| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 2:10:49 PM | Yeah so we all may have messed around in highschool a little, ok well I did but then again I went to an all girls boarding school. But common already cant we just be straight or gay, and will you straight guys PLEASE stop getting your eyesbrows waxed, its getting really confusing. But I went on a few dates resently and they all tuned out to be bi-sexual, and I just really cant wrap my mind around that. Does that give you a cheat pass free, well sorry honey but your a girl and he's a boy so really its not cheating?
Can we all please just be gay or straight? | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 2:16:29 PM |
will you straight guys PLEASE stop getting your eyesbrows waxed, its getting really confusing
going to have to disagree with this Hun, I'm sorry, but i don't find ferret brows attractive, a little wax doesn't hurt.
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 2:22:29 PM | | Bisexuality is just being attracted to whom you are attracted to regardless of gender. I know monogomous bisexuals. It can easily be done if that's what they want. I don't even pretend to be monogomous and I'm mostly straight. I just don't have a desire to be with only one person. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 2:42:01 PM | Actually almost everybody *IS* bisexual....sorry.
Statistically there is a bell-curve distribution that occurs over any population for genetic features (such as intelligence for instance). So for IQ, on the left side of the bell, 10% of the entire population is "developmentally disabled" with an IQ under 65, 80% in the middle have "average" IQs of about 66 to 134, and the right side, the other 10% have "genius" IQs of about 135 and up. 100 is considered the "norm"
Guess how sexuality fits the curve..... 10% homosexual, 80% BISEXUAL, 10% heterosexual. Bisexualtiy is considered the "norm" according to this science.
In the U.S. we are pretty conditioned to NOT be bisexual, this comes straight off of the Mayflower, and unbelievably it has trickled all the way down to 2008 from our ancestors' blanket application of strict Puritan beliefs.
Most people who discover this (bell-curve statistics) are extremely uncomfortable with it; which is unfortunate.
PS----> You can be Bisexual and still be moral, and/or monogamous should you so choose. Most men however, tend to become thrilled, and fell incredibly lucky upon finding out that their honeys are "bi." If you have an awesome relationship with your partner, it opens the door for you both to push the limits sexually, together. Hint....guys love to watch...
You shouldn't be vilified strictly because of your sexuality, any more than you should be because of your hair or eye color.
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 3:04:00 PM | You can spoil me anytime, smart women are 'teh sexy'
But really, I think the elusive heterosexual exists, really I do, no, really :P
Personally, I think sexuality is about sex, and loving long term pairings are about love. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 3:12:34 PM | I don't understand what a guy would see in sucking off another guy...or even more.
Sorry, the "brown zone" is for unloading only....there is no loading in the brown zone. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 3:28:49 PM |
Can we all please just be gay or straight?
Are you seriously asking this question, as if people can change who they are attracted to? What exactly is your problem with bisexual people? Just because a person is attracted to members of both genders does not mean they are any more likely to cheat than gay or straight people. Your post makes absolutely no sense to me. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 5:10:41 PM | I'm sorry but did you seriously just ask that question?
That's who people are! If people are bisexual, leave them alone.
It has NOTHING to do with you. You're so shallow. People like you
make me hate this world. Close minded freaks.
If you can't accept people for who they are,
then you deserve a piece of shit.  | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 5:14:00 PM | it does seem to be a fact that in prisons people turn to other prisoners of the same sex for romance etc. this either means that more people are bi then we care to admit or that prisons are really bad places that affect people so deeply that their inhibitions etc are swept away as they struggle to remain human.  maybe it's a human thing, the need for affection and contact outweighs social norms when faced with isolation. But either way I cant see the problem with someone liking both sexes, my only bug would be if someone thought that it isnt cheating to date 1 of each sex at the same time. but I aint gonna shave my eyebrows, I'm too attached to my hair. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 5:23:35 PM | | are you going to share them with me too kthyg? The first thing I did when i read the OP was check her profile to see where all these Bi guys are. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:11:47 PM | | ^^ lol - me too :) I don't think the "minority" of women who like men are that small actually. Just most of them don't admit it. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:37:20 PM | | I don't think people are sexual according to gender, except if they have been trained to socialize and view sex that way. Part of sex is the physical sensation, which aside from a few very specific acts is independent of gender. Part is an innate attraction to whatever gender you like, or both in the case of bisexuals. Most of sexual preference is in your mind and is what would prevent you from enjoying sex with someone of a gender different than the one you allowed. In this sense it is an inhibition against sexual enjoyment that could be had otherwise. If there are more people openly bisexual it reflects an easier time being yourself, and not any increase in the underlying preference. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:31:35 PM |
what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Well... that would at least double a guy's chances of getting laid... quadruple it among the guys at POF...
