| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:04:41 AM | | I've been on several dates with a man but we have not yet discussed what our relationship is. He has his profile up and i still have mine up. When is it time to have the chat about taking the relationship to exclusive. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:10:27 AM | When is it time to have the chat about taking the relationship to exclusive.
Once you allow yourself to be vulnerable enough to give it a try. When I was seeking relationships I would try to let her know that I didn't want to hang out with anyone else. And we sort of had an understanding at that point. I'd say three months is enough if you have been dating on more than a few occassions. If he's interested I don't believe he will try to jeopardize a relationship with you over pursuing or showing interest in another women. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:18:24 AM | Exclusivity should happen when you decide to have a real relationship and sleep together, especially if you both want to do that without protection.
Communication is the key, and it should be both ways, not you telling him, or him telling you. Try talking to him the way you are talking on here, and see what happens.
You can both leave your profile up, but hide it, and you can change your status to not looking or just friends, and let all know that you are in a relationship and here for just the forums.
Good luck.
Just my opinion........   | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 1:44:53 PM | Which question do you want answered?
How do you know a guy is into you?
or
When is it time to have the chat about taking the relationship to exclusive?
At the same time you discuss what you relationship is? | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 1:55:27 PM | | If you can't tell, it doesn't matter. I never had the problem of her not knowing. She would writhe and squirm like an eel skewered on a harpoon as she strained yielding to my unmistakable intrusion. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 4:43:13 PM | The earliest I've had that conversation was 3 weeks, but we'd seen each other like 10 times in that period. She told me she canceled another date because she was no longer interested in meeting new people; I replied, "Good, I did the same."
The longest I've gone was 3 months. She never felt compelled to bring it up and neither did I. At that point we had both lost interest, and it was clearly not meant to be.
The short answer: If it's been more than a dozen dates, you're probably safe bringing it up. If you're afraid to ask, tell him in a non-threatening way that you aren't seeing anyone else. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 7:18:04 PM |
Which question do you want answered?
Indeed, Ray. These are two COMPLETELY different questions.
How do you know if he's into you? Simple. The joys of the penis. ASK HIM. To make up a number, 90% answer this honestly. This question is not one that scares the penis holders.
Being exclusive? That is a discussion and, normally a compromise. I'm normally the one in the relationship that says, "Pfffft. Exclusive? Were you planning on getting some tonight? I wasn't." But, everyone is different.
This discussion is the same as the sex discussion. Follow these simple rules and you're always ready: If you don't have the balls to ask if they have an STD, you don't get sex. If you aren't comfortable discussing a ban on dating other people, you don't get to be exclusive.
"pressure in your pelvic area,silly grin on his face," Coolguy24 states, helping my claim that men are honest. No sugar coating, no beating around the bush, no "well if the guy holds your purse when you're shopping," as long as he's not someone in retail and you're confusing his friendliness with passion, guys are just easier to read and when you ask them simple questions they give you the answer. "Do I look fat?" Is a simple question, but the negative feedback has taught many men this is a trick question.
...Side note on simple questions. Please stop asking eachother, "Do I look that stupid?!" in public. That is just mean to all the people around you holding in laughter and comments similar to, "Hell, yeah, ya do!" | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/19/2008 9:28:51 PM |
When is it time to have the chat about taking the relationship to exclusive
Whenever you fukin feel like it? No, only after midnight on Tuesdays, but only if you haven't eaten......... | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/20/2008 12:28:27 AM |
How do you know a guy is into you?
Honey....if you can't tell that by now...... either you need to see the OB GYNY dude....or you need to order him some EXTENZE............. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/20/2008 1:31:58 AM |
Whenever you fukin feel like it? No, only after midnight on Tuesdays, but only if you haven't eaten.........
No no ! Tuesday is fine . It's on Thursdays that you can't do that. And if you eat after midnight, little furry balls pop out of you. Then they turn into little green helions. You'll need to have a microwave and a blender handy if want to try that. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:51:33 AM | > When is it time to have the chat about taking the relationship to exclusive.
Never!
Stick a fork in his eye first. If he likes that, he then might also go for "the chat". | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:20:00 AM | I think you should be confident of your relationship status before bringing up the "exclusivity" discussion. For all you know, if he's not in the same phase as you, he'll start to feel weird.. And you don't want that, do you??
On the other hand, you should bring up the conversation asap. It'll give you some peace of mind and you'll know whats going on with your relationship. | |
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| How do you know a guy is into you?
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:29:50 AM | He will show assertiveness toward you. Compliment you, do gestures for you. Body language, he will touch you in some sublte way, wink, his face will light up.
Oh and a big thing... if you compliment him and he just says... thanks... that's a big sign he's not interested in romance with you. | |
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