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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:14:47 PM
Weird question I know, but do you find it can be scary to be very good looking at times? Like its can be overwhelming kind of thing? I guess what I'm trying to say what negative things do people go through being good looking? Any thoughts?
 vro312

Joined: 11/22/2007
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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:24:01 PM
Hmmm . . . let's see. Just so I can get some perspective on this topic: Are you including yourself in this potentially frightened group?
 crazygirl89

Joined: 8/6/2006
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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:34:12 PM
lol! yes i believe im in that group! ha, no i think not... what on earth is scary about being good looking?!?!?
 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 12:36:55 PM
You don't know how much I suffer.
Going through life, knowing so many women are intimidated by my good looks.
If only they could know the real me.
The wonderful person beneath this attractive, sexually charged exterior.
It's so hard for me, holding back all the time. I know what women want but I don't give it up that easy.
I want to be respected for the real person I am, not the pretty boy everybody wants me to be !
 WINDSORONT2

Joined: 3/22/2008
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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 1:23:50 PM
I have heard many assumptions made on good looking people...

-they are promiscuous..they date a lot...they have lots of boyfriends/girlfriends....they lack intelligence...they lack personality...they are stuck up--they are bi*ches...players...sl*uts--unapproachable--unfriendly--vain--users...attention lovers...

Don't judge a book by it's cover.
 1samrap

Joined: 1/10/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 1:30:12 PM
nipolen: I totally understand.

It is quite the burden to be attractive and sexy...you never really know if they just want you for your body and sexual abilities or if they want to find out the real depth of the people we are.
 Arcturo

Joined: 10/18/2007
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Posted: 5/17/2008 3:38:29 PM
u mean like maybe sexy women live in fear of being raped ?
 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 5/17/2008 3:51:52 PM
Absolutely. Eveytime I go anywhere I have to fear men coming up to me who I'm not interested in and finding ways to turn them down without hurting their manly pride.
 prurire

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Posted: 5/17/2008 3:58:28 PM
Nope, I've never found it scary or overwhelming. More fun and enjoyable.

Negative things? Whatever they allow themselves to go through.

I'm wondering just what you are trying to ask.
 AlexisTaylor

Joined: 7/9/2007
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:36:56 PM
Is that why that crowd with pitchforks and torches has been following me? Damn!
 giggleparts

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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:38:57 PM
LOL

the giggleparts - this is the only time you will see me use lol in a semi-serious manner.
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:58:56 PM
It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it. Luckily my big brutish bodyguards take care of most of the out-of-control fans. That is, except for the ones that I pick out for my personal pleasure.
 Leeanne

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Posted: 5/17/2008 5:03:05 PM
I just carry a big stick to beat them off!! It's quite a burden to be so hot!! It's sad when ya have to disappoint and turn them down!
 Guy Named Ray

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 5:48:14 PM
It was scary my whole life.
Women have been trying to get into my pants since I was in diapers.
Now that I am old and not so attractive,
I finally get a days rest now and then.
 hopeful_73

Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 6:05:14 PM
If someone is vain enough to THINK theyre that good looking, theyre not going to post an answer on a forum like this because they already have their head in the cloud.

There are many people out there, though, who ARE incredibly attractive and are clueless about how intimidating they are to the opposite sex. (And, no, Im not including myself in this group of people.) Ive met a few women in my life who were just absolute knockouts, yet they had no idea or refused to believe it. All they kept wondering was why they were still single, thinking it had something to do with their looks in a negative way.

Yes, Ive expounded a bit. Wanted to try and bring some seriousness to this question. Im bored, what can I say? lol
 clasact

Joined: 1/18/2008
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Posted: 5/17/2008 6:24:05 PM
Why do you think I carry Mace and a switchblade? Sheesh! It's hard work ya know just beating them off with a bat. That's why I have found Mace and switchblades to be so much less physically taxing when the occassion presents itself on nearly an everyday basis, don't 'cha know.......Somethin's gotta give soon.....it's really getting annoying. But I have a brief respit coming home in the evening, my dogs take over guard duty. ~wry chuckle~
 5udhir

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Posted: 5/17/2008 6:29:50 PM
i know what ur saying. chicks are afraid to talk to you, like they get nervous(like men do). i feel u bro.
 The Danger Zone

Joined: 4/22/2008
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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:55:01 PM
Looks towards Secret Service Agents to make sure it's clear....

Okay... Whew... Escaped 'em again... Gawd do I hate dressing in drag just to keep the girls away..... Oh crap... Here come a bunch of guys now... Gotta go... Sorry OP.... I'm sure you understand though...
 Silver Calla

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Posted: 5/17/2008 7:34:41 PM
OP, "I feel you too bro", my own sexual attraction scares me every time I see my own reflection. I know I personally walk down the street constantly poised to throw elbows at the hapless and love struck (or is that love starved? ...I can never tell the difference) men with starry eyes who may just end up plastered to the backside of my jeans, if I don't blind them first with my elbow.
 actualizing

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Posted: 5/17/2008 7:36:09 PM
I should think it would only be scary if it turned you on when someone was sexually attracted to you....wow, how to handle that???
 giggleparts

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Posted: 5/17/2008 7:37:13 PM
What's really scary... are the people that actually believe their own hype. (Some of you are joking and I get that)

I'm weird-looking... I'm like pseudo good-looking.... but, mostly just for the novelty of it... The longer you stare at me, the worse it gets... until, finally you understand the true depth of dissatisfaction.
 itechman42

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Posted: 5/17/2008 7:48:25 PM
Being a Doofus such as myself has it's advantages as in no phobias about personal sexiness. I don't know, maybe it'd be a good problem to have but as long as I have my health.
 esad

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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:23:02 PM

I just carry a big stick to beat them off!!


Some folks just can not resist turning every thread into a "Size Thread"
 strawbs08

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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:25:56 PM
Its just something ive learnt to live with over the years.......
Reason i dont have a photo is that my gorgeousness would catapault you into the next stratosphere..........................
 giggleparts

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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:29:12 PM
^^^^ Isn't there only one stratosphere? I mean... like whoa.
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