| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:37:33 PM | | ok heres the deal, what is so wrong with me that I can't find someone? it seems like everytime I feel like somthing is going some were I end up getting shotdown by the girl with the excuse of "me and my x want to try to work out our problems, sorry" or the old line lets just be friends. I don't understand.. what am I doing wrong? | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:53:11 PM | | Dude this is like going to a car lot with cars you cant afford lol. With so many cars in the lot and finacing available for all the women they dont have to just pick anycar they get to pick the sweetest looking car. It doesnt matter if it skips a few gears or if it has high mileage as long as its cute and they think its nice. They get to drive it off the lot and run it till they see all the problems it has, just to return it to the lot and get another. Eventually when they get tired of all the sweet looking cars that wont run they will settle for the old reliable car that does. But keep in mind even if you are that old reliable car they still wanna test drive that sweet looking car. All you can hope for on this site is you luck into that one sencable shopper who is done with the little sweet cars and wants a dependable sturdy ride. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:19:22 PM | | i have wondered the same thing. the rejections are getting old and depressing. good luck to you. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 5:49:50 PM | | Im having the same problems man. Talk for awhile then all sudden stop. Not even a courtesy of goodbye, but at the end of the day its over. You have to take a positive outlook. If they reject you then oh well, tommorow is another day. Its up to you to not think of it much because dwelling on it will only hurt you more. Akuna matata or hwoever u spell it my friend lol. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:00:30 PM | Take heart
It happens to us all, Its both sides.
As the other poster said its like a newer better car.
Dont dwell on it, They werent for you anyway if they do that.
These sites have all types here both genders, talk about fickle.
Take it as a grain of salt.
I agree the no answer is vey rude.
Take one day at a time, What will be, will be. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:00:40 PM | | sounds like you just have not met the *right* woman yet. you're still young, hang in there. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:11:23 PM | | Dito for me dude. When you find a good one do what it takes to keep her | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:33:10 PM | | Maybe its your hairstyle and the fact you don;t smile in any of your pictures. you look like one scary dude! | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:46:59 PM | First...I should say that I don't think anything is "wrong" with you but after reading your profile it does seem that you are carrying some sort of baggage from prior hurtful relationships that may be affecting the way you react to a new interest, you even say : "Personaly I've been in to many relationships were I ended up being the one getting hurt, and i'm real tired of ending up with that emotional pain it tends to take a toll on ones personality" I understand you don't wanna meet people who are gonna lie to you and string you along but saying this like you do screams insecurity and neediness and it also makes me wonder what you have done that makes "many" girls break it off with you. Are you clingy and overwhelming way too soon?
Just remember ........ people need to breathe and confidence is extremely attractive and if you can manage to make the next girl wonder for a bit if you like her (or not) it may make a difference, Everyone likes a challenge so be one......Good Luck! | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:15:36 PM | Maybe its your hairstyle and the fact you don;t smile in any of your pictures. you look like one scary dude!
My first thoughts EXACTLY! The OP's main pic screams "mass murderer". He really doesn't look like the friendliest guy.
But other than that, how are *WE* supposed to know 'what's wrong with you'?
I certainly don't know you, and you've given no indication of what types of messages you've been sending, or the contacts you've been making. For all we know, you may suffer from "gutter mouth", or expect women to fall into bed with you on the first date.
"What is wrong with you...?"
Short answer:
Hellifiknow!
On edit:
After re-reading the OP's profile, I see references to guns, swords, and knives... These coupled with your pix will send up red flags with nearly any woman.
Your "military rule" may work in the real world, but online it's the kiss of death.
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:20:45 PM | Try recording a platinum CD..That will get your mind of off women,......
as you get further into the project.......things will differ. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:31:52 PM | The OP's main pic screams "mass murderer". He really don't look like the friendliest guy.But other than that, how are *WE* supposed to know 'what's wrong with you'?
I certainly don't know you, and you've given no indication of what types of messages you've been sending, or the contacts you've been making. For all we know, you may suffer from "gutter mouth", or expect women to fall into bed with you on the first date.
"What is wrong with you...?"
Short answer:
Hellifiknow!
Two questions,sir....not to OP but to the member who gave that brilliant helpful answer
what IS your name....Slaughter...right?
Guttermouth? ...yes ..definitely....... you are quite right,sir.....
however it's NOT coming from the OP...
three guesses..
hang in there.. OP :) | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:59:16 AM | | Read you profile -- you've compartmentized a relationship into the second priority before it even began. Before reading your profile I instinctively knew you're not giving any of yourself in the relationship. Sorry, but women can feel this and really don't want to invest themselves into being second fiddle. Get a little relationship counselling for yourself. Then try your hand at meeting someone hand in hand in a relationship. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:44:05 PM | | Fixer upper, I like the way you think I never thought of it like that. maybe i shoukld try that and see how that works | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:02:53 PM | oll:  -
wow very well said fixer upper , but remember it goes two ways .... sometimes and quite often i might add..... its men who wanna test drive all the racey little sports models...... | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/25/2008 5:08:13 PM | I feel the same way. I am cute, funny, and very loving and sensitve. Why all the rejections, and even worse, looking at the profile and then deleting the e-mail. Oh well, love will come to the patient. Just be ready for it, 'cause it will flow right past you in no time. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/25/2008 7:02:54 PM | When I go to test all the racey little sports models, the doors are all locked and I can't find the key. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/25/2008 7:19:15 PM | | well maybe you should try to smile. you look mad in your pictures. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/25/2008 8:10:59 PM | | You could be trying to hard or putting out the "Im desperate" vibe. Just go with the flow, somethings bound to give. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:03:47 PM | | You should be asking your friends this and not strangers on a forum. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/26/2008 7:23:01 AM |
You should be asking your friends this and not strangers on a forum.
This has been your answer on the last three threads I've read. I just have one question: What do you think these forums are actually for? And if you don't have any real answers for anyone, why even read them? | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/26/2008 9:52:35 AM | | You're a nice guy. You dont take enough intiative. Women today are just as much confused and selfish as men. women want everything. Guys just want a beer, sex and sleep. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/26/2008 10:23:04 AM | Smile babe!
You look like you are mad about something?!?!?
You're young..You have time but start by changing your pics!
Good luck:) | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:06:47 AM |
women want everything. Guys just want a beer, sex and sleep.
Okay, I'm pretty sure it's not 1952, I could be wrong though. Did I invent a flux capasator in my sleep and travel back in time without knowing? Comments like that are exactly why the poor OP doesn't have a gf, stupid people that over simplify situations.
Maybe there's nothing wrong with you, maybe shit just happens and when the universe wants you to have someone, they will be put on your path. However, pouting about it, is really unattractive and doesn't change reality. Look for solutions, not problems and accept the situation for what it is. | |
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| What is wrong with me
Posted: 5/26/2008 11:16:36 AM | Nothing hun
Relationships are just convoluted messes.
Even when you are in one, you have to contend with communication discripancies.
Learn to be independant and find happiness and fufillment outside of relationships.
hugs to you
dree | |
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