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 Raever

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:16:35 AM
Hey girls, Ive always suspected that I being the tall guy that I am come off as intimidating to a lot of women. In fact I'm often the brunt of my friends jokes who say I make them look like little children. However I would like some opinions on this, do you girls get at all intimidated by guys my size? I'm not saying that I act like a prick or anything in fact I'm genuinely good natured...anyhow back to the question.
 laughinglibra

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:20:14 AM
I don't think the right word is intimidated..... again, it's all about preferences.

Personally, I love your height.... but then I'm tall as well. A woman who is 5'5" as an example may prefer to be with someone shorter than you.

 simplelady66

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:43:55 AM
Nope, height doesn't intimidate me. I grew up with two brothers who were 6' or over. My father's best friend is taller than that...he scared me when I was a kid, but doesn't bother me now.

Besides if you are taller....being as short as I am, it gives me a better shot at key "points" when you are being a jerk
Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:48:51 AM
Again, someone else thinks "not interested" means "intimidated"...

No, as you could see in a gazillion threads if ya looked, there are women out there who are DYING to get together with a tall man. Women who are six feet tall in heels are getting a little bit tired of being taller than their dates.

I'm 5'2" and some change, and I've dated guys from 5'6" to 6'5". It doesn't make me any difference.
 ~Kyn~

Joined: 2/15/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:51:27 AM

Ive always suspected that I being the tall guy

I WAS gonna say that I dont think a guy is tall till he hits around 6' 6"....and then I checked your profile...

ooo...you ARE a big one arent ya OP?

do you girls get at all intimidated by guys my size?

Nup...Id be figuring you could throw me over your shoulder.

Havent met a tall guy yet who's anything but good natured. Gentle Giants is the phrase.
 cktoronto

Joined: 5/8/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 7:45:12 AM
My heigh (6'2) has never been a liability with any woman.

My girlfriend is 5'0.
 Taken05112006

Joined: 5/7/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2008 7:54:13 AM
Nope...love the tall ones...I'm a height discriminator...lol...it's my preference and I'm not sorry about it!
 DJChickie401

Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:56:51 AM
I've never seen women get intimidated by tall men - shorter men seem to (even half joking), but if anything, women seem to gravitate toward them.

Perhaps if the man is tall AND handsome, she may be at a loss for words and think he'd never be interested in her...but outside of that, I don't see a problem.
 CassaGo

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 10:44:31 AM
Hang out with volleyball players, tall is refreshing. I've been around tall men my whole life (rugby and volleyball players), so it's not intimidating.

It's uncomfy to be around the very tall, though--I (at 5'10") always have to crook my neck to look up. Stand back further so I dnt' have to do that.
 Raever

Joined: 3/26/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2008 1:57:14 PM
Again, someone else thinks "not interested" means "intimidated"...

"Not interested" is completely different from "intimidated" which is why if you read the heading I didn't say, "why aren't girls interested in tall guys" I did do a forum search and no one addressed this question so yeah...
Other then that, I appreciate the feedback thanks girls. On a side note it never ceases to amuse when I round a corner and someone jumps back and squeals
 galonthemt

Joined: 10/31/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:02:00 PM
I find tall guy's secure. Some shorter men(I mean much shorter than you lol) often have that Napoleon complex because very often they are insecure about height. They overcompensate by acting tough (equates to jerk)



Disclaimer...I said some.....................................
 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:18:07 PM

I find tall guy's secure. Some shorter men(I mean much shorter than you lol) often have that Napoleon complex because very often they are insecure about height. They overcompensate by acting tough (equates to jerk)



Disclaimer...I said some.....................................


^^^^^^^^^ Hey galonthemt....watch out the short guy nazis will be here soon...they usually are with this height related threads.

Hey OP....you will be fine.....I think a lot of ladies will not find it a problem.....I guess it just depends on how they find your personality....if they are attracted to that....lights are green.

good luck OP
 Blueskies123

Joined: 11/3/2006
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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:31:31 PM
No..not intimidating at all.....but I find your elbows get in the way of my head...I've crashed into a a few elbows in my time!
 Molesworth

Joined: 10/13/2007
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Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 2:35:06 PM
If a guy who was 6'3 started this thread, I'd probably just say something b-tchy, but you're 6'9! Depending on your moods, you could, at least, become intimidating very quickly.

If I met a guy of your height, I wouldn't be "intimidated," but I would probably be a bit awed by it. Maybe that's what you're picking up on? The tallest guy I ever met was about 6'7, and I spent most of that night trying to make him stand next to me or hug me, because at about 5'10 I get very few opportunities to feel delicate or lay my head on a guy's chest. So, I don't know...either I'm way too friendly or that guy knew how to work his height in his favour.
 misssexyprincess

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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:41:31 PM
well, it would help if you posted your size......
But for me, the taller the better, I find a lot of big guys are absolute sweethearts. Never have i been intimidated.
 arwen52

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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:44:50 PM
Not at all. Most of the tall guys I've known have been great guys. I *will* say that on a physical level I seem to have a preference for guys closer to my own height. Makes dancing , hugging, and kissing easier! However, I wouldn't discriminate based on height in one direction or another. It's the guy, not his height, that gets my attention.
 misssexyprincess

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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:46:51 PM
WOW 6'9 , I could actually wear heels.... very nice
 thebugisback

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:56:14 PM
Nope, tall guys don't intimidate me. Bullies can intimidate me. Bullies can come in all shapes and sizes.

 ~charmed~

Joined: 4/9/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:04:14 PM
Noooo.... They are sexy though!
 LaurMarie

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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:06:14 PM
I can see at your height (that's exceptionally tall) why it could seem that way, but truth is it's more a factor of the height making you seem unattractive to them. You're easily a foot taller than me, and I'm a fairly tall girl, and though it's a must for my guy to be taller than I after a certain point it just feels awkward.

Lucky for you, there're loads of girls around 6 feet-ish who'd love the opportunity to wear heels and not look like a giant, lol.
 Miss W

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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:10:00 PM
Nope. I've dated a couple of guys who were 6'6.
 ~charmed~

Joined: 4/9/2008
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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:10:53 PM
You know I am shaking my head at that Giant comment...

~Charmed~
 cranberryhaze

Joined: 4/13/2008
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Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:17:08 PM
The only time I may get a bit intimidated would be if they were really angry. @_@ lol That could be quite the sight I imagine.
 jurupa

Joined: 2/12/2008
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Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:22:44 PM
Raever - I am shorter than you (I am 6'6"), but as much as the women here say they want a tall guy and have dated us taller guys, there are also a lot of women I have run into in real life that have been intimidated by a guy of my height.
 flowerforce

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Do tall guys intimidate?
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:23:25 PM
In a word-NO. and I am 5'1"
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