| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 4:21:48 PM | | I dont know about other men but hey it now takes all night to do what I used to do all night. But now I get it right the first time. I enjoy taking things slower hey its worth the wait. Women how do you feel about this? I would think that women would enjoy slowing things down too. So lets hear from all of you. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 4:34:02 PM | I can only speak from one experience with a man over 50 many years ago.... and it was wonderful. While guys my age (at the time early 20s) were all for going gangbusters and doing it hard and fast over and over (which is not always a bad thing  ) I thoroughly enjoyed the time he took to make it a wonderfully erotic experience.
Slow and steady wins the race............ 
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 4:41:01 PM | | Smile well I can tell you what I was told. If the word ever gets out about older guys the youner women will throw rocks at guys their own age. Now I am not a stud or anything it just takes a little longer to get things going and women seem to enjoy that. I like it too wish I had learned this at a younger age. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 4:59:04 PM | | You are such a tease! I thought your d!ck was that big or you were doing it in a fast car. Isnt there a forum for sex with you old guys? | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:05:16 PM |  Hey have to give you young ladies something to dream about. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:06:09 PM | | Bird, Sometimes I feel as though growing older is 'for the birds' regarding sex, but then when I am w/ the right company, I must admit that it's never been better ...and I thank God for what he allows me to do. It's all about attitude and accepting for self that some things don't 'rise and shine' as quickly as they used to do when younger, but then when sharing w/ a woman whose expectations are also not in a hurry to 'get er done', sex becomes much more the making love as I've always hoped and wanted it to be. The 'rise and shine' might take a little longer, but when it does in patient and understanding company. Life and sex is good ...so very, very good. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:09:44 PM | | I can honestly say that thus far the best sex I ever had was with a 52 year old man and I was 27 at the time. Makes me smile just thinking about it....and what an all nighter it was. It had to be the most sensual experience I have ever had and the most respecting....he genuinely cared about what I liked and making me happy first and for most....I think he told me he counted 37 orgasms that night on my part but if you ask me I would say he missed a few. Too bad I later found out he was married to a federal marshall...lol. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:14:21 PM | Its not about age its about frequency...duh! If you were getting it every night before bed you would be wham bam thank you mam but since you are wishing you have it you want it to last all night. Nature of the beast. All of us here are sex starved  | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:14:30 PM | | It's too bad that there is such a stigma put on sexual activity in your 'mature' years! I think that if you take care of yourself and realize that things often change for the better - more people can relax and enjoy this new stage in life! I think it's a great thought that the good things will take longer - more time to enjoy!! | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:25:22 PM | I have been alone now for over a year and have yearned for good company and good physical contact. Is it being `Sex starved` or is it just being starved of physical contact and intimacy?. I know that I have changed from `Orgasms` to `Pleasure` in my intimate encounters. The fact that this leads to better, more often and explosive orgasms is a secret I wish I had known twenty or so years ago.
Of coure, in order for this to happen, one must find a partner who has equal ides about a sexual relationship.
Do a search and find out just how many women have a blocker of `Must not be looking for a sexual encounter`.
No, you women are not all sex starved at all, I just wish I could find one that was !!!.
Enjoy. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 10:00:25 PM | I never really talk about it with my friends from the old neighborhood - all they want to talk about is there grand children or in one case, their great grandchildren.
Women at 50 are just way better than they were at 17. They know many more tricks and techniques and just make me all tingly in me dangly bits. And what the hell - I'll try anything and will snowball with you. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/14/2008 10:14:25 PM |
No, you women are not all sex starved at all, I just wish I could find one that was !!!.
Finding one that is interested in an intimate encounter isn't that difficult (or so my male friends tell me). But not very many will be on dating sites. They mostly go to sites that specialize in that sort of hook up.
As far as sex over 50, I didn't get much of a chance to find out about it. I was widowed at 51, and I don't see a lot of reason to try it just for the sake of research. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:20:38 AM | | I wish I could go back to twenty but keep my sex life like it is now ...I dont do it as much but the quality is out of the park ...to stay with the baseball analogy.....i dont swing at as many pitches but i connect almost every time i swing .... yea its better now and im better at it ... I have references ...never met a young lady that found herself in bed with a older guy that didnt relish the experience...and I have discussed this with many women ..some who i have been intimate with and some who I have not | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:57:12 AM | i knew i had my age posted wrong for some reason! lol (to get the older men) i personally have only been with someone 15 yrs older than me but heck now y'all have me very very curious!!!!  | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:59:57 AM | Now I know where all you 50 ish good men lovers are! With the young gals. Hey, we need good lovin too! ya know. (sad now, real sad). (wiping tears from my eyes, blowing my nose)
outdoorgirl | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 9:15:15 AM |
Isnt there a forum for sex with you old guys?
hey hey hey....im middle aged damit!
