| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 7:54:31 PM | If you were in Public like in a park, bus,train, what or how would a man ideally approach you?Be detailed please, Starting with flirting and how they might ask for your number or so. Men, geneally condfuse women's signals lol.....
what are the signals for interest or not?
Please state an environment (location, time,and whether there are many people or not). | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:21:27 PM | OP, What is it you're looking for? I like creative men, comforting men, assertive men, approachable men, a man that can stand in line at a grocery store for more than 1/2 hour and not get irritable...LOL....Ok, that one was a little goofy...Oh, and BTW, I like goofy off-the-wall men.. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:38:27 PM | To answer your questions fully is a poll, because every human is different and you're wanting a full description of an individual mythical event.
And, yes, this is a very done topic. I'm not sure if it is done to DEATH but, very done, at least.
But I can answer one of your questions.
what are the signals for interest or not?
Not:
When she's on the phone
When she's complaining to a friend about her husband or boyfriend
When she keeps looking over at you and rolling her eyes.
When she SAYS, "No."
When she says, "I'm sorry, sir, now really isn't a good time."
When she shakes her head or tries to wave you off. (It isn't a spasm it means we are trying to do something PLEASE don't bother us)
Uncomfortable smile while shoving into the person next to her.
Pressing the elevator button 85 times while nodding at your story.
Taking the stairs after another 85 times.
Telling you she's not interested. (Really! If she's one of the no means yes women, do you wanna deal with that for the whole relationship?!)
Moving your hand off her body.
Shifting so your hand is off her body.
Slapping your hand.
Calling the cops.
Gritting her teeth.
Holding her purse tightly against her body.
Closing her jacket. (Unless it is really cold and she just got there)
Refusing to look your way even when you're circling the room trying to get in her eye sight.
Making the unpleasant smell face in your general direction.
Never exposing her neck.
A big sigh everytime you say something to her. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:54:10 PM |
Refusing to look your way even when you're circling the room trying to get in her eye sight.
haha I saw a guy who could've used this hint last nite.
I suppose asking would be an easy way of going about this, but everyone is different on how they would like to be approached, basically everyone wants to be approached by someone the find attractive, and would possibly want to approach to begin with. If you're in that stage, it's just a matter of being yourself and hoping for the best.
Other than that, viewing and making mental notes of how certain women react. It's actually usually fairly obvious when someone isn't really interested. Of course if you are the one approaching it's not always as easy to take notice of these signs as you may be busy trying not to make an a$$ of yourself, even if you're doing it already. It's all good...practice definitely helps approaching complete strangers. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:04:23 PM | "practice definitely helps approaching complete strangers."
This is what you're supposed to do in your teenage years. Approach ALL the women you're interested in boning, get used to the laughing while they say no, build up the rejection callus, notice the face they make while you make the approach, etc.
Grab a buddy, do guess and test, and WRITE IT DOWN. As GGW has shown us, 18-22s will do anything infront of a camera. Take the camera and the buddy, approach the girl, ask her why she is/isn't interested. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:08:36 PM | Here is a hint on what NOT to do:
Happened today and irritated the hell out of me, walked into the local grocery store with my two kids to get some items for breakfast in the morning, out in the parking lot a guy was packing his groceries looked over and then proceeded to close his trunk and follow us through the store - every isle 8 steps behind. When i smiled he smiled back and turned red continued to follow us until my son said "momma why is that man following us are we going to get hurt?" I turned around to say - "can i help you?" his answer - No I just want to look
OK freak boy stay away from me and my children a simple hello would be good - a smile - something - YES you were attractive - and YES I would have liked to get to know you - but NOOOO you had to scare my kid..........idiot
OK rant done | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:54:09 PM |
If you were in Public like in a park, bus,train, what or how would a man ideally approach you?
I don't think there IS an ideal way for a strange man to approach me in public unless I've made eye contact with him first and indicated I'd be interested in his approach.
Could be just me, though. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:01:36 PM |
Despite what some may say here, loose the "Rain Coat" and do not ask them :
"Hey Lady! Wanna see somethin' funny ?" .
The last time a man asked me if I wanted to see something funny he pulled out his teeth. Now, that wasn't funny cuz it had hair growing all around the gums....ewwwwww | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:04:49 PM |
This is what you're supposed to do in your teenage years. Approach ALL the women you're interested in boning, get used to the laughing while they say no, build up the rejection callus, notice the face they make while you make the approach, etc.
Unfortunately, whether we were supposed to do this in our teenage years, or not...Not all of us did it, and we can't go back and change that fact so it's time to play catch up. So, guys who did do it are being successful now, the rest of us are getting used to it now. There is nothing wrong with that either...if there is I guess I'm s.o.l. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:16:24 PM | An old stylish saying or some good humor would do it for me. Manners are more important than words.
A man today stood right up in from of me and said " I am glad you are smiling". And I replied: Yes, it's a gorgeous day....
and he said " and you are married", and I replied: "no, but I am busy" and he said " I would have guessed so", and I laughed.
I was a nice innocent encounter. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:29:22 PM | joking around or asking a casual question normally works best for me. on college age women, being playfully obnoxious seems to appeal to them as well. I used that a lot when I was younger.
If they don't like you so what. For every couple girls that happens not to like you, I've found there is one that does, and I'd like to point out she is often better looking than the couple before who did not. Way way better looking, and also classier.
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 7/15/2008 11:10:47 AM | I would be annoyed if someone approached me at a bus or trainstation, when I am travelling I do not wish to be alone and believe me most people can see this on my appareance, i don't exactly look as if I want to take a coffee with them, it is sad that a woman has to put that look on though just to be left alone....
But some men are just rude!
And besides if I was interested I would give small hints anyway.... :)
And if I'm in a park I'm there to relax not to get harrassed by some plonker! | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 7/15/2008 11:56:11 AM | Once again, here is a "nice guy" thread. The poor nice guy who only wants to make you happy and is frustrated by "the rules" or the lack of rules and fixated on the idea that no matter what, he can't win. How do I approach THE RIGHT way, how do I get a girl to like me, how do I this, how do I that.
You know what, you don't ever learn to do things perfectly and avoid all criticism. You simply:
1. figure out what you want and how you feel
2. put it out there
3. allow yourself to be judged by all kinds of people with all different backgrounds and all different value systems until you find someone who's right for you.
Step one is CRUCIAL. Step two can't be skipped, sorry. Step 3 gets easier as you learn how to accept criticism without necissarily reacting to it (mastering Step 1 is what makes step 3 easier). Every woman and every other man on earth has to go through this too, you are no the only one, nice guy. | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 7/15/2008 3:49:21 PM | "Happened today and irritated the hell out of me, walked into the local grocery store with my two kids to get some items for breakfast in the morning, out in the parking lot a guy was packing his groceries looked over and then proceeded to close his trunk and follow us through the store - every isle 8 steps behind. When i smiled he smiled back and turned red continued to follow us until my son said "momma why is that man following us are we going to get hurt?" I turned around to say - "can i help you?" his answer - No I just want to look"
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 7/15/2008 3:59:50 PM | | i be highly annoyed if a guy approached me in public at the bus stop or anywhere really...i don't know them and i don't want to talk to them unless i already know them from msn or through a friend | |
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| How would you like a man to approach you in public?
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:44:39 PM | ^^^^Sounds like it would make a good romantic comedy staring Sandra Bullock or Kate Hudson, maybe. 
(It all began the day his horse ppoped on my bmw. It was a convertable and a present from my daddy on the day I graduated from beauty school...) | |
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