The closest I've ever come to being bi was when me and my bi Xgf went to a gay bar because she wanted to pick us up a bi girl. (yes, she was nuts) and there was a beautiful little hispanic woman named Jessica in there... I was just about to go talk to her and this gay fella sitting next to me said "you know that's a guy.... right?"
I learned that night you never hit on anybody in a gay bar that's wearing a dress when they're having a "revue".... That's the only time none of the women are wearing dresses... | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:00:20 PM | I place the blame on global warming... or is it global cooling?... I so need to keep up with the trendy people.
the giggleparts - The cycles of my sacred area defy Newtonian physics. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:15:25 PM | ""Guess how sexuality fits the curve..... 10% homosexual, 80% BISEXUAL, 10% heterosexual. Bisexualtiy is considered the "norm" according to this science. ""
""LemmeSpoilYou"" WHERE did you get those numbers? WHAT "science" are you referring to? I think that's complete BUNK. I've read some poll results and actual science pegs the homosexual percentage at around 4%. Of course there are higher numbers in some urban areas but I'm talking overall population. 4% is considered likely. AND Bisexuality is NOT 80%. Give your head a shake.
Another one:
""Most men however, tend to become thrilled, and fell incredibly lucky upon finding out that their honeys are "bi."""
Huh? I think you're badly mistaken there too. A few young guys may be turned on by the typical porn flick of two gorgeous chicks going at it and imagining their g/f as being one of them BUT for US ... the NORMAL guys out here - you're going to make a blanket statement like that BASED on WHAT?
It would be like me posting a statement that "" MOST women however would be thrilled and think themselves "lucky" to find out their husband was BISEXUAL." Oh REALLY? So I'm to understand that you'd be thrilled if you came home and found some OTHER guy's di¢k down your husbands throat? It happens I know but I Betcha there's a bunch of divorcees in here who'd give you a damn good argument against that theory of being turned on by it. I think MOST guys would feel the same way. Unless you're in a declared and accepted "open" relationship finding your woman munching some strange rug would be about the same as finding her in the sack with the pool boy .... grounds for TWO graves in the backyard!!!
I just read your profile so I understand a little better where you're coming from but your blanket statement is ONLY wishful thinking, believe me. Besides if your fantasy was so efffing popular and such a common fantasy for ALL guys as you suggest why do you have 2 favorites instead of 400? You're not bad looking so just MAYBE it's something you wrote, yes? | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:48:45 PM | I can't speak for everyone... but personally I am attracted to both men and women. I don't, however, agree that when dating a man having sex with a woman isn't cheating. If I am with someone I sleep with them and only them... regardless.
So in answer to this original question... No... I don't believe we can all be straight or gay....lol
I normally only date men but I am attracted to a "person" not their "sex". | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:55:42 PM | "I can't speak for everyone... but personally I am attracted to both men and women."
And I am attracted to you. What the hell could it all mean anyway? | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 11:27:42 PM | Giggles ... dude I hope you have all the fun you need with your acorn .....lol
On to the real subject at hand. Bi-sexuality has been around a lot longer than most seem to see. It is now getting more exposure.. I am sure there is no more curious about than before and I am sure there are no more that are truely bi-sexual either...it just has more exposure.... everyone is not bi-sexual.. there just seems to be more people since it has been much more accepted and claiming it is not as offensive anymore. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/16/2008 11:56:43 PM | @azgurk72 - Yeah, I mean it was an acorn... sexually a little awkward... But, when you love someone, you make it work. Plus, we got a lot of stares in public... you know... on account of the mixed couple thing. It's parents were kind of jerks about it.
Bisexuality is what it is... It's sort of like when guys staunchly claim they can't tell if another guy is good-looking... yeah... sure.
Sexual attraction is based on a lot of weird arcane mysteries...much like the contents of your average hot dog. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:46:33 AM | | I like when guys take care of themselves and groom their brows... but I was getting mine threaded the other day and a dude was before me!!! WTF? That's just wrong. | |
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