| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:01:10 AM | | Recently I asked a lady from Tuscaloosa, Alabama to marry me. She has one child and I was told that she wanted to make her ex pay more and therefor was not ready for marriage. I saaid alright and moved on to another relationship. She then came back and said that she was now ready to get married. I would like to get your opinion on this issue. | |
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:03:46 AM | | Run forest , RUN !!!! Stay away from her, tell her you met a rich gal and happy, that'll irk her. Tell her you'll call the police and file stalker charges if she continues to contact you, to get on her broomstick and fly away, | |
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:20:40 AM | I understand the woman's feelings, but why would her not wanting to get married at that time cause you to move on? Are you not able to be in a committed relationship without benefit of a piece of paper? If you loved her enough to propose to her, why wouldn't you love her enough to wait until she was ready to marry? Or do you hold so little regard for true love?
I don't know yet if I'll ever be able to marry again, but I know I am capable of devoting the rest of my life to the man I love. I took my marriage vows seriously and lived in hell for 24 years. I found out the hard way that a piece of paper and the attendant legalities mean nothing and "that ring don't plug no holes". | |
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:30:30 AM | I would say run for the hills. This is the kind of woman that looks for guys to take care of her. And BTW...it's not just women in Alabama that do this. Anyway, if you were to marry her it would be more to her benefit than yours. When your money is gone or she finds something about you she doesn't like she will just move on to the next guy. And blame you for the break down of the marriage and hurt you as much as she can in the process.
Don't even date her again....get her out of your life ASAP | |
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:56:09 AM | I see your point but I am a bit old fashioned. I would help out finacially and don't see what the issue was. It is the flip flop that I didn't like.
Being old fashioned is fine. Most likely that is what she likes about you. However, you have to look past the money. She didn't want you until she was done hurting the other guy.
She sounds very vindictive to me. Do you really want that in your life? Someone that will hurt you just because they didn't get all they wanted from you? That is what she did to the last guy. Now she has her sights on you.
Look in the mirror and repeat after me: I CAN DO BETTER. Do this 30 times and move on to a woman that truely deserves you.
Also, the first two women that have posted here have suggested you move on and it sounds like she is up to no good.
One thing I have learned.......the women that I know...the women that know me, are pretty accurate when they tell me a certain woman is no good for me. You have two women here telling you to move on. Listen to them. | |
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 10:03:25 AM |
$900.00 a month?
She snoozed, she loozed.
$90,000 a month...and I'm more likely to think she might have had our best interests in mind, lol.
Seriously though OP - no sense flogging a sleeping horse, best to let a dead dog lie and all that not crying over spilled milk stuff.
Stay moved on.
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 5/16/2008 11:47:58 AM | Timelines might be a relevant thing to communicate. Seems if you loved her enough to ask her to marry you, what changed about that? Has it been many months? Have you fallen for another? I mean, unless you have low standards, my experience is there are precious few people that I've that I can envision a lifetime future with to the point of discussing marriage (do say that you did discuss it first).
Either you love her or you don't. You can ask her why the support stipend was an issue to her...maybe she didn't think it appropriate to burden you with that cost since most courts end it the moment a live-in relationship begins.
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| Divorced women and relationship issues in Alabama
Posted: 6/17/2008 5:55:01 PM | | Neither of you sound ready for a relationship........ Why are you in such a hurry? You drop one moved immediately into another relationship??? I suggest you get to know these women better before you propose...... | |
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