PM |
Okay, I have an ex, and we just recently started talking again on somewhat friendly terms. He is now with another woman and at the "I love you" stage with her. He keeps telling me he loves me too, and keeps trying to have sex with me, why is he doing this when he's got another woman at home? I make it plain that I'm not interested anymore yet he keeps trying... Here's a better question: "Why do you think he is your friend if he is saying he loves you and trying to have sex with you?"
Friends don't say, "I love you," to each other when they use the term love to mean romantic/intimate.
Instead of making it plan and clear to him, you just cut him out of your life?
-Blue | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:10:51 PM | I think like a lot of people (men and women), he just wants what he cannot have.
It's up to you whether you want to put up with him constantly trying to get into your pants..... | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:11:51 PM | In my opinion it seems the reason he is doing this is because he is insecure and attempting to sabotage the new relationship due to an inability to handle emotional duress thereby pursuing something familiar in order to not have to face something new which create or enhance feelings of vulnerability, simply a scumbag (there is a reason he is an ex) and he may think it will work, a polygamist, or because he may be interpreting your responsive behavior as "leading him on." Take your pic or mix-n-match.
You say he "keeps trying to have sex with me..." That indicates you still let him around and give him the opportunity to try, repetitively. You can't dictate his behavior to what you want him to be (a friend only) you just have to either accept his behavior or make it known that you will not accept it by subsequent words AND behavior. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:28:08 PM | | It's hornballs like this one, OP, (and it seems like there's an inexhaustible supply of them)who screw things up for all the other decent guys out there. Maybe it just seems this way, but these crass, oversexed, nasty pigs always seem to worm their way into women's hearts first, and leave a wake of destruction for all us drama-weary guys to follow.Buck up, ladies, the only reason these guys get away with this unadulterated crap is because YOU tolerate it.[OK,rant over,powering down,Ifeelbetternownzzzzzz] | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:39:30 PM | | He is just a very giving person. Just trying to make as many people happy as he can | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:43:59 PM | promiscuous men aren't sluts, we're players, playboys, casanovas.......
: D | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:51:44 PM |
promiscuous men aren't sluts, we're players, playboys, casanovas.......
ummmm.........whatever you say...........................stud..... | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:05:04 PM | no, I'm not still stuck on him... maybe guys should get over their damn ego trips. MEN ARE NOT god's gift to women. She why do they all think that? As far as I am concerned all men act the same, as long as they have a place to stick their****(real or fake) they're happy. Now go back to playing with your toys.
If I were to take your outlook on guys and apply it to this butt ugly b*tch I had the displeasure of meeting then all women should get back to their holes and their sad lonely dildos.
Seeing as I don't and you are intent on insulting all of us I will just say this. YOU attract what you get, therefore if your friends with a guy who is perfectly happy with two homes for his nob then YOUR the frickin problem. Get off your high horse and tell him to piss off then find yourself a moral man and don't come here b*tching to and about us because YOU surround yourself with unfaithful arses. Have a nice day | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:09:20 PM | He's afraid.
He's afraid of committing to one woman, he's afraid of giving himself to one relationship, he's afraid of trying to live for someone other than himself, he's afraid of being alone, even for a moment.
He's going to live the rest of his life in fear. And honestly, you can't help him. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:17:58 PM |
ummmm.........whatever you say...........................stud.....
Hey! I know you... welcome back;)
OT: Don't know if he is afraid, I'd say a selfish slut who does not respect OP, nor his current GF.
Slut is slut is slut.....
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:51:22 PM | OP, you make me want to swear off dating forever. Tanks.
Because he's a douche. If you "make it plain" that you're not interested, and he keeps trying to dip his wick, that makes him a double douche.
lol
promiscuous men aren't sluts, we're players, playboys, casanovas.......
: D
Not. You're manwhores...mantarts...wishIwas... Get over yourselves.
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:57:41 PM | | This is one of those threads that really needs to be renamed "Why do SOME guys do this?" | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:01:18 PM |
no, I'm not still stuck on him... maybe guys should get over their damn ego trips. MEN ARE NOT god's gift to women. She why do they all think that? As far as I am concerned all men act the same, as long as they have a place to stick their****(real or fake) they're happy. Now go back to playing with your toys.
lol...that was cute. | |
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:29:03 PM | This is a self pity man bashing thread because your unhappy with sleeping with your ex.
Just an average guy you hit it!
MSG-6
Of course, it's entirely possible that you aren't telling the entire story here as well. Like maybe you're still stuck on him and hoping he'll leave her for you?
I think you struck a nerve with the OP with that comment. She lashed out in MSG-8
no, I'm not still stuck on him... maybe guys should get over their damn ego trips. MEN ARE NOT god's gift to women. She why do they all think that? As far as I am concerned all men act the same, as long as they have a place to stick their****( Hmmmm. A little pist off for no reason. You have the power to end it. Here is my take on it. Your sleeping with your ex because he is good in the sack. He wont leave this other woman and your bashing all men because of it. If he is your ex, Why is he still in your life? Something doesn’t add up here. Try being honest with yourself, then be honest with us in the forums. If you just need to vent, try a Priest. | |
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