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 11:43:07 AM | In praise of mature lovers
A man who is over fifty
- doesn't fire in thirty seconds
- knows how to cuddle
- knows where the g-spot is and what it is for
- can be gentle when called for
- includes talk in before, during and after
- is comfortable with himself
- doesn't expect perfection when the clothes come off
A woman over fifty
- knows what lubicrant is for
- doesn't have to be taught how do things
- isn't judgmental if the wine overpowers the desire
- knows what gives her an orgasm and will tell you
- isn't freaky over her makeup/hanging up her clothes/her hair do
- doesn't expect perfection when the clothes come off
In both cases, it's not the years the the experience and maturity that adds to the moment
because they know what is only incidental.
Ketch | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:02:04 PM | You know its funny. Ask a woman my age out and they run like hell, wont answer a email or even a response to a pof add they placed. But the younger women will answer, they will go on the dates, and the do get to enjoy love making that is a little slower.
Maybe its time some of the more mature women get off their ass and stop whinning and accept the invites, go on a few dates and pull their heads out of the sand, remember that while your head is stuck in the sand your ass is in the air!!!!
I bet I am going to get busted for thisd but its true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:16:06 PM | I don't know about viagra d1ck.. I'm only 43..
but, I've fcked lot's of fifty plus women.
I hope I'm as good a decade older as the women..
 moo | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/15/2008 9:43:37 PM | "If the word ever gets out about older guys the youner women will throw rocks at guys their own age."
That is a fact. I would go so far as to say that if you blindfolded a horny 21 yr old girl and put her in bed with me, I would probably make her lose control and cum so hard that she would be in danger of crapping the bed. And I doubt that I am anything special, just typical of experienced guys my age. By the time we get to this point in the journey, we have learned some really wicked tricks. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:49:23 AM | That was great for my morning laugh
I thought it was you old fellas that are crapping the bed and us young ladies that are supposed to wipe your butts.
Sorry my diaper changing days are over | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:02:46 AM | "Sorry my diaper changing days are over"
No need to be jealous. I will help you out too. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:47:30 AM | | Well ladies & gentlemen, I am 61 yrs old now & my sexual drive is stronger now than when I was 21 (or younger). I am married & have been for 38 years to my first & only wife. Although her stamina has diminished, mine has increased. She is happy with once a week, which is usually Saturday mornings (tomorrow! wooo! hooo!). My only problem is not getting fondled enough or touched enough. I want to be felt on a daily basis. She thinks that's too much & that she is too tired. Well, sometimes a guy just does what a guy must do. If he can't get the satisfaction at home he begins looking elsewhere & thus he becomes a cheat. To answer the questing rolling around in your minds ladies, yes I have cheated. So I am just being honest here. I do look around & if the opportunity presents itself, then I oblige. Having said all that, I am just a horny old man. I am however respectful of a ladies decision not to engage in sexual activity if she doesn't want to. So there you have my opinior. | |
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| Sex over 50
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:59:37 AM | Speaking from my own personal experiences only....I found that age has very little to do with whether someone is a good
lover (or not). One guy that comes to my mind was only 18 (to my 21) when we met....and erm...yeah. Another was 25....and
yet another was...well....you get my drift;)
I'm not saying that older or younger men are this or that, I'm just saying that for me at least, age has never been an indicator
of what laid ahead.
For example, I'm now considered an "older woman"...am I suddenly supposed to be better now than when I was 21 or 30, or better than the girl next door who's only 23?? That just sounds absurd to me. What is this...a competition? Do we get our score cards out after we're done and show our lovers exactly where they stand?
In my opinion, the best lovers are the ones with whom you feel a connection with. It's not about performance, or size, or how fast and how long, or how many sex manuals they've memorized, or how many partners they've been with. For me to try to describe what makes a good lover (to me) is like trying to describe the sound of a loon's lonesome cry to someone who can't hear....it's impossible. 
JMO | |
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